Rubyfruit said:
Trust that he will still think you're beautiful, whole, special, worthy, complete, even with semen dripping off your face.
ok.. you have changed my mind
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Rubyfruit said:
Trust that he will still think you're beautiful, whole, special, worthy, complete, even with semen dripping off your face.
Rubyfruit said:Unskilled, this is not a chatroom. I'm afraid you're going to have to go to my room. PB will keep you company in there.
*wink*
Rubyfruit said:PB, I'll have to disagree with you. Please see my earlier posts on the subject, and, when you get a chance, change the sheets.
Minout said:I have been thinking about humiliation a lot lately. It is not one of the things that makes me quiver with delight. I don't like to be humiliated or, even embarrassed. I know from reading here that some of you love it. Here is my question; if you like to be humiliated, if you get a rush from being *forced* to do something that makes you squirm with embarrassment, is it still humiliating? Does humiliation become something else when you *like* it? Is it the knowledge that you overcame your embarrassment that makes it appealing?
Rubyfruit said:I've given this more thought and I think what it really comes down to for me is vulnerability in the extreme.
There was a time that I felt that having a man come on my face was humiliating. Now, I look at it as an act of love and trust.
How does everybody else view facials? For men, what's it like to do it? Do you like to? Why? For women, your views please. Is it humiliating?
Ever curiously ....
Edited to add, male views on receiving facials are encouraged as well.
chatbug said:
I'm not sure how you can be humilated without other people besides the dom and sub being involved. I haven't done this, but I think I understand the appeal.
As an example, a sub goes and sees his dominant. She has him change into raggedy clothes and go out on the street to beg for money. He has to beg until he collects enough money to buy her a pack of cigarettes.
Is this humiliating? Probably. Does he enjoy the humiliation? Probably.
P. B. Walker said:
Actually I did agree with you... way back in the beginning and I did read all the posts. I was meerly asking questions from the other sides perspective. I probably should have stopped with the innane banter and not added to the conversation.
PBW "Sheets??!! We don't need no stinking sheets!"
Rubyfruit said:
I'm sorry. I read your post incorrectly. Forgive me?
Ruby "No Less than 400 Thread Count" Fruit
Quint said:So many T's! What am I to do? o)
Lesse...I can't remember what exactly I said on my humiliation thread a couple weeks ago, cept that I dig it. Minout, I think your original question is analogous to "if you enjoy getting hurt, it isn't really pain, is it?" Yes, I do eroticize humiliation (verbal and physical signs of contempt), but that doesn't change what it is. I have very few taboos left anymore (so jaded for one so young!) so it isn't just "ooh I'm being naughty." It's a lot like that, but well past.
For me, it's simply another emotion capable of weakening my knees and soaking my panties. Fear does it too, as does pain to a lesser degree.
I too don't see facials as "dirty" or humiliating, although even if I did, that wouldn't necessarily separate it from a mutually enjoyed, possibly even loving act. He loves me when he calls me his slut. Not exclusive terms.
Quint said:So many T's! What am I to do? o)