If you HAD to be vanilla...

[vintage63]

anal isn't in the vanilla repetoire? who knew?

for me it would be ropes, choking and hair pulling.

I guess it could be but was never in any of my Vanilla relationships so I associate it with my non vanilla life

 

[TenCentPistol]

hair pulling, scratching, choking.

 

[rcoobc]

Domination
Bondage
Anal

maybe in that order, but i might have missed some stuff out.

 

[rcoobc]

Actually there would be spanking in there. and i think Domination is probably too generic.

Bondage
Spanking
Anal Play - but not full anal

 

[Soumis]

Rope, floggers, and knives, but then it wouldn't be vanilla now would it?

 

[NomadLady]

Spanking
Anal
Bondage

I think that pretty much covers the top three for me!

 

[FurryFury]

Lately, I not only have to be vanilla (with him) but rarely have sex at all.

In my soul I'm still kinky and so is he but in this schedule and stress, we are just two ships passing in the night.

On the all too rare occasions when we do get busy we have mostly, what I like to call "maintenance" sex. I honestly don't feel and clearly, he doesn't either that we have time for more. Oh there are some spanks and such but it's just not much or often.

 

[x_wired_x]

If you had to be vanilla for some reason, but could keep 3 "kinky" elements in your sex life, what would they be.

I would have to chose:

hair pulling
biting
scratching

(might not be much, but I've encountered some guys who just won't pull my hair or bite me or don't like to be scratched and it is SO frustrating)

Unless I could count them all as pain then it could be:

pain
humiliation
rollplay

Hmm, I could never do with out hair pulling, biting, or a hand on the back of my head when...well ya know.

But I have encountered few vanilla situations where a guy was unwilling to do this stuff. Well maybe once or twice. I have gotten the deer in headlights look before though. Blah have some balls, you are a man after all.

 

[DomPhoenix]

Gotta love a woman who likes her hair pulled, Who licks my balls when told to, and who gets off on being as dirty as I want her to be....