I don't understand any of this

[Johnny Mayberry]

Exactly.

See I do not have disdain for whatever it is. I feel nothing but amusement.

Uh huh...like the amusement it feels when people respond to it as though it were a human, instead of a troll?

 

[Etoile]

y'know what? I thought better of it. nevermind!

 

[BTK51]

Disdain Was A Badly Chosen Word

Reread the post and I'll concede on one account - "disdain" was not the word that I should have used there. It was a little more severe than needed. I was more talking about disdain that I have for very selfish people while also reacting to what I felt were some previousl "baiting" comments. I've also edited some comments from a previous post that I felt were petty and said in the heat of the moment.

Anyway, I came here looking for something new and got very interested in the topic. Others have helped me tremendously in getting started and I have since read a lot on it. I will continue to do so. Thanks.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

y'know what? I thought better of it. nevermind!

That's a first...

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Disdain Was A Badly Chosen Word

Reread the post and I'll concede on one account - "disdain" was not the word that I should have used there. It was a little more severe than needed. I was more talking about disdain that I have for very selfish people while also reacting to what I felt were some previousl "baiting" comments. I've also edited some comments from a previous post that I felt were petty and said in the heat of the moment.

Anyway, I came here looking for something new and got very interested in the topic. Others have helped me tremendously in getting started and I have since read a lot on it. I will continue to do so. Thanks.

If you honestly want to learn about BDSM and/or D/s, this is a good place to start.

As for baiting you, you will remember that Eating_Scarlett has done nothing but bait this forum since she (if in fact that is what she is) got here. It was not very wise of you to align yourself with her.

You jumped into this forum agreeing with a very disagreeable person. One who has posted venom before in this forum under another screen name.


Enjoy your stay.

As for selfish people, I am sure you will agree there are selfish people in vanilla lifestyle also.

 

[WriterDom]

I just found it a little amusing that you feel like you have to tell me not to play into the troll's hand when you have more posts here than anyone. Including the troll. All she wants is a reaction, and you feed her daily.

 

[BTK51]

I did identify with E_S' point of view which is why I became interested. While I initially felt that she came on a bit strong, as I read further, I believe that she was just looking, as I am, to learn more about it and not just trolling. If she was trolling, then she took me in and I'm the dummy.

I know nothing about previously posted venom as I am fairly new to Lit and never noted any of her posts. I took her strong stand and opinions as a sign of a challenge to dispute her position. Maybe not the best tactic in looking for help but one that effectively ellicts a strong response.

Trolls are a type of person that I DO have disdain for! (and that's the right word).

 

[BTK51]

Re: Re: Disdain Was A Badly Chosen Word

As for selfish people, I am sure you will agree there are selfish people in vanilla lifestyle also.

Agreed!!! I have read the Selfish Dominant thread as well and have more questions after reading that than before I started. I am pretty convinced that It truly is one of those "gotta be there" things and that I'll probably can't reach the level of understanding that I want. But that won't stop me from trying though. I'll continue to read.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I did identify with E_S' point of view which is why I became interested. While I initially felt that she came on a bit strong, as I read further, I believe that she was just looking, as I am, to learn more about it and not just trolling. If she was trolling, then she took me in and I'm the dummy.

I know nothing about previously posted venom as I am fairly new to Lit and never noted any of her posts. I took her strong stand and opinions as a sign of a challenge to dispute her position. Maybe not the best tactic in looking for help but one that effectively ellicts a strong response.

Trolls are a type of person that I DO have disdain for! (and that's the right word).

Is there a particular subject you want to know about? This really is a caring forum, even though we do get on each other's nerves at times. *Sigh* Just like family.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I just found it a little amusing that you feel like you have to tell me not to play into the troll's hand when you have more posts here than anyone.

Since you fail to "get it" I will enlighten you.

1. I said that I was gonna have fun with the troll.
2. I never gave her any concrete information for her to scoff at. 3. All I did was amuse myself at her expense.


As for My feeding her, I did not, I made fun of her, which is very different. I did not run around trying to make her "understand."


Now let's look at you.

You posted information about the anal play of male subs. I bet you have lots of experience at that don't you?
Why would you post information about something that neither interests you nor do you have experience in, unless you have an interest in male subs that we all do not know about.

I only speak from My experiences. I passed on that cause I knew what her purpose was.

As for My number of posts, why should you give a shit to the point of bringing it up more than once? What is your purpose.

You and I have butted heads before, WD, and I have to wonder at why you are choosing this time and place to try to bust My chops. If it make syou feel good, go ahead, have at it. I do not give a shit.

I am finding you amusing to. Thanks.

 

[WriterDom]

[You and I have butted heads before, WD, and I have to wonder at why you are choosing this time and place to try to bust My chops. If it make syou feel good, go ahead, have at it. I do not give a shit.

You quote me first and then pitch a fit cause I reply? I guess it was the male sub comment that set you off. I don't have male subs, but I do have Domme friends and I don't know one that doesn't have a strap on, including the great EB. So I stand by my statement that male subs are more anal than the straight male population.

 

[Ebonyfire]

You quote me first and then pitch a fit cause I reply? I guess it was the male sub comment that set you off. I don't have male subs, but I do have Domme friends and I don't know one that doesn't have a strap on, including the great EB. So I stand by my statement that male subs are more anal than the straight male population.

Nothing set Me off. Try it, you can't.

You do not speak for all straight men, just like I do not speak for All straight women. Your opinions are valid and are your own. That is not what I am saying.

And I am happy that you have any friends at all, especially Dommes friends. So that crack about the "great EB" just proves MY point. You have an issue with Me.

Sarcasm does you no service. It shows you up for what you are.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Re: Re: Re: Disdain Was A Badly Chosen Word

Agreed!!! I have read the Selfish Dominant thread as well and have more questions after reading that than before I started. I am pretty convinced that It truly is one of those "gotta be there" things and that I'll probably can't reach the level of understanding that I want. But that won't stop me from trying though. I'll continue to read.

You seem to be sincere in your quest for knowledge, ask and we will try to answer your questions.

We are actually quite a friendly bunch, mostly we blow a lot of hot air around but when someone has a sincere need for knowledge we try to help to our best ability.

Francisco.

 

[WriterDom]

You have an issue with Me.

I the only issue I have with you is you telling me how to respond to the troll when your "fun with the troll" and your amusing yourself at her expense keeps this thread at the top of the forum more than the troll does.

But go ahead and post away. I think I'll just put eating red pussy on ignore, and that way this thread with disappear. From my monitor anyway.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Re: Re: Re: Thanks - Eating_Scarlet

Great Help Thanks!

Now, at the risk of sounding like i'm delivering an order (such a dominant thing to do), i'd suggest a romp thru the library.

i haven't finished it yet, and i doubt i will, but if you have a real specific question, i'd bet you might find it somewhere in there.

Feel free to hop in any of the threads with an open mind.

Don't take umbrage at the bristling if it comes across that way. Just consider it "hard text."

 

[Ebonyfire]

I the only issue I have with you is you telling me how to respond to the troll when your "fun with the troll" and your amusing yourself at her expense keeps this thread at the top of the forum more than the troll does.

But go ahead and post away. I think I'll just put eating red pussy on ignore, and that way this thread with disappear. From my monitor anyway.

I gave you advice. You ignored it, which is your right, but your counting MY posts and calling me "great EB" should be beneath You, but I guess it is not.

I will not change, and neither will you, so let's just leave it at that.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

I did identify with E_S' point of view which is why I became interested. While I initially felt that she came on a bit strong, as I read further, I believe that she was just looking, as I am, to learn more about it and not just trolling. If she was trolling, then she took me in and I'm the dummy.

I know nothing about previously posted venom as I am fairly new to Lit and never noted any of her posts. I took her strong stand and opinions as a sign of a challenge to dispute her position. Maybe not the best tactic in looking for help but one that effectively ellicts a strong response.

Trolls are a type of person that I DO have disdain for! (and that's the right word).

Glad to see you're interested in learning. We do have a great Library and there are also a couple of great websites you might want to check out, namely www.castlerealm.com and www.steel-door.com/Chamber.html .
These are both great sites for people new to BDSM and are full of information. Castlerealm in particular, is set up is a such a way that one "lesson" builds upon another. It's a great site and comes highly recommended from several people here at Lit.

You may also want to check out the Links category in the Library someday, and have a look at a wonderful thread by a fellow Litster, Wizard. He keeps quite a collection of BDSM-related links. You'll find lots to look at there as well.

I want to also point out one thing. At the very beginning of this thread I busted Eating_Scarlett as for the troll she was (Eating_Crimson), and provided the links to the threads from earlier this year's trolling. She's no different now than she was then.

Good luck on your journey, and if you have any questions, please feel free to PM me.

~anelize, BDSM Librarian

 

[Croctden]

Time out

Don't throw rocks in your glass house, dear. Did you know that 48 of the 415 replies on this thread are yours?

How did you figure that out? Is there some type of counting link I don't know about?

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

Nobody 'busted' me as Eating_Crimson, because I openly announced that I was the same person. Holy shit.. how ignorant are you? Do you really think I'd be that stupid to choose a name virtually idential to the first if I were trying to remain anonymous??

Seems the lights are on, but nobody's home...

As for the anal sex question, I asked because I was reading my boyfriends 'male' magazine last week and they had a three page feature about BDSM in it. The article said that the community formed because of people who liked to indulge in kinky sexual acts as opposed to 'straight sex' and needed an excuse for it (those weren't the exact words, but I can't really remember), so they created BDSM.

They then went on to explain about 80 or so different acts that Doms/subs engage in, that 'vanilla' couples don't. There was stuff like strangulation to heighten the sense of orgasm, eating poo, anal sex, cock stuffing, bestiality, whipping, etc etc...

I got curious. I know anal sex is practised in all sorts of relationships and not exclusively BDSM ones, but this article made me wonder if that's where it all started (in heterosexual couples). IF you guys are the first to test drive the kinky stuff... does the credit go to you for turning previously taboo acts into mainstream stuff??

In my opinion, I *THINK* that more couples in BDSM relationships would be engaging in anal sex than 'straight' couples.

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

Ebonyfire: I think you're a total waste of oxygen. Talk about harping on! Please, do ME a favour, and put me on ignore so I won't have to deal with further whining and incoherent ramblings.

WriterDom: Don't know why you'd want to put me on ignore. I reckon that I have valid points. However if you feel you can't deal with them... then by all means... it won't be a great loss on my part.

 

[Richard49]

As for the anal sex question, I asked because I was reading my boyfriends 'male' magazine last week and they had a three page feature about BDSM in it. The article said that the community formed because of people who liked to indulge in kinky sexual acts as opposed to 'straight sex' and needed an excuse for it (those weren't the exact words, but I can't really remember), so they created BDSM.

another publication that does not shit from reality

I really do not want an answer to this qyestion
it just runs through my mind
why if you think we are all sick or do things you would never do
why bother to come here and waste our time

To those that are truly seeking
I have the time,energy and resourses to answer there questions or to know where to send them for answers
but to come heree just to stir shit up
I have no use for

 

[Missconduct]

IF you guys are the first to test drive the kinky stuff... does the credit go to you for turning previously taboo acts into mainstream stuff??

I don't think any of us are the first to test drive the kinky stuff. And, well, the rest of your question is virtually unanswerable except that "credit" doesn't go to anyone for anything. Aside from that, the terms "previously," "taboo" and "mainstream" are far too vague and subjective to make it anything but rhetorical.

BUT (HA!) I am gonna answer with this: As far as I know, the Marquis de Sade is the first chronicled kink (or "libertine" as he liked to be called) in modern history. And I'm pretty certain he loved to give AND take it in the bunghole.

So. Do all vanilla people like to "do it" in missionary position with their clothes on and the lights turned off? Just curious.

xx,

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

So. Do all vanilla people like to "do it" in missionary position with their clothes on and the lights turned off? Just curious.

xx,

*teehee*

What would you do if I said yes? Call me a liar?

 

[WriterDom]

Re: Time out

How did you figure that out? Is there some type of counting link I don't know about?

Yes, I'm sorry that you had the new math.

 

[Richard49]

Re: Time out

How did you figure that out? Is there some type of counting link I don't know about?

There is a way to get a count of who has posted and how many times to a specfic thread ........ however no way to know what they posted without going and reading