How to teach someone eager to give a good BJ?

[Swuchro]

Talk with her! Give her instructions as to what feels good and what you like. I am sure she would find it hot if you gave her "orders" during the entire process ( I know I like it!) The video is a good idea. If she is hung up on that title, find another. There are plenty out there. Maybe search for them from a woman's perspective such as "romantic blow job videos" or "porn for women"

This. I taught my wife as she would go down me. I get a customized bjs per week. She now doesn’t it perfectly.

She did the same for me eating her pussy. I can get her off multiples times now that she has coached me up.

 

[xxkimberlyv]

This. I taught my wife as she would go down me. I get a customized bjs per week. She now doesn’t it perfectly.

She did the same for me eating her pussy. I can get her off multiples times now that she has coached me up.

I think it is overlooked to often the value of open and honest communication. It your partner isn't doing what you want, politely, tell them or even show them

 

[Swuchro]

I think it is overlooked to often the value of open and honest communication. It your partner isn't doing what you want, politely, tell them or even show them

Talking would be preferable to texting.

 

[Supplyanddemand]

I think it is overlooked to often the value of open and honest communication. It your partner isn't doing what you want, politely, tell them or even show them

I prefer to give exact instructions and make sure she does as expected. Or get punished.

 

[jehoram]

You can watch a lot of You Tube videos but until you actually have a cock in your mouth, it doesn't mean anything. Even then it may still not mean anything. Did anyone ever to learn to ride a bicycle watching You Tube videos?

No, but I learned to fix a car or re-pipe a house from them. It's a matter of technique. So I don't see why a good instructional video for a blow job would be much different. In fact, watch several of them, so you can learn how different techniques work. He can't tell you what he likes unless he's already had that technique worked on him, just like he can't know what snails taste like until he tastes one. So learn, be creative, do things and get feedback.

 

[Escierto]

No, but I learned to fix a car or re-pipe a house from them. It's a matter of technique. So I don't see why a good instructional video for a blow job would be much different. In fact, watch several of them, so you can learn how different techniques work. He can't tell you what he likes unless he's already had that technique worked on him, just like he can't know what snails taste like until he tastes one. So learn, be creative, do things and get feedback.

I admit that car repair is one of the strengths of the You Tube do it yourself videos.

 

[xxkimberlyv]

I admit that car repair is one of the strengths of the You Tube do it yourself videos.

I believe they call that porn

 

[Escierto]

I believe they call that porn

Car repair porn?

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

No, but I learned to fix a car or re-pipe a house from them. It's a matter of technique. So I don't see why a good instructional video for a blow job would be much different. In fact, watch several of them, so you can learn how different techniques work. He can't tell you what he likes unless he's already had that technique worked on him, just like he can't know what snails taste like until he tastes one. So learn, be creative, do things and get feedback.

I had my first taste of snails when I was on a cruise - and I liked it. Once I got past the mental block, I've looked forward to them. I'm guessing that I might have the same experience with blowjobs. I know what I like, so, if I concentrate, I could probably apply that technique to giving one, and post it on Youtube. From my experience, guys give the best blowjobs.

 

[likitisplit]

i always felt like if someone really, really wants to suck a dick....they don't need to be taught anything just turn them loose.

 

[likitisplit]

The first boy I went down on stopped me in about 5 min and took me home LOL

but he was not the last???

 

[AchtungNight]

I read a story recently where a girl counsels a guy on how to better eat her girlfriend’s pussy. Perhaps a mutual girlfriend can also advise you on how to blow a guy?

 

[Cherylinheels]

'Okay now, I'm going to show you this one more time!"

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I read a story recently where a girl counsels a guy on how to better eat her girlfriend’s pussy. Perhaps a mutual girlfriend can also advise you on how to blow a guy?

I learned from watching my bestie on her BF

 

[Bigboobbabe]

With my husband, 34 yrs married, I had only made him cum 3 or 4 times from my mouth. About the same with my hands.

I found it took so long, my mouth would hurt and I would get bored.

I watched videos alone, practiced on a dildo.

When we split, I sought the opportunity to suck as many cocks as possible. I met guys I chatted with, either in parking lots or video stores.
I practiced and practiced, until I realized, I was not the problem. I had sucked atleast 2 dozen different cocks, with huge success.

I find watching a future partner masturbate gives me insight on how to stroke and suck him.

Does she watch you masturbate? Help you masturbate?

Because I love the journey of cock sucking as much as the destination of swallowing or wearing his cum, I go for some short bursts of sucking, so I can try different positions and motions and keep it fresh.

If she wants ideas of great BJ's, I have some great descriptions in previous posts.

 

[Britva415]

I don't see why a good instructional video for a blow job would be much different

Riding a bike and giving a good blow job are things you have to feel to get right. Not true for the examples you gave.

"What to do" is information. That's enough for fixing a car or plumbing a house. But bike riding isn't just about "what to do," you have to feel it. And giving a blow job, you have to feel more than just what a dick in your mouth feels like, you have to feel how it feels to the other person.

This is why "instructional videos" are barely scratching the surface. They can't tell you whether the bike likes what you're doing or whether the pipes and the house are vibing together or hurting each other.

 

[Britva415]

Car repair porn?

"Sorry Mister, I don't have enough in my purse to pay you..." *porn music*

 

[Britva415]

i always felt like if someone really, really wants to suck a dick....they don't need to be taught anything just turn them loose.

Nah, there's definitely people who love to suck but don't pay any attention to whether they're pleasing the other person or not.

 

[jehoram]

Riding a bike and giving a good blow job are things you have to feel to get right. Not true for the examples you gave.

"What to do" is information. That's enough for fixing a car or plumbing a house. But bike riding isn't just about "what to do," you have to feel it. And giving a blow job, you have to feel more than just what a dick in your mouth feels like, you have to feel how it feels to the other person.

This is why "instructional videos" are barely scratching the surface. They can't tell you whether the bike likes what you're doing or whether the pipes and the house are vibing together or hurting each other.

I do get that. In some ways, oral sex is like learning to play a musical instrument. There are videos on teaching you how, but it's up to you to make the music. I agree that techniques alone aren't going to be enough to get the job done.

But you have to use a technique, either collected from the internet or proposed by your partner, and ask your partner "Do you like how I this? Should I do it harder/softer/faster/slower? Let me switch to another technique... how do you like it now? Not as much? Better?" The more tricks you have up your sleeve, the more options you have.