Humiliation - Are you into it?

[voltigeur]

I was at a BDSM club one night. There was a yowas ung guy that was like me chcking things out. I was hoping to find a girl friend that would be like my ex and enjoy an occasional scene.

He was there first checking things out. His girl friend was going to join him later.

Long story short she aksed him to tie her down to see how she felt. I was walking by in the "dungeon". He had her tied on her back legs spread and hands tied over her head.

He was teasing her and from her movements had her worked up. I asked him how she was doing, he said she was fine and horny as hell. I asked if he would get any tonight. He laughed a bit and said yes. I asked if she was good in bed, if she gave good head. She whimpered but did not speak out.

2 more guys gathered around and we continued to talk about her sexual prowess. I then asked to look up her dress. He told me to lift her dress. He was proud of her. I reached down and lifted her dress up over her waist exposing her white panties. She was a little on the heavy side but young and still had firm skin.

One of the other guys asked how big her nipples were. Of course we were invited to pull her dress down to see her tits. That is exactly how we worded it. "She has nice tits and a great gap between her legs."

I heard her whimper and looked down as she bit her lower lip. Her feet pressed in the table causing her to roll her hips. I could tell she was humiliated and turned on.

The rules of the club was no sex on the premises so looking was all that could happen. Still one of the most erotic things that happened that night.

 

[KarlMartinK]

I often fantasize about being humiliated...cock humiliation, perhaps about my weight. It's difficult to explain what the pleasure in all of this is, but can be very thrilling!

I think I would enjoy some amount of humiliation. Being in a situation with a woman (who is clothed or naked), telling me what she thinks of my cock would be hot as hell. Telling me what she thinks of its size or shape, maybe even measuring it and tellig me what she thinks of it after that would be good, too.

I had a date one time where she asked me to give her an assessment of her body, including her breasts, ass, and pussy. I told her what I honestly thought, which (thankfully) was easy to do. If I would have thought of it, I would have asked her to do the same to me.

 

[voltigeur]

I have never had a woman verbally put me down without it being part of another scene.

When I'm in a submissive mood I love being asked humiliating questions and having to give humiliating answers.

 

[alice9879]

yes

i love being submissive and so it's a grey area into anything degrading and humiliating. havent used the word 'humiliation' in the bedroom yet. in a way it might be humiliating in itself to admit to a partner that you enjoy being humiliated?!

 

[KarlMartinK]

i love being submissive and so it's a grey area into anything degrading and humiliating. havent used the word 'humiliation' in the bedroom yet. in a way it might be humiliating in itself to admit to a partner that you enjoy being humiliated?!

That actually makes a lot of sense. I think that could also be taken the wrong way, too. Like I've said before, if you say it, it kind of breaks the spell, too.

 

[pullmyhair3717]

That actually makes a lot of sense. I think that could also be taken the wrong way, too. Like I've said before, if you say it, it kind of breaks the spell, too.

i think that goes for a lot of fetishes or most things considered taboo.. once you admit it it takes away some of the thrill of it.

 

[hoodooman]

as if a character in a novel

He owed her his life but that's just an excuse..she was his heroin, he was addicted, no matter the damage he had to have her attention, a look was good, a slap was better.

Johns, bizarre sexual scenes and the occasional meal paid for with money received for what he called "a performance" made life bearable and even funny. For a while he had convinced himself that they were lovers but that was a long time ago. A long time being two weeks.

It was the most perverted client seeking the most perverted and degrading acts that gave her the extra cash needed to get them off the street. Well, enough to get her off the street. He still spent some nights on benches or whatever place would give him enough space to stretch out.

She needed him too though. He was still easy to manage and willing to do anything she wanted. More to the point he was willing to do anything for her that client b wanted. God bless sexually twisted but wealthy enough to indulge his excesses client b.

 

[Licia]

Humiliation in the bedroom seems like it can take the sting out of RL humiliation as well. A centering, perhaps. Strangely enough, the way I use it with my husband "lets" him acknowledge and confront his anxieties/fear. I feel honored that he would trust me enough to do something like that.

 

[KarlMartinK]

Humiliation in the bedroom seems like it can take the sting out of RL humiliation as well. A centering, perhaps. Strangely enough, the way I use it with my husband "lets" him acknowledge and confront his anxieties/fear. I feel honored that he would trust me enough to do something like that.

That sounds like a good arrangement. Care to share any details?

 

[voltigeur]

Love humiliation fantasies. Having an arrogant jerk and his trophy wife tell me they are behind on thier mortage and about to lose the house. I agree to catch up the mortage if I get her for a weekend.

As her husband watches i feel her up have her bend over in lycra short shorts and a tight t shirt and heels. She whimpers, lips quivering as I examine her and see if she is "worth the money".

His humiliation as he hears me ask if she is a good cock sucker. he says she is and I ask her how she got so good. When did she start sucking cocks. I have her turn and bend over legs spread so I can examine her ass.

I make her take off her shorts and give them to her husband along with her t shirt. I walk them to the door and tell him I will have acheck ready when he picks up his wife Sunday.

He nods but before he gets out the door I have her on her knees sucking my cock. He stops and looks at her, dejected and quietly leaves.

That would just be the startof the weekend.

 

[KarlMartinK]

Love humiliation fantasies. Having an arrogant jerk and his trophy wife tell me they are behind on thier mortage and about to lose the house. I agree to catch up the mortage if I get her for a weekend.

As her husband watches i feel her up have her bend over in lycra short shorts and a tight t shirt and heels. She whimpers, lips quivering as I examine her and see if she is "worth the money".

His humiliation as he hears me ask if she is a good cock sucker. he says she is and I ask her how she got so good. When did she start sucking cocks. I have her turn and bend over legs spread so I can examine her ass.

I make her take off her shorts and give them to her husband along with her t shirt. I walk them to the door and tell him I will have acheck ready when he picks up his wife Sunday.

He nods but before he gets out the door I have her on her knees sucking my cock. He stops and looks at her, dejected and quietly leaves.

That would just be the startof the weekend.

It sounds like the start of a pretty good story.

 

[CplHudson]

It sounds like the start of a pretty good story.

IT does indeed!

 

[hellsgate]

only while watching my gf being properly impregnated / brought to orgasm by another guy. not so much laughing as telling me how much deeper/thicker the other guy is and feels in woman on top, missionary. how much better sex is, when I'm made to watch someone do it right. telling me to get ready to change diapers as she's stopped taking the pill in readiness to let the stud take her bareback as often as possible to put her in the family way.

 

[johor]

Similar to voltigeur's story above, when I owned a rental house, the husband sometimes had problems paying the rent on time. I used to fantasize about him coming to me to negotiate to trade sex with his wife for rent. He'd take the kids out for pizza on Saturday while I did some "maintenance" on the house. That would buy a weeks worth of rent. But as time went on the maintenance would get a fewer days of rent and he would call me to set up a the times his wife could come by my house. The largest part of the humiliation was that only he could set up the times, my relationship with her was pure pleasure and she would be enjoying the relative luxury of my home, with the nice dinners and good wine then have to go home to a guy that could not support her, even in their modest lifestyle.

 

[Rembrandt500]

I can't think of a bigger turnoff. Honestly, I really don't get this kink...at all.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not knocking those who are into it - if you get off on being humiliated, that's great. Far be it from me, a devoted fetishist, to say "your fetish is weird" cause that's not the case whatsoever.

I just personally don't understand it. I guess it's somewhat related to pain in a way, which I can dig a small amount of considering under the right hot circumstances, a little pain can feel pretty good. But personally, whenever I'm watching porn involving Femdom and I'm really loving it, once the Domme says something like "You have such a fucking tiny cock" or "You're so pathetic, you can't do anything" to the guy, I get turned off extremely quickly. It's just not very fun to me at all. Again, not trying to ruffle feathers obviously, just candidly answering the question. IMO, videos involving Femdom and guys who are ambitiously, passionately devoted to pleasing their Dommes without pissing and moaning, while the Dommes simply give orders and moan are very rare, but those are the ones I love the best.

 

[RonDen]

Beautiful woman's humiliation

Love humiliation fantasies. Having an arrogant jerk and his trophy wife tell me they are behind on thier mortage and about to lose the house. I agree to catch up the mortage if I get her for a weekend.

As her husband watches i feel her up have her bend over in lycra short shorts and a tight t shirt and heels. She whimpers, lips quivering as I examine her and see if she is "worth the money".

His humiliation as he hears me ask if she is a good cock sucker. he says she is and I ask her how she got so good. When did she start sucking cocks. I have her turn and bend over legs spread so I can examine her ass.

I make her take off her shorts and give them to her husband along with her t shirt. I walk them to the door and tell him I will have acheck ready when he picks up his wife Sunday.

He nods but before he gets out the door I have her on her knees sucking my cock. He stops and looks at her, dejected and quietly leaves.

That would just be the startof the weekend.

This woman would be very beautiful with fine clothes,hair and 5 inch high heels,dark hose. Her breasts would be full and high with a low cut ,nice firm
clevage and it's clear that she has never had sex except with her husband. During
the time her husband is in the room ,and while he is watching her on her knees
sucking my cock, he can see she is hating the ordeal and as he leaves he hears
her moan in painful humiliation and know that for the weekend she will be doing
many distastful things , probably bound and gaged and sleeping with a stranger.

 

[KarlMartinK]

I can't think of a bigger turnoff. Honestly, I really don't get this kink...at all.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not knocking those who are into it - if you get off on being humiliated, that's great. Far be it from me, a devoted fetishist, to say "your fetish is weird" cause that's not the case whatsoever.

I just personally don't understand it. I guess it's somewhat related to pain in a way, which I can dig a small amount of considering under the right hot circumstances, a little pain can feel pretty good. But personally, whenever I'm watching porn involving Femdom and I'm really loving it, once the Domme says something like "You have such a fucking tiny cock" or "You're so pathetic, you can't do anything" to the guy, I get turned off extremely quickly. It's just not very fun to me at all. Again, not trying to ruffle feathers obviously, just candidly answering the question. IMO, videos involving Femdom and guys who are ambitiously, passionately devoted to pleasing their Dommes without pissing and moaning, while the Dommes simply give orders and moan are very rare, but those are the ones I love the best.

I can understand your point and I can agree to some extent. I personally don't enjoy the situations where someone has absolutely no choice but to comply. Instead, if the person has at least some control, but chooses this option over that option, I think it's a turn-on. I don't really care for the ones where they point out the guy's small genitals and tell him how worthless he is, but I do like the ones where they recognize that he's small or even "less of a man" than someone else and point it out, but don't necessarily hold it over him like he's completley worthless.

I just read a story that did a pretty good job of this. It starts out with this girl having a prank pulled on her with her friends exposing her to everyone and even making a video of it. Then the guy (the center of the story) decides he'll expose himself on purpose, but make it look like an accident. He does this and finds that it's a lot more humiliating and embarrassing than he'd thought it would be. In that way, it's a really good story.

 

[DaphneSwitch]

I've always been a fan of humiliation, giving and recieving.

For me it seems that recieving humiliation is like recieving pain. It reinforces the position of the dominant and shows them how much you'll suffer just to get a chance to be with them.

 

[Master_Kira]

I have always been a fan of humiliating, I used to get my ex to walk around the mall with a vibrator in her cunt and watch as people walk by and stare at her wondering why she was silently moaning and walking funny.

 

[FloridaCouple]

We posted this a while ago. Lots of good videos in this thread.

 

[voltigeur]

I agree with the previous posters on my little story. I left out those details in the interest of a shorter post.

To continue my story:

After her husband leaves I stand and continue to rock in and out of her mouth. I tell her to look up at me keep her eyes on mine. She sucks on her knees. A socialite” better than you” is on her knees as my cock slut. I explain that if she hesitates or says no to anything I send her home with no check for house payments. I ask her if she understands, she nods on my cocks. A few strokes with her head and I shoot a think rope of cum in her mouth, she recoils and 2 shots go on her face I tell her not to swallow or clean up.

She stands clad only in her thong panties. I have her swallow and kiss her hard tongue deep in her mouth. I ask her what she would call a woman who sucked cocks and let herself be fucked in the pussy and up her ass just for a house payment. She admitted it made her a whore. I laughed at her told her I thought I’d never see her as a whore.

I took her from the entrance and to the living room. As she stood in front of me I had her slip her panties down. I told her to lay on her back and masturbate while I watch. After making her beg for cocks I get on top of her and fuck her hard. I feel her squirt as she gasps and moans. I shoot a load in her and have her finger herself. I look down at her, naked hair still stuck to her face.

I tell her to thank me, when she does her voice falters. After the thanks me she looks up; “your ass is next whore”.

 

[KarlMartinK]

We posted this a while ago. Lots of good videos in this thread.

Looking at the titles of many of those links, it looks like "loser" is in the name of most of those. I like the humiliation angle, but not necessarily the "loser" angle.

 

[FloridaCouple]

Looking at the titles of many of those links, it looks like "loser" is in the name of most of those. I like the humiliation angle, but not necessarily the "loser" angle.

Hardly any use the "Loser" word. Some do, but for the most part it's straight up humiliation - making the guy feel dirty.

 

[KarlMartinK]

Hardly any use the "Loser" word. Some do, but for the most part it's straight up humiliation - making the guy feel dirty.

I'm all for making the guy feel dirty.

 

[bicurious19]

i think mine would still come under this heading, i wouldnt feel humiliatied, but i guess id love to get bukkake from heeps of tgirls