I Must Be Stupid

[social_morality]

It happens from both sides of the spectrum. One of my first experiences with a D/s relationship was with a girl who appeared to be a good sub and we were clicking and getting to know each other. All of a sudden she goes offline and then reappears, only this isn't the girl but her brother and several of their friends that were telling me that they were going to use her and that she would talk to me in the morning. She then gets back on less than an hour later saying she was fine but that now her father and mother wanted to use her next. I called BS right there and ended the thing.

It takes honesty to do these relationship and it takes trust.

 

[Etoile]

It happens from both sides of the spectrum. One of my first experiences with a D/s relationship was with a girl who appeared to be a good sub and we were clicking and getting to know each other. All of a sudden she goes offline and then reappears, only this isn't the girl but her brother and several of their friends that were telling me that they were going to use her and that she would talk to me in the morning. She then gets back on less than an hour later saying she was fine but that now her father and mother wanted to use her next. I called BS right there and ended the thing.

It takes honesty to do these relationship and it takes trust.

Uhhhhh...psycho much?! Good for you for getting out of there!

 

[social_morality]

Uhhhhh...psycho much?! Good for you for getting out of there!

At the time I was thinking the same thing, either that or someone getting a laugh at my expense. This is why I like to talk to the person for a little bit longer now before getting any sort of connection. Though I should have seen a problem at the "If you move over here I'll be your girlfriend and fuck you whenever you want" but I was young and naive at the time. Though I may be single right now, I know what to look for to avoid the psychos and the fakers.

 

[FurryFury]

Everyone would like closure but usually the best thing you can do for yourself is to say, "This is over, case closed." Seriously.

 

[social_morality]

Very true FurryFury.

 

[LetteEnvy18]

Against all of the amazing advice I received here on Lit, we've talked.

And.......I'm going to shoot myself for being so fucking stupid. You know what I thought would be a full on story of what really happened was actually a five minute story about.....guess what?

Fucking crazy ex girlfriends. Then he starts talking about wanting to be how we once were, fuck him.

So I will say this once and only once, you all were right and I was wrong. Point taken and mentally noted for future references.

(I'm pissed, if you couldn't tell) ha

 

[social_morality]

Don't worry Lette, you will find someone that is better than him that can give you his full attention and be honest with you. A guy like this give us other male doms a bad name as people begin to assume that we are all using our subs as "the other woman" and simply use her as a side piece. Trust me, there are more people out there just waiting to be given a chance. Carpe diem - Seize the day.

 

[LetteEnvy18]

Carpe diem - Seize the day.

Dead Poets Society. Epic. Ha.

And thanks, ill keep that in mind the next time I begin my search.

 

[shy slave]

LetteEnvy, glad you walked away.

Ex girlfriends are often not as crazy as we are told they are

 

[Mz_Cunningham]

Against all of the amazing advice I received here on Lit, we've talked.

And.......I'm going to shoot myself for being so fucking stupid. You know what I thought would be a full on story of what really happened was actually a five minute story about.....guess what?

Fucking crazy ex girlfriends. Then he starts talking about wanting to be how we once were, fuck him.

So I will say this once and only once, you all were right and I was wrong. Point taken and mentally noted for future references.

(I'm pissed, if you couldn't tell) ha

Well I agreed reading through it all that you shouldn't talk to him and that he's a lying cheating bastard....

I (and think most others on here) don't blame you, or think less about you for doing so. Because we're all human and a lot of the time, even though everyone will warn us from their own experiences we still need to do it ourselves to have our own experiences. Hope can be a real bitch at times, but atleast you went in with all the advice and warnings and you were able to see for yourself what he was like.

So good on you for getting out of there

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Against all of the amazing advice I received here on Lit, we've talked.

And.......I'm going to shoot myself for being so fucking stupid. You know what I thought would be a full on story of what really happened was actually a five minute story about.....guess what?

Fucking crazy ex girlfriends. Then he starts talking about wanting to be how we once were, fuck him.

So I will say this once and only once, you all were right and I was wrong. Point taken and mentally noted for future references.

(I'm pissed, if you couldn't tell) ha

All the advice in the world can't stop you sometimes.

Sometimes you have to do it, you have to find out, and you have to come to the conclusion yourself.

It sucks, yeah, but now you know once and for all and can move on.

 

[Etoile]

It's fine that you talked to him. We'd only be disappointed if you then got back together with him)

 

[1HF]

Against all of the amazing advice I received here on Lit, we've talked.

And.......I'm going to shoot myself for being so fucking stupid. You know what I thought would be a full on story of what really happened was actually a five minute story about.....guess what?

Fucking crazy ex girlfriends. Then he starts talking about wanting to be how we once were, fuck him.

So I will say this once and only once, you all were right and I was wrong. Point taken and mentally noted for future references.

(I'm pissed, if you couldn't tell) ha

Good for you.

I've heard the "crazy ex girlfriend" thing before. Often they aren't an ex, and not too often crazy.

I hope you have better luck with the next one. This guy obviously wasn't worth your time.

 

[Etoile]

Dead Poets Society. Epic. Ha.

And thanks, ill keep that in mind the next time I begin my search.

Horace, actually, well before Robin Williams.

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

too bad

It's rather too bad you didn't stick around in his life long enough to learn how many other lies he told you. I'd guess there would have been MANY!
N

 

[Stella_Omega]

It's rather too bad you didn't stick around in his life long enough to learn how many other lies he told you. I'd guess there would have been MANY!
N

naw, it really isn't too bad at all. Why spend the energy on malice?

 

[1HF]

naw, it really isn't too bad at all. Why spend the energy on malice?

I agree. Knowing about one lie is enough. Why waste any more time or energy on the man? And what good would finding out more do?