CheekyGiRL07
Really Really Experienced
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- Oct 23, 2007
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Go slow and do it in a bath tub. It kinda feels gross, and you don't feel as messy when you do it in the tub.
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Thank you so much to everyone who left advice! It is very much appreciated!! The links to sites with more information were so helpful, I had been trying to do some research - but guess I was looking in all the wrong places lol.
Can't wait to be able to add my input to someone's anal question!!
Thanks again for all the help!!!!
There is probably more advice on anal sex than anything else on Lit. There is no reason for it to hurt the first time or any time. It is one time when your pleasure or pain is completely in the control of your partner. His skill and experience is what makes the difference. No matter how you prepare, if he is clumsy or goes to fast, it won't be nice for you.
His part is to slowly and gently relax your ass until his cock will fit without stretching the muscle. This is what hurts. Its something like getting kicked in the balls. Any man should understand that. It helps if you have one or two orgasms while he is opening you. An ordinary vibrator, with a gentle tapered tip is best. With his mouth, his fingers or yours on your clit, while he pushes the vibrator gently in and retracts, each time pressing until resistance is felt and letting then muscle slowly expand. When the vibrator slips in easy, he can penetrate you with no pain. Lube is critical. Depending on how long and how vigorous it is, you will need to add lube quite a few times. I always add more lube between my partners orgasms.
I have never seen a need for enemas or any other prep than an ordinary bath or shower. For all the nonsense about it, it just never been a problem.
As for afterwords, a towel tucked between your cheeks is all you need. Its not the time you want to be jumping up and running to the bathroom anyway.
so i have been thinking a lot about this whole anal sex thing - i must say, most of the time the idea does not appeal to me ... but there are those times that it REALLY does. my Daddy (no, not my real Dad - my Dom!) has told me numerous times through our discussions that this is something that we are going to do because it pleases Him immensly. Only problem is, i've never done anal before - so im terrified of the idea! Any comments or suggestions would be so much appreciated here. i have so many questions about it! ... like, doesn't it hurt, a lot? seems to me that it would be umm *messy* and gross?? what's the best way to start? what's the best type of lube to use for less mess and more comfort? i've been doing some research - but i never know how much of it is actually true, so i wanted to hear it from real people. i would really appreciate any and all feedback here, good and bad. i definitely want to be prepared for this - i want to show Him that i can do this for Him ... so PLEASE HELP ME!!!
thanks so much!!! can't wait to hear the feedback!
I second all those that recommended AstroGlide.