limp_little_dick
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I have a small penis fetish that certainly does originate with an actual event. I live in England and many years ago I took a girlfriend to a beach resort on the south coast. Although it was a hot day, to me the sea around England never feels as though it gets much above freezing point, but on this day I was persuaded to go for a swim. All I had to wear was a rather old and extremely tight swimming costume and its effect upon my personal equipment was predictably unflattering to say the least. In short, I was tiny (and short!) My girl and I fumbled and groped each other beneath the water, but, being in view of a public beach, we could do little more than that. My girlfriend got her hand into my costume and squeezed my already tiny offering even smaller - and I never did manage to get it up that day! My complete limpness was hugely embarrassing, of course, and it was only later that I came to see an erotic side to this event. We later tried to recreate it, but the male organ can be fickle and mine refused to co-operate this time!
My fetish remains, however, and I now sometimes write stories around it. One of these is called "Under Control" and appears on this website. I probably still enjoy the fetish because it is tantamount to orgasm denial or delay, and I find that when my orgasm is finally released it is much stronger than normal.
Does anyone else like orgasm delay?
My fetish remains, however, and I now sometimes write stories around it. One of these is called "Under Control" and appears on this website. I probably still enjoy the fetish because it is tantamount to orgasm denial or delay, and I find that when my orgasm is finally released it is much stronger than normal.
Does anyone else like orgasm delay?
Interesting topic. I've thought about this many times and I'm sure if some of us dug a little it wouldn't be that hard to trace the roots of some of our fetishes.
I don't like to call it a fetish but I have a strong attraction to BBW's and part of it I believe is my experiences growing up as an overweight kid. I've been there and have lived through the emotions, insecurities and rejections and I feel empathy towards people going through the same and somehow this travels from my brain to my crotch.
I don't like to call it a fetish but I have a strong attraction to BBW's and part of it I believe is my experiences growing up as an overweight kid. I've been there and have lived through the emotions, insecurities and rejections and I feel empathy towards people going through the same and somehow this travels from my brain to my crotch.
While it doesn't fit the official definition of fetish for me, I am definitely a foot guy. Love looking at them, rubbing them, licking, sucking etc. I'm hetero, so I'm only turned on my womens feet and am not aroused, or tuned off for that matter, when women play with my feet.
I think it might be connected to the fact that my family attended a Nazarene church for several years and ceremonial foot washing was part of the liturgy. It was meant to enforce ideals such as humility, willingness to serve your fellow man, etc. This was while I was becoming curious about sex, and the foot washing ceremonies were my first physical contact with girls my age. The religious aspect of it.....it also became intimate in my mind.
It may seem juvenile, but one of my favorite 'lazy afternoon' activities is painting a women's toe nails. Sort of brings back the church ritual, removing the old polish, buffing the nails, applying the new.......plus the knowledge that I'll be sucking on them later on.
I think it might be connected to the fact that my family attended a Nazarene church for several years and ceremonial foot washing was part of the liturgy. It was meant to enforce ideals such as humility, willingness to serve your fellow man, etc. This was while I was becoming curious about sex, and the foot washing ceremonies were my first physical contact with girls my age. The religious aspect of it.....it also became intimate in my mind.
It may seem juvenile, but one of my favorite 'lazy afternoon' activities is painting a women's toe nails. Sort of brings back the church ritual, removing the old polish, buffing the nails, applying the new.......plus the knowledge that I'll be sucking on them later on.
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Interesting thread!
My fetish(one of them), is to have my ass played with and penetrated. I've actually done this for myself for just about as long as i can remember. I would use just about anything that looked like it might do the trick, until i was old enough to buy at the toy store. I even appropriated my mother's big dildo when i was about 12. Now, i'm pretty sure this all started as a lad of 3 or 4, while at the pediatricians office. I was lying on the exam table to endure a routine medical procedure( you can guess which). After the nurse gently slid the cool, smooth tube into my little bum about 3 inches she rested her palm on my cheeks. But it was what she did next that i shall never forget, and it was this: as she held the tube steady between her fingers, she began soothingly rubbing my bottom in a circular motion. This had the effect of swirling the end around inside me, (possibly contacting my little prostate?), and bringing me a sensation that, to my mind at the time, was incredibly pleasurable. I now have an assortment of toys that i employ to stimulate my Man g-spot, and still get a great thrill from doing so.
My fetish(one of them), is to have my ass played with and penetrated. I've actually done this for myself for just about as long as i can remember. I would use just about anything that looked like it might do the trick, until i was old enough to buy at the toy store. I even appropriated my mother's big dildo when i was about 12. Now, i'm pretty sure this all started as a lad of 3 or 4, while at the pediatricians office. I was lying on the exam table to endure a routine medical procedure( you can guess which). After the nurse gently slid the cool, smooth tube into my little bum about 3 inches she rested her palm on my cheeks. But it was what she did next that i shall never forget, and it was this: as she held the tube steady between her fingers, she began soothingly rubbing my bottom in a circular motion. This had the effect of swirling the end around inside me, (possibly contacting my little prostate?), and bringing me a sensation that, to my mind at the time, was incredibly pleasurable. I now have an assortment of toys that i employ to stimulate my Man g-spot, and still get a great thrill from doing so.
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I have two kinks. I know where my fetish for pantyhose comes from. I remember when I first became aware of a BDSM kink (the dom) but I'm not sure of they why, though I have a theory.
First the pantyhose. My first girlfriend wouldn't allow penetration, but everything else was fair game. She almost always wore nude, sheer pantyhose, and would let my hump her leg with my naked cock. Occasionally, she would even rub it against her nylon-sheathed thigh as she stroked me off. More often than not, I'd end up cumming on her leg, after which she'd scoop it up and either rub it into her breasts or lick it off her fingers. Today, the sight of a pantyhos-ed leg gets me almost instantly hard and I still love to rub against my wife's thighs. In fact, when I'm in a really kinky mood I'll put a pair on myself and rub my cock through them.
As to the BDSM: I remember watching "The House of Wax" (the Vincent Price version). He kidnapped a brunette and stripped her (of course, back then we couldn't see her naked body, just her bare torso to the top of her breasts and her naked thighs). Her hands were tied above her head and he was slowly lowering her into a vat of wax. The gag, the terrified eyes and the struggling excited me to no end. To this day, any depiction of "damsels in distress" drives me crazy. I love to tie up my wife, flog her, beat her with a belt....anything that puts me in control.
I'm not sure why I have this prediliction. I grew up in a very repressed, strict religious home without a male role-model. I was raised by my mother, grandmother and a great aunt. I'd be interested in any opinions as to whether this contributed to my kink?
First the pantyhose. My first girlfriend wouldn't allow penetration, but everything else was fair game. She almost always wore nude, sheer pantyhose, and would let my hump her leg with my naked cock. Occasionally, she would even rub it against her nylon-sheathed thigh as she stroked me off. More often than not, I'd end up cumming on her leg, after which she'd scoop it up and either rub it into her breasts or lick it off her fingers. Today, the sight of a pantyhos-ed leg gets me almost instantly hard and I still love to rub against my wife's thighs. In fact, when I'm in a really kinky mood I'll put a pair on myself and rub my cock through them.
As to the BDSM: I remember watching "The House of Wax" (the Vincent Price version). He kidnapped a brunette and stripped her (of course, back then we couldn't see her naked body, just her bare torso to the top of her breasts and her naked thighs). Her hands were tied above her head and he was slowly lowering her into a vat of wax. The gag, the terrified eyes and the struggling excited me to no end. To this day, any depiction of "damsels in distress" drives me crazy. I love to tie up my wife, flog her, beat her with a belt....anything that puts me in control.
I'm not sure why I have this prediliction. I grew up in a very repressed, strict religious home without a male role-model. I was raised by my mother, grandmother and a great aunt. I'd be interested in any opinions as to whether this contributed to my kink?
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Hmmm my main fetish is the Daddy fetish which as I have slowly realized, has triggered another fetish although I'm not sure what to call it.
Not wanting to grow up? Sounds odd although it explains quite a bit on how I act in general. I'm an only child so I've had the opportunity and blessing to be a bit of a spoiled brat. I love that. I do not want to grow up or have dreadfully serious responsibilities like children (perhaps some day) or growing old. I realize growing older is inevitable. Of course, when it comes to my job I act my age but aside from that, I enjoy acting younger. That is where the Daddy fetish comes in...that safe, cocooning feeling or sense of security that I can play a younger girl. That an older Daddy will indulge me by letting me be his sweet younger girl, that is what feels so right to me. Being on a Daddy's lap, having my hair brushed, having Daddy speak to me as if I'm a younger girl....is heaven to me. I act younger, look younger and sound younger...I know age is just a number but that is where I feel most comfortable. Is that odd?
My family and friends tell me, "oh grow up!" They have no idea. ^_^
Not wanting to grow up? Sounds odd although it explains quite a bit on how I act in general. I'm an only child so I've had the opportunity and blessing to be a bit of a spoiled brat. I love that. I do not want to grow up or have dreadfully serious responsibilities like children (perhaps some day) or growing old. I realize growing older is inevitable. Of course, when it comes to my job I act my age but aside from that, I enjoy acting younger. That is where the Daddy fetish comes in...that safe, cocooning feeling or sense of security that I can play a younger girl. That an older Daddy will indulge me by letting me be his sweet younger girl, that is what feels so right to me. Being on a Daddy's lap, having my hair brushed, having Daddy speak to me as if I'm a younger girl....is heaven to me. I act younger, look younger and sound younger...I know age is just a number but that is where I feel most comfortable. Is that odd?
My family and friends tell me, "oh grow up!" They have no idea. ^_^
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Various crushes I had when I was younger influence some specific fetishes I have today; teachers, for example, have given me a predilection for redheads with freckles, for women with glasses, for stockings, heels, pencil skirts and white blouses, and for smart, literate women.
Most of my crushes when I was young were inappropriate in some way. That's given me a huge fascination with the taboo: people contemplating acts and relationships that they know are forbidden to them, but which they desperately want. I love fantasies that put me in a role where I feel that tug of sexual desire vs morality or social norms. I think the reason I fantasize about it is that it normalizes my own experiences and desires a little bit, but there's also a very unique type of excitement that comes from that type of fantasy, at least for me.
Most of my crushes when I was young were inappropriate in some way. That's given me a huge fascination with the taboo: people contemplating acts and relationships that they know are forbidden to them, but which they desperately want. I love fantasies that put me in a role where I feel that tug of sexual desire vs morality or social norms. I think the reason I fantasize about it is that it normalizes my own experiences and desires a little bit, but there's also a very unique type of excitement that comes from that type of fantasy, at least for me.
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My amateur opinion: I'd have to say that has a lot to with your current predilections. Enjoy!
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Wow, amazing. You sound fantastic, someone is going to be a very lucky and happy Daddy with a girl like you.
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I recently came out of a dedicated D/s relationship where my D was like a life mentor for me. I realized i like feeling like I am being "taken care of" in a relationship in more ways than just sexually because my older brother helped to take care of me and look out for me when our parents divorced when we were young. I have no attraction whatsoever for my brother; it just makes me feel innately "safe" and that carries over to my relationships I guess 
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Hmmm?
My kink if you'd call it that is I fantasise about incest with the women in my family.
My mother, my sisters, my daughter. Obviously I'd never do anything wih them but whenever I'm having sex, when I cum, Its one of them that I think about.
This, I guess is because of the way I lost my virginity.
My Mum was ill when I was 11 and had to go to hospital, I stayed with her sister my aunt and it was her that took me to her bed and showed me all the fun you can have with a willing woman
My kink if you'd call it that is I fantasise about incest with the women in my family.
My mother, my sisters, my daughter. Obviously I'd never do anything wih them but whenever I'm having sex, when I cum, Its one of them that I think about.
This, I guess is because of the way I lost my virginity.
My Mum was ill when I was 11 and had to go to hospital, I stayed with her sister my aunt and it was her that took me to her bed and showed me all the fun you can have with a willing woman
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Good insight
I can see that. Good self awareness! Good insight.
I recently came out of a dedicated D/s relationship where my D was like a life mentor for me. I realized i like feeling like I am being "taken care of" in a relationship in more ways than just sexually because my older brother helped to take care of me and look out for me when our parents divorced when we were young. I have no attraction whatsoever for my brother; it just makes me feel innately "safe" and that carries over to my relationships I guess
I can see that. Good self awareness! Good insight.
