How to find another lady with my lady

[KatieDoes]

Yeah, your probly right. I probly owe u an apology. U have clearly out-witted me. I am so ashamed of myself.

Thanks, it happens a lot. Mostly to weak ass men. Have a great night,

 

[pussyhammer2021]

Thanks, it happens a lot. Mostly to weak ass men. Have a great night,

Hahahaha...fyi, not being able to lift rosie odonnel doesnt make a man weak. Only 5% of men in the world can do that and 0% women

 

[KatieDoes]

Hahahaha...fyi, not being able to lift rosie odonnel doesnt make a man weak. Only 5% of men in the world can do that and 0% women

Rosie could actually make your wife cum. No wonder you are fixated on her.

 

[pussyhammer2021]

Rosie could actually make your wife cum. No wonder you are fixated on her.

Well im sure with the dick rosie has, u may be right...might be almost as big as yours.

 

[KatieDoes]

Well im sure with the dick rosie has, u may be right...might be almost as big as yours.

You’re being very emotional, and seem very delicate. Are you ok?

 

[pussyhammer2021]

You’re being very emotional, and seem very delicate. Are you ok?

no...u have me feeling like im less of a man. Please give me some immasculating feminist advice

 

[KatieDoes]

no...u have me feeling like im less of a man. Please give me some immasculating feminist advice

* emasculating

I think you’re good. I don’t enjoy participating in men’s humiliation kinks.

 

[pussyhammer2021]

U know...i started off feelin bad for your husband...and i still do. But your kinda fun to mess with. U moved up a notch in my book. Your up to a 1 now

 

[Barbelle]

I know little about gay and bi-sexual women,

Then, maybe a good time to let others speak. Instead…wall of text.

 

[KatieDoes]

U know...i started off feelin bad for your husband...and i still do. But your kinda fun to mess with. U moved up a notch in my book. Your up to a 1 now

Your book is absolutely of no concern or interest to me.

 

[pussyhammer2021]

Your book is absolutely of no concern or interest to me.

Ahhh....u cant read? Im sorry

 

[KatieDoes]

Then, maybe a good time to let others speak. Instead…wall of text.

He also seems to think that (while he’s speaking for women) a woman is going to come to dinner at the home of an absolute stranger the first time she meets them. Because that’s not at all a great way to end up chopped to bits in a series of shallow graves,


These dudes think that Pornhub is real, and a documentary. Can’t help them.

 

[Barbelle]

I am also going to strongly recommend against the clearly uninformed advice of going to a “lesbian club”.

Please do not insert yourselves into queer spaces for your unicorn hunt. Try an event open to couples and singles, or place an ad on a platform where you are fully transparent and someone can choose to reach out if you mutually meet stated parameters.

Don’t be bummed if it doesn’t happen immediately or at all. There is a far greater demand than supply for this scenario for numerous reasons, but you can always have fun with the fantasy at home.

 

[Barbelle]

He also seems to think that (while he’s speaking for women) a woman is going to come to to dinner at the home of an absolute stranger the first time she meets them.

Oh, I couldn’t get past the part attempting to explain to you the needs and emotions involved in intimacy for hetero women

 

[ericalauren]

I cant help it but when i read this post, all i see is rosie odonnel screaming this. Sounds like a full blown lesbian feminist instead of someone actually understanding the op's context. I can understand the op's question bc my wife has the same curiosity but believe it or not, not all women are as assertive and mouthy as u obviously are

If I were a woman, I would definitely get a tshirt made that reads “full blown lesbian feminist”. I may even put “assertive and mouthy” on the back of said tshirt. On a serious note, stop being sexist. You are truly being terrible.

 

[pussyhammer2021]

If I were a woman, I would definitely get a tshirt made that reads “full blown lesbian feminist”. I may even put “assertive and mouthy” on the back of said tshirt. On a serious note, stop being sexist. You are truly being terrible.

Feel free to explain where im being sexist, or not, i dont care. I will concede that i was being terrible only bc it irritates me when people are blinded by their biases and then go on a warpath against someone bc they cant get out of their own perspective. The gentleman she responded to was asking for legitimate advice and this poster decided her 2 cents was relevant. I just took exception.

 

[KatieDoes]

Feel free to explain where im being sexist, or not, i dont care. I will concede that i was being terrible only bc it irritates me when people are blinded by their biases and then go on a warpath against someone bc they cant get out of their own perspective. The gentleman she responded to was asking for legitimate advice and this poster decided her 2 cents was relevant. I just took exception.

He asked for legitimate advice, and I gave him legitimate advice from the perspective of the women that he would be trying to find.

That my advice (bisexual women don’t like being approached by the husband in this scenario, as it can feel as though the wife is being coerced and it’s for him and not about what she wants) does not read like the pornhub script you all think is real life, does not mean that my advice was invalid.

My advice was legitimate. It just wasn’t what he wanted to hear, so he dismissed it for the advice of men who told him what he wanted to hear.

 

[pussyhammer2021]

He asked for legitimate advice, and I gave him legitimate advice from the perspective of the women that he would be trying to find.

That my advice (bisexual women don’t like being approached by the husband in this scenario, as it can feel as though the wife is being coerced and it’s for him and not about what she wants) does not read like the pornhub script you all think is real life, does not mean that my advice was invalid.

My advice was legitimate. It just wasn’t what he wanted to hear, so he dismissed it for the advice of men who told him what he wanted to hear.

He never said anything about approaching anyone. He literally asked for advice on how him and his s/o might go about the scenario. Go back and reread his post, but before u do, place some reality glasses over your feminist eyes and then see if u get the same interpretation.

 

[KatieDoes]

He never said anything about approaching anyone. He literally asked for advice on how him and his s/o might go about the scenario. Go back and reread his post, but before u do, place some reality glasses over your feminist eyes and then see if u get the same interpretation.

Feminist eyes are reality, and it’s interesting that you think believing women are people and have agency makes me a raging offensive feminist. I know what he asked for. My advice stands. He is free to ignore it, and the advice of every other woman, and take the advice of the man who tells women how women feel about sex. That will surely lead him to a queue of sexy unicorns, as per the porno script.

 

[pussyhammer2021]

Feminist eyes are reality, and it’s interesting that you think believing women are people and have agency makes me a raging offensive feminist. I know what he asked for. My advice stands. He is free to ignore it, and the advice of every other woman, and take the advice of the man who tells women how women feel about sex. That will surely lead him to a queue of sexy unicorns, as per the porno script.

Feminism 20-40 years ago, i can agree with u...but todays feminism is just man-hating. Your interpretations of what people say are more about u trying to speak for them rather than hearing what they are actually saying. The man seemed intelligent enough to decipher between the responses of men trying to force the scenario from those that spoke from their experiences, but hey, he can ignore all of that when he has an oracle such as yourself chiming in. I personally took what he was asking as a sincere question, free of coercion but u obviously disagree. Then again, im not a feminist so maybe thats the difference.

 

[KatieDoes]

Feminism 20-40 years ago, i can agree with u...but todays feminism is just man-hating. Your interpretations of what people say are more about u trying to speak for them rather than hearing what they are actually saying. The man seemed intelligent enough to decipher between the responses of men trying to force the scenario from those that spoke from their experiences, but hey, he can ignore all of that when he has an oracle such as yourself chiming in. I personally took what he was asking as a sincere question, free of coercion but u obviously disagree. Then again, im not a feminist so maybe thats the difference

If you hate women, just say that.

My last attempt:

For a woman who meets the criteria of being a unicorn, being approached by a husband or a couple feels as though the woman is doing it to please her man, not because she’s fully invested and interested. Regardless of his proclamations, regardless of the fantasies of the men posting here. It doesn’t especially matter to the potential woman in question that he doesn’t think it appears coercive.

 

[pussyhammer2021]

If you hate women, just say that.

My last attempt:

For a woman who meets the criteria of being a unicorn, being approached by a husband or a couple feels as though the woman is doing it to please her man, not because she’s fully invested and interested. Regardless of his proclamations, regardless of the fantasies of the men posting here. It doesn’t especially matter to the potential woman in question that he doesn’t think it appears coercive.

There u go again...where did i say i hate women?

 

[Goldenfinger]

Wouldn’t it be better if she found her own lady.

 

[Commodore69]

I appreciate all the advice. Thanks for your input if you took the time to leave a thoughtful comment. The post has evolved into something I didn’t intend it to be. No need for it to turn into an argument so I’ll just cut it off here. I believe I asked a legitimate question from a curious standpoint based on a discussion between me and my future spouse and now I have everyone’s answers and opinions. No need to comment further.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

I think if you take nothing else away from this, listen to what KatieDoes says.

So many threads on here are by guys wanting to know how to get their wives to do stuff. Kind of implies a medieval level of ownership that shouldn't exist any more.

On the occasions when I want to play with a woman I head to the next big town which has about a dozen lesbian bars. It's not difficult. but I do it to please me, not a guy.