If a guy that you are sexually and emotionally involved with

[bailadora]

Thanks, bailadora. Sooooo true, but Soooo NOT understood as many other "old wives' tales" about sexuality that we can't seem to get past.

Thanks for the reality check.

You're welcome.

FWIW, I think the perception that males who are sexually submissive are somehow less masculine in comparison to the rest of their brethren is a load of horse shit. Two of the most "manly" men I know happen to be msubs. As long as you and your partner enjoy it, the rest is just noise.

 

[BJanePA]

I can't believe no one has mentioned face sitting after sex, when you are filled with his fresh cum. Him requesting that is the ultimate intimacy! It isn't a fetish for me, and I don't need to have it all the time, but when it does happen I go crazy!! Delish!

 

[Cattypuss]

I can't believe no one has mentioned face sitting after sex, when you are filled with his fresh cum. Him requesting that is the ultimate intimacy! It isn't a fetish for me, and I don't need to have it all the time, but when it does happen I go crazy!! Delish!

The ultimate intimacy for whom? I do it for my man at his request and for the reasons mentioned in my post above I find it not very intimate. Intimacy is a two-way street.

 

[chelleb]

Ladies what if a guy that you are sexually and emotionally involved with wanted you to sit on his face for oral sex,

1. what would be your probable reaction?
2. How would it affect your opinion of him after the fact accepting or not?

I have always enjoyed face-sitting with women that I am really in to and have never even considered it as extreme or a fetish and if it is so be it. I'll have to accept being weird

I have always thought that women would enjoy the freedom and the opportunity to have more control of their oral climaxes making sex better for both, I hope.

Thanks,

1. I've never tried it, but if asked would certainly be willing to give it a try.
2. My opinion would not change.

I feel that I am pretty open-minded sexually, and there is very little I would absolutely refuse to try at least once. I figure.....how do you know you like something, or not, if you haven't tried. If we did it, and it wasn't all that enjoyable, I'd probably bring it up later.

~Chelle

 

[Adrraiya]

I do it very frequently for my man. Let me tell you that he was the first man to want it - and that was after I'd been sexually active with various men for around 25 years.

I am happy to do it and I often come from it but to be honest I feel it lacks intimacy. When you are sitting on a man's face, you are sat up staring at the wall, your torso is not in contact with him, your arms are not around him and you can't see his face. That to me is lack of intimacy.

I see the point in that position.... however, there is more than one way for a woman to sit on a man's face... if you sit on his face, with your knees pointed towards his feet instead of his head.... you can lean forward, you can rest your breasts & torso on his body... heck you can wallow around on is body in a 69 like fashion... you could 69 if you wanted (not me, he would get injured because I tend to bite when I orgasm)

also, for those women who are worried they would smother the man... being able to lean forward in that position gives room between your body & his nose... thus providing some breathing room

as it relates to controlling the movement & getting a better orgasm... I tend to do better when he is "driving the car" rather than me... I can get totally lost if I am not concerning myself with movement & just enjoying what he does... you can always help him develop the best techniques that work for you by providing feedback (words, sounds, some sort of response)

in my case, hip issues... it is still so much better to have oral when I am able to lay on my back... if you are healthy... give it a whirl & see what you both like...

oral sex or intercourse.... it never hurts to try out a position that you are able to achieve... if for no other reason than to encourage open communication & exploration of ideas

 

[wellnow]

1. Yes, please.
2. My opinion of him would be exponentially increased.

That is a better position for me. I have a hard time cumming on my back. Good thought.

Thanks, TrueFox. I'm sure his opinion of you would also especially after having you cum on his face.

 

[ElijaRDC]

I'm very turned on by a guy worshipping my sex so facesitting is one of my favorites. I don't consider it to be weird or a fetish unless it's done to the point of asphyxiation which I am not into. I have been with a few guys who absolutely loved for me to sit over their face to receive oral and it would give me a deeper level of respect for them.

 

[wellnow]

I'm very turned on by a guy worshipping my sex so facesitting is one of my favorites. I don't consider it to be weird or a fetish unless it's done to the point of asphyxiation which I am not into. I have been with a few guys who absolutely loved for me to sit over their face to receive oral and it would give me a deeper level of respect for them.

Awesome, ElijaRDC. This is the reaction that I always hope for.