If your spouse gave you a hall pass

[Cthulhu1138]

I think that the Principal should issue all of us Hall Passes.

My wife has one, but I would prefer to sign off on her choice. She has declined time and again when I suggest it.


Frankly, the idea that there is only one person for us in the world does a disservice to anyone we ever dated who is not our spouse.

We all need to lighten up when it comes to sex.

(and yeah, I was caught in the hall without my pass)

 

[Beck31]

Well here is the thing. I would not use a hall pass irl. Online is different b/c it is basically just talk. The problem is that sometimes a person can become attached if it is a regular thing. It is one reason that I don't see "Phone Girl" very often anymore.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

My wife has given me a limited hall pass. I have permission to fuck any black women I want. We have been active in the swinging lifestyle for 10+ years. We are contacted by black couples all the time, but my wife has no sexual interest in black men or black women. I, on the other hand, have enjoyed black women since I was in college. As a rule, we discuss every couple that contacts us, and she has made it clear that there is no way she will ever say yes to a black couple, but if I want some black pussy, I'm free to go enjoy myself so long as it remains purely sexual.

I have also given her a limited hall pass. The first time we ever hooked up with another couple was not entirely successful. The other husband and my wife got along great, but his wife and I much less so. He has kept in contact with her on a friendly basis, and has wanted to set up another play date with us. His wife has no interest. I have told my wife if she wants to fuck him or even both of them, just go ahead and do it--I don't care. Just tell me all the details, and take a few pics if you can remember. So far, it hasn't happened.

 

[gbt]

The answer used to be no, but the anwer is getting closer to yes every day.

My wife fucked her boss (for about 6 months) 15 years ago. However, I decided to work through it, mainly for the sake of the kids. Lately, the sex life has become almost non-existent, which she blames on the kids.

I have wondered if there have been others-but she denies do anything else outside our marriage. She did admit to having some bisexual thoughts/fantasies lately-so who knows...........

 

[Beck31]

I would use it limitedly. I know I said in another post I would tear it up--the pass I mean--but after some more thought and discussion I might just cash it in. Online is a little different since it is just talk.

 

[justherhusband]

I have brought up the concept to my wife just as a fun discussion. But she doesn't see the fun in it and won't participate so I guess it's a moot point. But I think since it's just fantasy anyway and I don't have anyone irl, I'd say it would be Cary, the cute redhead on Mythbusters.

 

[Beck31]

I like that show. Yes she is cute.

 

[MatthewVett]

I would use it limitedly. I know I said in another post I would tear it up--the pass I mean--but after some more thought and discussion I might just cash it in. Online is a little different since it is just talk.

Why did you end up deleting the original post?

 

[Beck31]

I did it in a fit of anger. I get mad and wind up deleting stuff.

 

[Justme16432000]

Wife and I talked about it after watching the movie. In the end I wouldn't actually do anything except maybe sleep for 2 days

 

[Beck31]

Well that is good I guess. The fact that someone I know whom I would love to be unrestricted with lives elsewhere. So it isn't worth it imo irl. Thank goodness for the internet.

 

[subwhore60]

Hall Pass

I would use it whether Principal issued it or not - course I would help the Principal make the decision to give it to me....

 

[Mropietaylor69]

I met a woman, at a retreat at a resort, who didn't have a hall pass, but she had a 100 mile radious rule, or her and her husband did. Needless to say, she was outside the 100 mile radius and we did not sleep that night. I'm still tired, lol. I'm single so hall pass don't count for me, but if I was again, hall pass seems proper, sense I've learned that if I want it in my life, it is only right to give it as well. Hope this makes sense.

 

[coacheric]

I would probably use it on her and go for a threesome. Both MFF and MMF

 

[GoldStarBiker]

Mine

I gave my fiancée a hall pass but she declined to use it. My only stipulation was she tell me in great detail the events of the evening so we could enjoy reliving it together. Perhaps one day she reconsiders.

 

[LockedDarius]

I would probably use it on her and go for a threesome. Both MFF and MMF

This sounds like something I would try.

I couldn't use it otherwise...I'd just feel really terrible the whole time and wouldn't enjoy it. A threesome with her and another girl though? I could see that...

 

[MrFoxwood]

Nope. I'd be concerned that it'd ultimately wreck our relationship anyway.

 

[StrongMaster7]

This one has to be total science fiction for me to entertain it at all. The reality is that such an infidelity would destroy our relationship. My wife, and I love her, has strong, rigid feelings about sex and how it fits into a marriage. I think she knows I want LOTS more sex than she does and it's just up to me to deal with my frustration in a way that doesn't involve her in any way. (masturbation)

But, if I could warp the time/space continuum and step out of our timestream for some action, I would go nuts!

There have been a number of ladies that I have had cyber relationships with that I would revisit in real life. I would solicit every sexy lady on Literotica. I would contact a few ex gf's. And since this is the purest of never-gonna-happen fantasies, I would reach out to a bunch of ladies from my church and one or two of my wife's friends.

Basically, I would make my fantasy life become real for a few weeks, then I would un-warp reality and enjoy the memories for the rest of my life.

 

[thaneofcawdor]

I would probably use it on her and go for a threesome. Both MFF and MMF

Amen... for me it would be an MFF with the two ladies having most of the fun, so I could watch

 

[NoMoreNoMore]

Would use it

We have not had sex in over four years, discounting the handjob on my anniversary this past year. I have barely even seen her naked. So if she gave me a hall pass so I could finally get laid, I would be like a kid in a candy shop, except probably would overthink things like I usually do and not do anything.

 

[handysr]

Never gonna happen

I could never use a hall pass. Of course, one would never be given out anyway, so that whole concept dies immediately.

That being said, I couldn't find a willing partner unless it was one that involved a cash transfer.

 

[OpenMouth]

tbh I've been with my wife for so long I wouldn't have a bastard clue where to start!

 

[stargirl69]

A man I know is in an open marriage, and he's expressed interest in me. I'm totally monogamous, but if I had a 'hall pass' I would definitely fuck him

 

[xrxomcyd]

I would prefer to use it for a threesome as another person mentioned, not just because of the additional fun involved, but because I worry about her regretting it. If she is involved and could express her relative comfort in real time, I would be much less worried.

I would not take a hall pass if a condition were "just do not tell me about it."

 

[screwher]

Yes for sure

With my wife's blessing yeah for sure because I don't consider that cheating. I'm not boasting but I'm 43 and in the past year I've had three sexy young ladies half my age tell me "you know if you weren't married".