How to... Survive a Break Up.

[Marisia]

I've been there myself, too many times. Definitely is time to move on and forget. Even if she decides to "come back", seems like you would always wonder when she may do it again.
Good luck to you.

 

[Mhorashty]

An Update

Note: I posted this in my MySpace originally. I'm not posting my MySpace name here, however, if you PM and want me to add you to my friends list on MySpace I will.

So.. I think perhaps time for an update.

I'm single again for the first time in almost four years. I'm kinda bummed about it. Mostly because it is fresh, and painful, and I didn't really see it coming. We are going to try and be friends, and to aide that I am moving out of the apartment we share. I'm going to be moving back to my mom's for a few months. I have a favor to ask of all of my friends, if I am not moved out of my mom's by my birthday (Feb. 18th) I need someone to slap me. I want to be out of there by the beginning March at the absolute latest. This will give me some chances, 1) the chance to be away from her and give those wounds some time to heal. 2) It will give me some time to work on some of my issues. 3) It will give me the chance to save up the money I will need for a new apartment, and to pay down some debts. 4) It will aide me in motivating me to not stay in bed or around the house because between my mom, my sisters, and my grandmother I will want to spend as little time there as possible. This means I'll go to the gym more, I'll go to work more, etc.

I've been making some new friends here on MySpace which I look forward to learning more about them. I'm touching base with some old friends again and look forward to hanging out with them more. I've spent some more time gaming (playing board games, video games, card games, and even some Role-Playing Games).

I'm setting myself some goals and posting them here because I figure between them being public, and posted to where some of my friends could see them I am hoping to further motivate myself into accomplishing them.

Goals:
Work 24 hrs this week at Job 1.
Work 19 hrs this week at Job 2.
Work 4 hrs this week at Job 3.
Make it to the Gym three days this week for at least an hour per trip. (Monday/Wednesday/Friday)

Work 32 hrs next week at Job 1. (Keep this up and hopefully advance to 36 hours within a month and 40 hours within 2 months)
Work 19 hrs next week at Job 2. (Keep this up)
Work 4 hrs next week at Job 3. (Keep this up and hopefully advance it as able)
Make it to the Gym three days next week for at least an hour per trip. (Monday/Wednesday/Friday) (Keep this up and maybe add a fourth day after a successful month of going three days a week)

Pay down account balance at Gym (Dec. 2nd)
Go to the Tartan Terrors Christmas show in York, Pa. (Dec. 21st or Dec. 22nd)
Have a new cell phone by Christmas (Dec. 25th)
Make a trip out to see friends and family (Between Dec. 26th 2007 and Jan. 17th 2008)
Moved out of my Mom's (Feb. 18th - March 1st 2008)
Make a trip down to Florida (March or April 2008)
Get my motorcycle liscence (May 2008)
Make it out to GenCon (August 2008)
Resume College Classes (September 2008)
Start Learning How to Play a Musical Instrument (September 2008)


I plan to keep this blog as accurate and up to date as possible to let people know how far along I'm coming, if I need help, idea's, thoughts, suggestions, etc. Please keep checking and if you see anything you think you can give me advice on, or help with or whatever speak up!

Later people!

 

[Eroticess34]

Deleted: I was venting about my own pain and this isn't the place. Good luck to you.

 

[somberReality]

Note: I posted this in my MySpace originally. I'm not posting my MySpace name here, however, if you PM and want me to add you to my friends list on MySpace I will.

So.. I think perhaps time for an update.

I'm single again for the first time in almost four years. I'm kinda bummed about it. Mostly because it is fresh, and painful, and I didn't really see it coming. We are going to try and be friends, and to aide that I am moving out of the apartment we share. I'm going to be moving back to my mom's for a few months. I have a favor to ask of all of my friends, if I am not moved out of my mom's by my birthday (Feb. 18th) I need someone to slap me. I want to be out of there by the beginning March at the absolute latest. This will give me some chances, 1) the chance to be away from her and give those wounds some time to heal. 2) It will give me some time to work on some of my issues. 3) It will give me the chance to save up the money I will need for a new apartment, and to pay down some debts. 4) It will aide me in motivating me to not stay in bed or around the house because between my mom, my sisters, and my grandmother I will want to spend as little time there as possible. This means I'll go to the gym more, I'll go to work more, etc.

I've been making some new friends here on MySpace which I look forward to learning more about them. I'm touching base with some old friends again and look forward to hanging out with them more. I've spent some more time gaming (playing board games, video games, card games, and even some Role-Playing Games).

I'm setting myself some goals and posting them here because I figure between them being public, and posted to where some of my friends could see them I am hoping to further motivate myself into accomplishing them.

Goals:
Work 24 hrs this week at Job 1.
Work 19 hrs this week at Job 2.
Work 4 hrs this week at Job 3.
Make it to the Gym three days this week for at least an hour per trip. (Monday/Wednesday/Friday)

Work 32 hrs next week at Job 1. (Keep this up and hopefully advance to 36 hours within a month and 40 hours within 2 months)
Work 19 hrs next week at Job 2. (Keep this up)
Work 4 hrs next week at Job 3. (Keep this up and hopefully advance it as able)
Make it to the Gym three days next week for at least an hour per trip. (Monday/Wednesday/Friday) (Keep this up and maybe add a fourth day after a successful month of going three days a week)

Pay down account balance at Gym (Dec. 2nd)
Go to the Tartan Terrors Christmas show in York, Pa. (Dec. 21st or Dec. 22nd)
Have a new cell phone by Christmas (Dec. 25th)
Make a trip out to see friends and family (Between Dec. 26th 2007 and Jan. 17th 2008)
Moved out of my Mom's (Feb. 18th - March 1st 2008)
Make a trip down to Florida (March or April 2008)
Get my motorcycle liscence (May 2008)
Make it out to GenCon (August 2008)
Resume College Classes (September 2008)
Start Learning How to Play a Musical Instrument (September 2008)


I plan to keep this blog as accurate and up to date as possible to let people know how far along I'm coming, if I need help, idea's, thoughts, suggestions, etc. Please keep checking and if you see anything you think you can give me advice on, or help with or whatever speak up!

Later people!

Sounds like you are keeping yourself busy. I wish you well.

 

[SimpleGifts]

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This will give me some chances, 1) the chance to be away from her and give those wounds some time to heal. 2) It will give me some time to work on some of my issues. 3) It will give me the chance to save up the money I will need for a new apartment, and to pay down some debts. 4) It will aide me in motivating me to not stay in bed or around the house because between my mom, my sisters, and my grandmother I will want to spend as little time there as possible. This means I'll go to the gym more, I'll go to work more, etc.

As I wrote recently elsewhere, one limitation we humans seem to have is that we see constraints first, and they block us from seeing possibilities.

Glad that you're starting to see the possibilities. Bon courage to you.

SG