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Was it your first time with a guy? Was it his?
Just look at him its easy
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Hi Lynn,
My wife and I enjoy adding another guy to the fun. You'd be surprised how many straight guys enjoy sucking off other guys. Of course, you get pinheads like Wyldfire (way back on page one) who thinks ever touching another man's unit could change a man's desire for woman! Trust me, as a man who's been with other men, NOTHING can dull my desire for women.
We used to run ads on adult dating sites and we would get LOTS of responses from guys who specifically stated in their profiles that they were straight - but in their private messages to us, they would tell the truth.
As you search for a play buddy, please be sure to ask the guy if he's ever sucked or been sucked before. Ask for details. We've had a couple guys who were more interested in being with my her and saying they were cool when they weren't.
Be sure to have fun with the search! It can lead to lots of fantasizing and play. My wife and I had several great nights of sex after getting worked up thinking about things.
And I guess I'll pimp my story page, since I have several stories that include guys going both ways and all my men are strong, real men. Good luck!
My wife and I enjoy adding another guy to the fun. You'd be surprised how many straight guys enjoy sucking off other guys. Of course, you get pinheads like Wyldfire (way back on page one) who thinks ever touching another man's unit could change a man's desire for woman! Trust me, as a man who's been with other men, NOTHING can dull my desire for women.
We used to run ads on adult dating sites and we would get LOTS of responses from guys who specifically stated in their profiles that they were straight - but in their private messages to us, they would tell the truth.
As you search for a play buddy, please be sure to ask the guy if he's ever sucked or been sucked before. Ask for details. We've had a couple guys who were more interested in being with my her and saying they were cool when they weren't.
Be sure to have fun with the search! It can lead to lots of fantasizing and play. My wife and I had several great nights of sex after getting worked up thinking about things.
And I guess I'll pimp my story page, since I have several stories that include guys going both ways and all my men are strong, real men. Good luck!
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I just submitted a "How to" story about how to add a man for some MMF play. When it's approved and posted, I'll do my best to come back to this thread and post a link to it.
Meanwhile, here's how things happened for us. As a young man, there had been some guy-on-guy play in my background. Real typical stuff that happens to lots of guys. (Mutual masturbation. Comparing size while hard. etc.) My point is that I wasn't squirmish about another guy. I knew I was straight. I knew I wanted a woman. I knew nothing would ever dull my interest in women or how much I wanted more pussy.
Even after being with a couple guys, I sometimes have problems saying "I'm bi." I don't feel bi. I act and feel straight. Most of the time, I prefer to think of myself as "slightly bent" or "straight and unafraid." Online, I'm much more open than I am in real life
My wife wanted had a double penetration fantasy. We were in a good spot in our relationship and I admitted some of the things that had happened in my past - long before I ever met her. Her d/p fantasy turned into including finding some fun for me, too.
I don't know if it makes my wife different, I guess it does, but she's read erotic books with gay guys and liked them. She's seen gay porn and likes it as much as I like watching lesbian porn. (Come on, two hot women fooling around? What's not to like?) My wife has zero interest in being with another woman or with me being with another woman. For whatever reason, I don't have those same feelings in reverse.
Before I met my wife, I had a girlfriend who used to think it was fun to give me a blowjob and then kiss me before she swallowed. I guess she did it as a joke, maybe trying to gross me out or something, I don't know. She liked to swallow, so I don't think that was it. Either way, it didn't bother me when she did it. In fact, I thought it was sort of hot.
I've had a couple girlfriends who thought it was cool that I wasn't afraid to kiss them after they have gone done on me. To me, I never thought twice about it. I like them to still kiss me after I've been done on them, why not vice versa?
Anyway, sucking cock in front of my wife has to be one of the hottest damn things that's ever happened to me. Before we got there, we had a threeway with another guy where me and the guy never touched. Seeing my wife touching, fucking, and sucking the other guy was really hot, too. I always describe it as "It was like I was doing it, but once removed." It was fun seeing her from a different perspective.
As for me being with another man in front of my wife - this is apparently a very common fantasy for men (go figure, I'll wait). The first time, the guy was so nervous, he never got hard. He played with us some, but it wasn't what we wanted. But the second time, with a different guy, it was hot as hell! My wife straddled his face, he took care of her (and had a great time doing it) and I took care of him while she watched. In a way, part of what made that so comfortable was that I knew he couldn't see me doing it.
My wife loves it when I got down on her at the same time that she's being fucked. Since I'm not squirmish about the guy's dick being there, it's fun for me, too.
The other thing we like to do is both go down on him at the same time, sharing his prick. It's so much fun chasing each other's tongue around his shaft. It's sort of like a French kiss with a dick between us. Really hot!
Hopefully, that helps?
Meanwhile, here's how things happened for us. As a young man, there had been some guy-on-guy play in my background. Real typical stuff that happens to lots of guys. (Mutual masturbation. Comparing size while hard. etc.) My point is that I wasn't squirmish about another guy. I knew I was straight. I knew I wanted a woman. I knew nothing would ever dull my interest in women or how much I wanted more pussy.
Even after being with a couple guys, I sometimes have problems saying "I'm bi." I don't feel bi. I act and feel straight. Most of the time, I prefer to think of myself as "slightly bent" or "straight and unafraid." Online, I'm much more open than I am in real life
My wife wanted had a double penetration fantasy. We were in a good spot in our relationship and I admitted some of the things that had happened in my past - long before I ever met her. Her d/p fantasy turned into including finding some fun for me, too.
I don't know if it makes my wife different, I guess it does, but she's read erotic books with gay guys and liked them. She's seen gay porn and likes it as much as I like watching lesbian porn. (Come on, two hot women fooling around? What's not to like?) My wife has zero interest in being with another woman or with me being with another woman. For whatever reason, I don't have those same feelings in reverse.
Before I met my wife, I had a girlfriend who used to think it was fun to give me a blowjob and then kiss me before she swallowed. I guess she did it as a joke, maybe trying to gross me out or something, I don't know. She liked to swallow, so I don't think that was it. Either way, it didn't bother me when she did it. In fact, I thought it was sort of hot.
I've had a couple girlfriends who thought it was cool that I wasn't afraid to kiss them after they have gone done on me. To me, I never thought twice about it. I like them to still kiss me after I've been done on them, why not vice versa?
Anyway, sucking cock in front of my wife has to be one of the hottest damn things that's ever happened to me. Before we got there, we had a threeway with another guy where me and the guy never touched. Seeing my wife touching, fucking, and sucking the other guy was really hot, too. I always describe it as "It was like I was doing it, but once removed." It was fun seeing her from a different perspective.
As for me being with another man in front of my wife - this is apparently a very common fantasy for men (go figure, I'll wait). The first time, the guy was so nervous, he never got hard. He played with us some, but it wasn't what we wanted. But the second time, with a different guy, it was hot as hell! My wife straddled his face, he took care of her (and had a great time doing it) and I took care of him while she watched. In a way, part of what made that so comfortable was that I knew he couldn't see me doing it.
My wife loves it when I got down on her at the same time that she's being fucked. Since I'm not squirmish about the guy's dick being there, it's fun for me, too.
The other thing we like to do is both go down on him at the same time, sharing his prick. It's so much fun chasing each other's tongue around his shaft. It's sort of like a French kiss with a dick between us. Really hot!
Hopefully, that helps?
Great info Bucky, thanks. How did wife react when you told her you had done things with a guy before? I also will kiss my husband after bjs and he is ok with that, and he will even eat me after he has cummed in me. But I'm pretty sure he does that because he knows I think it is sexy.
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Before I answer your questions, two things:
First of all, NEVER estimate a man-in-love's passion for pleasing his partner! Lots of guys LOVE to make their woman go "ooo!"
Secondly, if he's doing what you say - he either is interested in more or has a past he hasn't admitted. I say that because that's how it was for me. Had I messed around a bit with another guy before I met my wife? Yeah, I had. Was it a big deal to me? Nope. Had I ever told her about it? No reason. It was way in the past. Felt like just "one of those things" and didn't feel important. I'm not gay. I never was. (Still don't think I am.)
What I'm getting at is this: I was really scared to even mention that stuff that had happened so long ago. Did I need to? I don't know. For me, I guess I did, but it sort of confused my wife for a minute as she tried to put things in perspective. So, in hindsight, I think we could have had just as much fun if I didn't tell her about my youthful indiscrections.
My wife and I were in our middle twenties before we got married. She had been married before and we both had dated (a lot!) before we met. So, we both had histories that didn't matter and got too complicated too fast to go through.
Anyway, when I told her, it excited her. I was actually out of town and we were texting each other and that turned into a night of really hot cybersex. She made it very safe for me to tell her, in part, by getting really excited. Like I said, it took a bit for her to get a feel for how it was something I liked, something I would do, but also something I didn't "need" to do.
For us, this is something we share. It's goofy, it's silly, and it's as embarrassing as it is hot to say, but we both like to suck dick. I like it when she does it to me. I like to see her do it to another guy. And she likes to see me doing it. For us, it works, but your mileage may vary. Hope that helps!
Thanks Ducky. I certainly dont underestimate my husbands desire to please me. He is wonderful about that and has never denied me anything. I really don't think he has ever done anything with a guy before, and I dont think he is really bi. But I honestly think that if a situation arose, and I asked him to touch/suck another man for me, he would probably do it for me. And I find that to be sooo wonderful. To share that experince together would be amazing. I think seeing him do it, the first time, would be so sexy and erotic. How did wife react the first time she saw you take a penis in your mouth?
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LOL, she came and hard. It was hot as hell. Like I said before, she was straddling the guy's face while I was doing it. He was on his back, she knelt over his head, and he started eating her pussy while she played with his hard cock. I was watching, naked, hard, and excited about just watching, but I knew there was supposed to be more. Then she sort of nodded at him, smiled, and motioned for me to do it.
I crawled between his legs, she held his hard cock to me, and I just sort of did it. She was messing with my hair and stroking my face while I did it and that made it really hot. She didn't "tell" me to do it, but that would have been hot, too.
You and your husband should check out some of the pictures in this thread:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=756942 (Especially since guys are so visually oriented.) If nothing else, they might start a very hot conversation between the two of you.
I bet it was an amazing sight for her. I love that she was stroking your hair, etc. I imagine that too. Being right there with him, whispering in his ear, encouraging him, calming him, coaxing him. telling him i love him and that he is showing me that he loves me too, that its ok, no one will ever know, to just suck it for a second, then a little more, a little more.....
Did you suck that guy to completion that time?
Did you suck that guy to completion that time?
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Oh yeah I did.
No way was I not going to do it! Not with how much fun she was having. And me, too, I guess. She told me later about how hot it was for her to see how hard I got while I was doing it. After he came in mouth, we kissed (my wife and I). I'll admit, it was a little odd, because it made me think of that girlfriend I had before my wife who would suck me and kiss me afterwards and I didn't like thinking about another woman while I was kissing my wife. (Yeah, I'm in love.) It was just a flicker of a memory and it only happened that one time.
Anyway, after he came, my wife and I made love right next to him on the bed. He really just watched, I don't remember him even kissing my wife or jerking off or anything (hell, he had just had an orgasm), but it was cool seeing him watching her fucking me. I came so fast, too! Intense!
Oh yeah I did.
After he came in mouth, we kissed (my wife and I). I'll admit, it was a little odd, because it made me think of that girlfriend I had before my wife who would suck me and kiss me afterwards and I didn't like thinking about another woman while I was kissing my wife. (Yeah, I'm in love.) It was just a flicker of a memory and it only happened that one time.
Anyway, after he came, my wife and I made love right next to him on the bed. He really just watched, I don't remember him even kissing my wife or jerking off or anything (hell, he had just had an orgasm), but it was cool seeing him watching her fucking me. I came so fast, too! Intense!
Thats wonderful that you and her made love after. I am totally in love with my husband as well. How many mmf have you and wife done? and with how many different guys? Are they all people you met on line or are they actual friends of yours?
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Would you be as turned on watching him eat a woman?
Good question. lol. We've had pillow talk about that too, and I would consider exploring that. I imagine seeing him with another woman at first would sting a bit. But also be very exciting. And him eating her I think would exciting to see.
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I know you're not asking me, but for my wife and I - she doesn't have any interest in sharing me with another woman. You can cry fairness all you want, if that's where you're going, but it's just how it is. For her and me, that's just how it works and it's fine. We're having fun doing what we do and someone else's opinion about whether it's "fair" or not doesn't really matter. (If I took your comment the wrong way, sorry!)
Over about a five or six year period, we did it maybe that many times, too? There was one guy we played with twice, but it was MFM both times. He was a friend and I didn't feel comfortable "going gay" with him or around him. But we still had fun with satisfying my wife's d/p fantasies.
There was one guy who lied about being experienced with being with another guy and never got hard with us because of his nerves. He sucked me a bit and played with her some, and we fooled around in front of him some, but that night wasn't so good. Hot in different ways, but it was hard to see the hotness past the disappointment.
The guy who I mentioned in the story, the first guy I sucked off in front of my wife - that was a one time thing. We met him online and chatted for a long time. He was married. He and his wife were swingers and had decided to solo swing some. He wanted to be part of a MMF, but not his wife, so it worked out good for all of us (including the wife we never met, I guess). Scheduling issues got in the way of us getting back together.
We liked the meeting a guy online thing and did that a couple more times with two other guys. It was good, because we got a chance to get to know them. Both of those guys (they didn't overlap) travelled with their jobs and that was good and bad. Good, because we didn't have to worry about bumping into him at the grocery store or church or anything. Bad, because we had to wait until he was in town and it had to work for us, too. (Our kids were little at the time, so there was babysitter issues and crap like that.)
For us, and again, it's just us - it brought us closer together, as if we had a secret we shared or something. It was always about "us" and never about the guy, beyond he had to be a nice guy, she had to be attracted to him, he had to be clean, etc.
I like this comment you had about how it brought you closer together. That is the most important thing for me. This has to be an experience that we share and that is ultimately (at least between him and me, about our love).
Sometime ago I chatted with a married couple that had gone on a cruise. The had got to be friends with a guy at their dinner assigned table. On the last night at sea they ended up inviting him back to their cabin, one thing led to another and ended up having a mmf until dawn. It was very sexy but also beautiful when they talked about how after the other guy left, they made sure each other was emotionally ok with everything and then the two of them made love as husband and wife. Then they flew back home with their sexy little secret as a suvenier that they could share between themselves. I have always thought it was a wonderful story.
Sometime ago I chatted with a married couple that had gone on a cruise. The had got to be friends with a guy at their dinner assigned table. On the last night at sea they ended up inviting him back to their cabin, one thing led to another and ended up having a mmf until dawn. It was very sexy but also beautiful when they talked about how after the other guy left, they made sure each other was emotionally ok with everything and then the two of them made love as husband and wife. Then they flew back home with their sexy little secret as a suvenier that they could share between themselves. I have always thought it was a wonderful story.
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No less about fairness than about what excites her. I wonder too if she wants to watch her husband have her go down on another woman. She already is thinking her with another man works.
For me there isn't any desire to have another man in my mouth or me in his regardless of what my partner would say. It's appealing in any situation for me.
I am not bi curious. At the same time I wouldn't be instant on my partner preforming with anyone else.
There is no ego or power trip gain for me in getting them to bend to my will in that way.
But I do respect that other people do other things!
Heck I'll watch her husband suck off some other guy while she does what she will do with him
Wolf. Scary predator must be eliminated at all costs! It eats babies and manflesh! Zaaah! *panic*.
Natural habitat.
Hellhounds exist in folklore and mysogyny.
Anyway, my first step was to show the hubs how erotic fellatio can be. He's aroused by my arousal, so if I find something hot ...
I don't fucking hold back. *Snarl-snap, bite!*
I've been married long enough to know that most sexual blocks between couples happen because the two of them hold back--just as they do when they talk to one another. Maybe it's been so long since I've lived vanillia that my perceptions are colored by bdsm: the intimacies brought therin.
Oral sex. Everyone knows it's primally hot.
Get primal, girlfriend.
If he's strong and secure, he'll figure out that you do not need to be leashed. How does he 'figure it out'? You must be fearlessly honest and willing to have patience with difficult conversations. Him too.
If all goes well, don't be surprised when he begs for a collar.
I hope that helps and doesn't come off as preachy.
*dances to some truths in this mini-theme song*
Natural habitat.
Hellhounds exist in folklore and mysogyny.
Anyway, my first step was to show the hubs how erotic fellatio can be. He's aroused by my arousal, so if I find something hot ...
I don't fucking hold back. *Snarl-snap, bite!*
I've been married long enough to know that most sexual blocks between couples happen because the two of them hold back--just as they do when they talk to one another. Maybe it's been so long since I've lived vanillia that my perceptions are colored by bdsm: the intimacies brought therin.
Oral sex. Everyone knows it's primally hot.
Get primal, girlfriend.
If he's strong and secure, he'll figure out that you do not need to be leashed. How does he 'figure it out'? You must be fearlessly honest and willing to have patience with difficult conversations. Him too.
If all goes well, don't be surprised when he begs for a collar.
I hope that helps and doesn't come off as preachy.
*dances to some truths in this mini-theme song*
No less about fairness than about what excites her. I wonder too if she wants to watch her husband have her go down on another woman. She already is thinking her with another man works.
For me there isn't any desire to have another man in my mouth or me in his regardless of what my partner would say. It's appealing in any situation for me.
I am not bi curious. At the same time I wouldn't be instant on my partner preforming with anyone else.
There is no ego or power trip gain for me in getting them to bend to my will in that way.
But I do respect that other people do other things!
Heck I'll watch her husband suck off some other guy while she does what she will do with him
Hi Bill. To answer your question, yes, i would like to experience sex with another girl. I have been curious for some time.
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Wolf. Scary predator must be eliminated at all costs! It eats babies and manflesh! Zaaah! *panic*.
Natural habitat.
Hellhounds exist in folklore and mysogyny.
Anyway, my first step was to show the hubs how erotic fellatio can be. He's aroused by my arousal, so if I find something hot ...
I don't fucking hold back. *Snarl-snap, bite!*
I've been married long enough to know that most sexual blocks between couples happen because the two of them hold back--just as they do when they talk to one another. Maybe it's been so long since I've lived vanillia that my perceptions are colored by bdsm: the intimacies brought therin.
Oral sex. Everyone knows it's primally hot.
Get primal, girlfriend.
If he's strong and secure, he'll figure out that you do not need to be leashed. How does he 'figure it out'? You must be fearlessly honest and willing to have patience with difficult conversations. Him too.
If all goes well, don't be surprised when he begs for a collar.
I hope that helps and doesn't come off as preachy.
*dances to some truths in this mini-theme song*
So you are strong and secure if you suck another mans cock?
Can't you be unleashed and not preform homosexual acts?
What if you aren't holding back and you still don't think sucking off a man is something you want to do?
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Is that part of why you want him to try sex with a man?
What if he is not into it, not for any other reason than the reality that most people probably don't want to participate in same sex activities? Will you still insist?
Have you brought up having a woman in bed with the both of you? Is he receptive to that? Would it be conditional for you that he also does it with a man?
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