Humiliation - Are you into it?

[voltigeur]

I think that the humiliation fetish is not really about real humiliation. As someon said either earlier in this thread or in another one; it is about being taken out of social norms.

In most of the fantasies there is a level of consent, even if reluctant. It is about creating the inner conflict of desire winning out when every part of your pride tells you to back out.

 

[MadaamMeg]

Shy Girl

I am very shy and meek person so I've been walked on as long as I can remember. I really enjoy humiliating others, you could call it a revenge thing. I also like when someone trusts me enough to give up their control. It really plays deep into my personality.

 

[iwantyoufuckme]

for it, i do enjoy my dose of being humiliated..

 

[KarlMartinK]

I was just thinking of this subject again today and looked this thread up again. I think this can be an interesting topic for the right people.

 

[TeslaRose]

so being laughed at is arousing? or is it feeling embarrassed? i've heard from a few men with very small penises who want me to look at it and laugh - that is how they get off, and i don't understand it. i mean, it's not so hard to laugh at something, but i would feel mean, even if i knew they liked it. but i suppose some people get off on humiliating others. just not something that's ever really clicked for me.

 

[KarlMartinK]

so being laughed at is arousing? or is it feeling embarrassed? i've heard from a few men with very small penises who want me to look at it and laugh - that is how they get off, and i don't understand it. i mean, it's not so hard to laugh at something, but i would feel mean, even if i knew they liked it. but i suppose some people get off on humiliating others. just not something that's ever really clicked for me.

I think for me, it's just arousing to be put on the spot and to be the center of attention in a vulnerable moment. I don't think I would want to be totally humiliated, but to be the center of attention and slightly humiliated would be a turn-on.

As for being laughed at, when I got my first experience with that, I was with a woman who would just laugh when I came. Years later, when I saw her again, I talked to her about that and she told me she didn't mean to be offensive and I told her I didn't take it that way. She would jerk me off until I came and would kind of laugh when I did, which was kind of unexpected and I think that's what was arousing about it.

 

[TeslaRose]

I think for me, it's just arousing to be put on the spot and to be the center of attention in a vulnerable moment. I don't think I would want to be totally humiliated, but to be the center of attention and slightly humiliated would be a turn-on.

As for being laughed at, when I got my first experience with that, I was with a woman who would just laugh when I came. Years later, when I saw her again, I talked to her about that and she told me she didn't mean to be offensive and I told her I didn't take it that way. She would jerk me off until I came and would kind of laugh when I did, which was kind of unexpected and I think that's what was arousing about it.

thank you - that is interesting insight. maybe she was just happy and delighted each time - it is a wonderful thing

 

[KarlMartinK]

thank you - that is interesting insight. maybe she was just happy and delighted each time - it is a wonderful thing

I really think she was happy for me. She would stroke me even when she wasn't in the mood for sex herself and she really loved how much cum I produced for her just from her using her hand. I do think that's a great thing, but I did let my imagination run wild and that enhanced the experience.

I guess for me, it's kind of strange. I think I like positive and negative comments equally. If a woman told me I look huge, that's a turn-on. If she told me I look small, that's still a turn-on. That's really my picture in my avatar. I like having it out there and I enjoy people commenting on it. I guess it's just a subjective thing for me. I don't know if that makes sense or not. If someone is talking about my body or my penis, they're talking about it, and that's a turn-on.

 

[CBM514]

The only time I like humiliation is when I'm submissive for her...in that role it's an amazing turn on...rest of my life no

 

[bill3901]

The only time I like humiliation is when I'm submissive for her...in that role it's an amazing turn on...rest of my life no

that's the same with me, but I like a loving type of humiliation, if that makes sense

 

[CBM514]

that's the same with me, but I like a loving type of humiliation, if that makes sense

Kinda.. I like any kind of humiliation...but not the cruel type

 

[derek00003]

its something I enjoy, and fantasize about. I also like writing stories about it, so if anybody has requests, please feel free to PM me

 

[SquidProQuo]

I am a natural submissive so I think I'd love to one day bring humiliation into sexual roleplaying.

I really get off on reading erotica where humiliation is a theme, that's why I have a thing for stories when a guy gets cuckolded, where he feels conflicted with with a mixture of shame, anger, and arousal of his wife having sex with another man. I wonder why I am so drawn to this cuckold stories since I'm not even a guy and I wouldn't want to be cheated on in real life.

 

[FistedSister]

I am a natural submissive so I think I'd love to one day bring humiliation into sexual roleplaying.

I really get off on reading erotica where humiliation is a theme, that's why I have a thing for stories when a guy gets cuckolded, where he feels conflicted with with a mixture of shame, anger, and arousal of his wife having sex with another man. I wonder why I am so drawn to this cuckold stories since I'm not even a guy and I wouldn't want to be cheated on in real life.

Are you possibly drawn to those stories because you think about having a husband who gets off on you relating your "cheating" escapades to him? He might encourage your behavior?

 

[HoldYouDown]

I like the idea of being caught masturbating by a woman and the humiliation involved...never happened in real life but it's a fantasy.

 

[InaNYMinute]

No. If its for role playing or something like that there are those who can get gratification from it and that is good for them, but wanton humiliation reflects a lack complete of respect and I have no need of it or the person, either giving or getting... just my 2 cents

 

[CBM514]

No. If its for role playing or something like that there are those who can get gratification from it and that is good for them, but wanton humiliation reflects a lack complete of respect and I have no need of it or the person, either giving or getting... just my 2 cents

Yeah that's what I was trying to say earlier...it fits a purpose in certain situations for us, but overall in the rest of our lives it would be disasterous

 

[Orangesliice]

I think my type of humiliation fetish might be a little different. I don't like to be humiliated per se but I love when I'm with my wife and she is telling me how much better she is then all the other women I have been with and degrades them. I dunno if that fits this category but nothing gets me hotter then that,

 

[redpan]

I don't know about humiliation...but I do like to be dominated from time to time..