How to get over your first Sir?

[DeepGreenEyes]

But what about all the other submissive women that need there minds opened?

Or their whatevers!

Their welcome, too. But I have to say, I could also use a real mind-opening, or lobotmizing, or whatever, for the next four years.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Farawyn]

Their welcome, too. But I have to say, I could also use a real mind-opening, or lobotmizing or whatever, for the next four years.

I think the lobotomizing has begun.

 

[Cakecups]

Their welcome, too. But I have to say, I could also use a real mind-opening, or lobotmizing, or whatever, for the next four years.

No lobotmizing allowed

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

What about trepanation?

Sigh. No. Living in fucking Trupanation.

I think the lobotomizing has begun.

No lobotmizing allowed

Sorry. I meant lobstmizing (savoring my brain with butter while wearing a little bib).

 

[aella88]

When you truly have an intimate close relationship with someone and share your soul with them I don't think you ever truly get over it. Every day it just hurts a little less.

It's hard to let the unicorns go once you find them but once the magics gone your just flogging a dead horse.

Keep smiling babe good things are always around the corner x

 

[firefighterscott]

A dom should always put his sub first.

 

[Miasorrow]

I realize that I thought that the magic of this amazing new dynamic was in the other person, or in the relationship with that person.

It isn't. It's part of you, and it's portable.

I so much relate to that.
The magic is part of you and you will have it again or not but as I have been told a man is not a magician: he can't create something out if nothing. When something exists though, his strength and control can use it in a type is synergy, so the stronger you are, the stronger he becomes.

 

[RoyalScorpio]

Thank you all for your sharing wisdom. Much appreciated.