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[Seadog777]

Vary your speed and depth.
LIGHTLY tickle his balls.
Licking and carefully sucking his balls.
Lots of saliva.
When you are stroking his cock to give your jaw a rest, DIRTY TALK always gets us going.
Say things like....."I love your big cock', "Please cum on my face", "I wanna taste your hot cum", etc, etc.

Luda said it best....."We want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed"
I've never had a full BJ in my life because of my stamina, even my wife couldn't do it.

 

[LouieBaby]

Before I offer my input it is only fair to say that I have never given a blowjob, have received a few and offer the following......Take Your Time. Have FUN & Enjoy Yourself. For me the biggest turn on is when she wants to do it. When she is turned on by doing it. On the flip side its a bit of a turn off if she is grossed out and worried about not getting squirted on, etc

Hi Rockhard KP I completely agree with you.

When giving a blowjob, you have to be into it. You have to want to do it. I get off on giving my guy a blowjob. It’s a turn on for me to see him enjoying it. The more he enjoys it, the more turned on I get.

My advice would be to have fun. Try to forget your nervousness and try to take cues from his reactions. Don’t focus on what didn’t work, focus on what gets your guy off and try to do that next time. As for the small mouth, focus on the tip, especially the underside and swirl your tongue while moving your hand. Also, find a rhythm and keep to it unless you’re teasing him. In that case, you can switch things up to drive him crazy.

Hope this helps and best wishes

 

[30bandits]

I guy told me once if he can hear me sucking it turns him on even more.

add a few maons, and groans too...the vibration on my cock feels good....

 

[J_Bone]

add a few maons, and groans too...the vibration on my cock feels good....

This.....moans like you would make tasting your favorite guilty pleasure dessert. The vibrations not only feel incredible, but it also signals she absolutely loves having my cock in her mouth.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I know there are probably many threads similar,
This is one of my biggest fears, I just never got it right.
I have a smaller than usual mouth and just feel awkward and eventually I just get in my head and the poor man gives up.
Now I'm just plain terrified....
Anyone have advice .. this should be easy as pie why can't I get it right?

Just enjoy. Don't worry. There's no mystery.
There's nothing a man loves more than knowing that she enjoys sucking his cock...
The rest will come later, with repeated practice.
And make sure he reciprocates. Make sure he licks your pussy too. It's only fair.

 

[BlondeNina]

One important tip, I think - don't forget about the balls!

 

[sluttydesire]

I know this will sound kind of lame and cliche but ENTHUSIASM ENTHUSIASM ENTHUSIASM. You have to LOVE what you're doing act like its a treat to do it. The positive vibes will make up for lack of skill which comes in time.

What she said is right. Until you learn enough about your partner and what they like head will just be meh. That only comes with practice!

 

[suzielovescum]

I know there are probably many threads similar,
This is one of my biggest fears, I just never got it right.
I have a smaller than usual mouth and just feel awkward and eventually I just get in my head and the poor man gives up.
Now I'm just plain terrified....
Anyone have advice .. this should be easy as pie why can't I get it right?

find a small cock to practise on and then find a bigger one

 

[Mtnmike]

One important tip, I think - don't forget about the balls!

Good to hear a woman say that.

 

[Somethingdifferent74]

I know there are probably many threads similar,
This is one of my biggest fears, I just never got it right.
I have a smaller than usual mouth and just feel awkward and eventually I just get in my head and the poor man gives up.
Now I'm just plain terrified....
Anyone have advice .. this should be easy as pie why can't I get it right?

Honestly I can't see how a female can fuck up a blow job (although there has been a thread on "blow jobs gone wrong". Of course "mishaps" happen but for myself personally if you are at least doing everything you can wrapping your hands and lips round the tip, shaft deep throat it or whatever your little mouth is capable of a dude should consider himself privileged as there are many women out there that wouldn't put their mouth anywhere there pussy goes. Js

 

[alabasterbreasts]

Your small mouth will make his dick look bigger, which he‘ll love.

No man in the history of men has ever been mad at a woman on her knees with his dick in her mouth that stops sucking just long enough to look up at him and say ’I really want your cum, but your dick is so big‘

If you want to try working through your gag reflex with a dildo, make sure it’s a ‘real skin’ texture dildo, and not too rigid. A real cock (even a rock hard one) will slide and shift to find the opening in your throat. Lots of dildos are made of material that will cling and drag on the delicate skin at the top of your throat, leading to discomfort that won’t occur when you’re sucking an actual dick.

If you’re into the guy, and you really want to please him, you’re halfway there. Be honest, and enthusiastic. Be willing to get messy. If you go deep enough to gag, use that spit to your advantage. Run your lips up and down his length, suck his balls while you stroke him. Look up at him as much as you can. Back to my earlier point, no man has ever been mad at a woman thats looking up at him with his wet dick on her face and his balls in her mouth.

View his cum as a reward for a job well done. It’s not gross if you want it. See it as your prize, and be hungry for it.


Lastly… get your tits out and use one hand to play with your pussy if you can. Tell him it’s making you wet to have his dick in your mouth. If you’re in your knees, grind on your hand while you’re sucking him. It will help you lose yourself in the moment, and it will be a huge turn on for him to know that sucking him turns you on.

Have fun. Try not to worry about being ‘good enough‘ at it, and just be shamelessly eager in showing him that you want to do it.

That is some solid advice.
A genuine desire to want to do it with true enthusiasm goes a long, long way. When you quit treating it like a blow 'job' and more of a good time, savoring and exploring the experience, it makes a big difference. If you are genuinely nervous about your small mouth, practice with dildos of different sizes. Put some flavored lube on them and practice away, maybe while watching some porn, or something else to get you in the mood.

 

[lovecraft68]

From a guy's perspective, don't stop the blow job to talk to him. Focus on the task. Nothing can kill the enjoyment of a blow job faster than being peppered with a thousand questions.

Also, as most guys know, but never tell women because they don't have the balls, most women aren't experts at giving head. They assume they are, but unless they are prostitutes or whores with years of experience of giving head every day of their lives, they probably know very little.

Oh, and one more thing. Nothing can kill the romance of a marriage quite like reducing the frequency of giving your husband head, or worse cutting him off from it completely. Sure it's disgusting to be equated to a piece of ass, but it's reality. Accept or deny it at your peril.

But I suppose men are all experts at oral sex? Never mind you all claim to do it, but can't be bothered.
Also, do your knuckles drag when you walk? I mean....jeez. Nothing can kill romance like not giving your husband head all the time? Sometimes its embarrassing to be a man when this is what tries to speak for all of us.

 

[Cyber65]

I feel like I need a cigarette. And I don’t even smoke.

LMAO - you got that right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Elite_Goblin]

If you absolutely WANT to do it, your man will sense that and it will go a long way toward satisfaction.

When my wife swallows, it feels AMAZING, especially if she milks me totally empty without stopping. (happened once or twice) After that, I feel like some adict and would do ANYTHING to get that feeling again.

 

[Karabare]

Thank you so much, this is super helpful.
I'm excited to practice

Enthusiasm and interest in doing it are super important. So many people don't want to try that its very sexy that you do want to.

 

[Karabare]

One important tip, I think - don't forget about the balls!

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