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[Kitt_e_Katt_za]

Rule 1. 99% of guys will say that they like getting head. The 1% are lying.

Rule 1A. Most guys will agree that even not-particularly-good head is better than no head. (YMMV with braces and vampire canines, of course.)

Put that together and your guy is going to like your oral moves. He will like them even better as you two learn more about each other and what works for you. Good sex is about learning what pleases your partner. And vice versa.

Rule 2. You should be doing it because you want to, not because it is expected of you. If he's demanding it, dump him and find a gentleman who appreciates you. No compromise.

Rule 3. You're in control. No? Consider than you've got your hand around his eggs and a mouthful of sharp teeth. You're in control.

OK, enough rules. Time for some suggestions.

If he's too big around to fit into your mouth (cover those teeth!), then lick - tongue-flicks around his head and slit, broad strokes everywhere. Repeat until his eyes cross. Lick behind his sac, lick his thighs, return to the main event.

If he's too long and you're worried about him poking the back of your throat, wrap your hand around his shaft and only take into your mouth that bit extending beyond your hand.

Suction is good, tongue motion inside your mouth is even better.

While your mouth is busy making him happy, you have two hands to make him still happier. Fondle the Boys with one hand, stroke and pump his shaft with the other.

Keep your eyes on the guy's! Seriously, your looking up at him with some enjoyment on your face will do wonders for his ego, pleasure and satisfaction.

Decide in advance how you're going to handle the inevitable. Swallowing is another ego-boost for the guy, but not every girl is up for that and that's entirely OK; you can always put that thing in another orifice for the grand finale. If not, well, spitting is kind of icky, so consider finishing him off with your hand. Either catch it in a hanky or enjoy the fountain, 'cause he will.

Now, all that said, go back to Rule 1 and whatever you do, do it happily and with enthusiasm.

Then remind him that sauce for the gander is sauce for the goose. "My turn, dude..."

Have fun.

I feel like I need to write this all down, definitely great advice...

 

[Willy1x]

Girl - you have mad

I think it's just as much a visual experience as it is a sensual one. You need to present it well which requires building anticipation. Warming him up, so to speak . Most important is thar you are comfortable with yourself and your sexuality. Bring out the inner slut, and I am not using that term in an offensive or negative way.
Also it's not just using your mouth. Use all your assets, girl.
In terms of presentation, draw his attention to your lips and tits. Put on some wet/shiny lip gloss and show him some cleavage. Give him subtle signs, like biting your lower lip while looking at him. Start with his hand/finger and give him an idea of what your mouth feels like. Lick and suck on his finger like it's his shaft, all the while maintaining eye contact and giving him the occasional subtle sigh or moan.
Unwrap it slowly, trace the outline through his boxers/briefs while letting him know that thinking about playing with his cock is making your pussy tingle and your panties/thong creamy.
Bring your tits into the game. Circle your nipples with the head. If his precum leaves a trace and your tits are big enough, suck it from your nipple. Let him feel and see your soft hands wrapped around his hard shaft.
At some point he'll want to either fuck your tits, your mouth, or both. But take it slow. Tease him. Bring out the animal .
If possible, let an ice cube melt in your mouth before licking/sucking on it. The sensation of your cold lips/tongue/mouth on his hot, pulsing cock will make him think he died and entered heaven. When he gasps for air and grabs you by the hair, you know you are on the right track. Just my 2 cents....

Come to my place !

 

[LongDraw]

Rule 1. 99% of guys will say that they like getting head. The 1% are lying.

Rule 1A. Most guys will agree that even not-particularly-good head is better than no head. (YMMV with braces and vampire canines, of course.)

...

Suction is good, tongue motion inside your mouth is even better.

While your mouth is busy making him happy, you have two hands to make him still happier. Fondle the Boys with one hand, stroke and pump his shaft with the other.

Keep your eyes on the guy's! Seriously, your looking up at him with some enjoyment on your face will do wonders for his ego, pleasure and satisfaction.

Decide in advance how you're going to handle the inevitable. Swallowing is another ego-boost for the guy, but not every girl is up for that and that's entirely OK; you can always put that thing in another orifice for the grand finale. If not, well, spitting is kind of icky, so consider finishing him off with your hand. Either catch it in a hanky or enjoy the fountain, 'cause he will.

...

Then remind him that sauce for the gander is sauce for the goose. "My turn, dude..."

Have fun.

Rule 1: Not always true. I've been unfortunate enough to experience boring head. Her mouth was wet, but felt like dipping it in a pool, no suction, no tongue, just boring.
Rule 1A: I'd add drawing blood to the list, I got excited one time and it put a quick end to the head.
Next point is right on 100%
Next point is right on 200%
Next point very important.
Yeah, you better have a plan if you expect success or the guy has a low threshold.
Doesn't always have to be this way. I've heard from more than a few women that they didn't want to receive, they only preferred to give. Whatever floats your boat, right?
Exactly, if it ain't fun, don't do it.

 

[Kitt_e_Katt_za]

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Rule 1: Not always true. I've been unfortunate enough to experience boring head. Her mouth was wet, but felt like dipping it in a pool, no suction, no tongue, just boring.
Rule 1A: I'd add drawing blood to the list, I got excited one time and it put a quick end to the head.
Next point is right on 100%
Next point is right on 200%
Next point very important.
Yeah, you better have a plan if you expect success or the guy has a low threshold.
Doesn't always have to be this way. I've heard from more than a few women that they didn't want to receive, they only preferred to give. Whatever floats your boat, right?
Exactly, if it ain't fun, don't do it.

I agree wholeheartedly, if it's not working rather finds something that brings on the goosebumps, if it doesn't make you hot thinking about doing it no point forcing it

 

[KatieDoes]

I know there are probably many threads similar,
This is one of my biggest fears, I just never got it right.
I have a smaller than usual mouth and just feel awkward and eventually I just get in my head and the poor man gives up.
Now I'm just plain terrified....
Anyone have advice .. this should be easy as pie why can't I get it right?

Your small mouth will make his dick look bigger, which he‘ll love.

No man in the history of men has ever been mad at a woman on her knees with his dick in her mouth that stops sucking just long enough to look up at him and say ’I really want your cum, but your dick is so big‘

If you want to try working through your gag reflex with a dildo, make sure it’s a ‘real skin’ texture dildo, and not too rigid. A real cock (even a rock hard one) will slide and shift to find the opening in your throat. Lots of dildos are made of material that will cling and drag on the delicate skin at the top of your throat, leading to discomfort that won’t occur when you’re sucking an actual dick.

If you’re into the guy, and you really want to please him, you’re halfway there. Be honest, and enthusiastic. Be willing to get messy. If you go deep enough to gag, use that spit to your advantage. Run your lips up and down his length, suck his balls while you stroke him. Look up at him as much as you can. Back to my earlier point, no man has ever been mad at a woman thats looking up at him with his wet dick on her face and his balls in her mouth.

View his cum as a reward for a job well done. It’s not gross if you want it. See it as your prize, and be hungry for it.


Lastly… get your tits out and use one hand to play with your pussy if you can. Tell him it’s making you wet to have his dick in your mouth. If you’re in your knees, grind on your hand while you’re sucking him. It will help you lose yourself in the moment, and it will be a huge turn on for him to know that sucking him turns you on.

Have fun. Try not to worry about being ‘good enough‘ at it, and just be shamelessly eager in showing him that you want to do it.

 

[schoolgirlsubslut]

I know this will sound kind of lame and cliche but ENTHUSIASM ENTHUSIASM ENTHUSIASM. You have to LOVE what you're doing act like its a treat to do it. The positive vibes will make up for lack of skill which comes in time.

 

[Akinkymind]

I think that the comments regarding your enthusiasm are particularly key, as are the suggestions about making a show of it too. The only caveat there is that just being enthusiastic without also being aware of his response can be problematic. I once had a blowjob from a girl who was very new to giving them, and while she was very enthusiastic, her actions were completely out of sync with how it was feeling on my end. It was way too much, too fast, and too rough, and didn’t feel that great at all. It is important to pay attention to what he likes, how he likes it, and when he likes it.

One suggestion I have would be to do a lot of oral as foreplay, rather than just focusing on giving him a blowjob to completion. The idea being that you will get a lot of practice at learning his body and his mind without the pressure on either one of you to be able to take it all the way over the top. Of course if things happen to be going particularly well, you don’t have to stop! On the other hand, it can be a lot less fun trying to endure a blowjob from someone who is obviously not sure what to do but is also clearly wanting the validation that they are doing it right; not a great feeling for either one. In that same scenario, it can feel pretty good for a little bit, and makes a great lead into other activities.

Whatever you do, above all else just be sure that you have fun doing it!

 

[TarnishedPenny]

Absolutely! Visible enjoyment and enthusiasm are going to make him very, very happy.

 

[hanban24]

I’ve found that every man likes different things or has preconceived notions on what a BJ should entail. I normally start by trying a few different things when I’m with a new guy and learn what he likes best.

As far as things to try:
-Always be enthusiastic. Let’s be real, sticking a cock in your mouth isn’t always what you are in the mood for. Oral is less about you and more about him, just like the reverse should apply when he goes down on you. A guy generally enjoys it if he thinks I’m enjoying it as well. Smile, moan, seem like you are happy to be there. If you come off like you aren’t enjoying it, it will be a turn off.
-Try to mix things up. A blowjob isn’t always about turning your mouth into a vagina for a guy to bury himself in. Oral gives you a chance to utilize your lips, but even more than that. Try using your hands to stroke him or play with his balls. Use your tongue to lick.
-Deepthroating is a bonus, not a requirement. I can deep throat’s a reasonably sized penis, but it is more of a trick to throw in the mix than something you need to do to give good head. The majority of the sensitive parts of a guys penis are at the tip. This doesn’t mean you need to only focus on the tip, quite the contrary. Just like you don’t necessarily want some guy going ballistic on your clit, too much at once can be bad. But, you’ll get the biggest bang for the buck when you are good at his tip.
-Accept you won’t be perfect. Don’t pressure yourself into thinking you need to be perfect. I almost guarantee you that your man will be happy to just be getting head. Practice helps.

 

[30bandits]

I don't have a partner, I just want to make sure if I do meet someone that my fear or inexperience doesn't hold me back

practice on me.

 

[Kitt_e_Katt_za]

practice on me.

Now someone speaks up....

 

[30bandits]

Now someone speaks up....

i've been around....too late?

 

[Kitt_e_Katt_za]

Showing you're enjoying it is a definitely a key factor. Look up into his eyes as well. There are some articles in the How To section on the main site that you may find helpful.

Thank you will look into it

 

[tristantrotsky]

I know there are probably many threads similar,
This is one of my biggest fears, I just never got it right.
I have a smaller than usual mouth and just feel awkward and eventually I just get in my head and the poor man gives up.
Now I'm just plain terrified....
Anyone have advice .. this should be easy as pie why can't I get it right?

Don't worry Kitt-e-Katt,
just enjoy what you're doing, just do what feels good,
and everything will work out fine.
Make sure he licks your pussy too...

 

[EdEc]

I know there are probably many threads similar,
This is one of my biggest fears, I just never got it right.
I have a smaller than usual mouth and just feel awkward and eventually I just get in my head and the poor man gives up.
Now I'm just plain terrified....
Anyone have advice .. this should be easy as pie why can't I get it right?

Be careful with your teeth and don't lick the slit.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Hands free.

 

[Kitt_e_Katt_za]

Be careful with your teeth and don't lick the slit.

Does it hurt, the slit I mean? Still trying to work out what to do with teeth.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

The idea is to stimulate and excite him right? Teeth give you an extra option.

Think about a man with his mouth on your breasts and the things he can do that you find pleasurable. He's got a tongue, lips, suction - and teeth. Obviously, his biting hard with bare teeth is going to be a turn-off for all but a very few ladies. But a skilled lover giving periodic gentle, just-barely-there nips can add to a woman's excitement and enjoyment. It's no different with a man's penis.

Teeth are hard and have sharp edges and points that need to be covered with your lips, especially when you're learning how. But lightly grazing his organ, occasionally giving very gentle nips can 'up the voltage', if you follow my drift.

The thing is, as has been rightly pointed out, every man and every woman is different and each couple needs to learn what works best for them. So, once you get started, try some very light 'toothwork' and then pull off and simply ask him, "Do you like that?"

 

[EdEc]

Does it hurt, the slit I mean? Still trying to work out what to do with teeth.

The slit is very sensitive. Open your mouth as wide as you can and that should take care of the position of your teeth. Happy cock sucking to you.

 

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

the underside, just under the top part is the most responsive on their end.
and I find they like the entire underside licked.
lube and hand action of course.
the best sucks I've given were on the side of a hot tub or swimming pool - I had the guy's balls in my mouth and moved up the underside.
pressing his cock against my face and top of my head, hair.

 

[Curious2019a]

Foreplay
teasing. promising what it will be like. That you intend to swallow. Build it up before touching Start with balls. Then lick wnd suck tip of cockhead. Eye contact. Smile. Gulp a few times to simulate the swallow.

 

[Bigspurt]

I won’t repeat what most have posted but I will add a few things that I like.
Take your time, go slowly. Keep your mouth mostly on the head. If you Jack him stop at the base of your stroke and stretch the skin tightly against his body. Lick up and down his shaft and then stop, look him in the eyes and with a fairly firm grip, stroke him several times to milk some precum. Wipe it on your lips and tits. Milk some more out and with just the head in your mouth swirl your tongue around.
When you are in the slow, firm, mode use your free hand and massage his shaft behind his balls on each side. This puts pressure on the prostate and should result in more precum. Wipe it off on your lips, take a break, and plant a slippery, wet kiss as you continue to stroke for more precum.
Return to the head and once again hold the skin on the shaft taught while you swirl and take him in and out. I absolutely love the sensation of lips going back and fourth on the crown of the head. Swirl around on the underside. He should be ready anytime soon and when he begins his contractions stop mouth movement and slowly Jack his cum on to your tongue. Many men experience incredible ticklish sensitivity at this point and if possible just stop movement and feel his spurts on your tongue. Maybe let a little drip out on your chest.
Then move up and give him the best, deepest French kiss you know how to give.

 

[M1970]

I guy told me once if he can hear me sucking it turns him on even more.

I second that comment. That is most definitely true.

 

[M1970]

There's been plenty of good technique advice given already and I can add nothing more to that.
So my contribution is simply this, for what its worth. Don't overthink it, the more relaxed you are, the more you'll both enjoy the experience.

The vast majority of guys will just be happy to have a mouth on their junk, whatever its doing. Be playful, be sexy, experiment and watch your partners reaction. There's no wrong way to give a BJ (except perhaps the teeth thing, go easy with those).

Good luck

 

[littlecordelera]

First off, understand that most guys are so completely misinformed by make-believe Internet porn, they don't know what good head is. They want you to emulate what they see, and then they find out it doesn't actually work.

But giving good head is pretty simple. Calm down, take control, and use your mouth and nails to make slow, caressing love to his cock and balls. When you are ready to finish him off, assuming you want to, use your tongue to stroke that magic spot, over and over. Don't stop. He'll cum in under a minute.