If your spouse gave you a hall pass

[eddie03]

Years ago my wife have me a hall pass. I still haven't used it although there have been some close calls with heavy petting with a friend of hers and once making out with her boss. She just wants up front honesty from me. Will it ever happen? Who cares, if does great and if it doesn't that is great too. I do like having the fantasy of what I am allowed to do if I want it.

 

[drinkz]

Query Wins. When you win the internetz, all it says is that you're a sad, pathetic, man in real life.

 

[jasonmason]

Under the right conditions, if granted a hall pass then yes I would use it.

 

[Gods_Favorite]

Seems like a silly concept but it does happen.

I would refuse it, and demand she use it instead.

 

[whynotjustsayit]

I desperately need a hall pass. I had one given to me briefly; it is being rescinded, I think. I didn't take advantage of the pass and apparently it has an abrupt expiration date I didn't know about. This is really pissing me off.

 

[loneeyes]

I don't think I would.

I've never been able to climax with hookups or casual girlfriends. It's taken a great deal of time to develop a relationship I'm comfortable in sexually, and I'm wise enough now to realize that the lack of an emotional connection was the reason I had difficulty with sex before.

Even if my wife gave me a pass, I know that I wouldn't have that kind of connection, and the sex probably wouldn't be very enjoyable.

 

[ADIDAS00]

If I got a hall pass I'd invite my wife along....no sense in me having all the fun. She should have some fun with me. It would only make it better I think. IMHO

 

[GeorgiaSub]

If I got a hall pass I'd invite my wife along....no sense in me having all the fun. She should have some fun with me. It would only make it better I think. IMHO

Well said! Hope your wife knows how lucky she is

 

[KarsynCurious]

I've given this considerable thought, actually. Hubby is now aware and consenting of my explorations on Lit. Unrealized curiosities, etc. I think he see's it as a reasonably healthy outlet. I have wondered though ...

 

[whynotjustsayit]

I don't think I would.

I've never been able to climax with hookups or casual girlfriends. It's taken a great deal of time to develop a relationship I'm comfortable in sexually, and I'm wise enough now to realize that the lack of an emotional connection was the reason I had difficulty with sex before.

Even if my wife gave me a pass, I know that I wouldn't have that kind of connection, and the sex probably wouldn't be very enjoyable.

That's really beautiful and you sound like an awesome husband.

 

[SquidProQuo]

He really wouldn't be the type to give a hall pass. But if I was somehow catapulted to an alternate universe and he gave me his blessing, and the person I used the hall pass actually wanted anything to do with me, it would be my former political science professor. Now, he's not someone that majority of people would deem conventionally gorgeous, but I've had the hots for him since I had him as a professor. I've had crushes on other professors, but he is the one that I always mentally go back to. I want to make clear that I care about my boyfriend and he's important to me. So maybe I would never actually use the hall pass in any universe or reality. But I've just never been able to get that former professor out of my system, I do wish I can get over him.

(Edit to add: I realize that the original question has the word "spouse" in it now... so I guess it doesn't really apply to me directly?)

 

[little cletus]

My wife and I essentially have given each other a same sex hall pass. But we're both too tired to pursue it. She dated a few women before we met, so it wouldn't be something new for her. For me it would be experimentation, and I'm not sure I'm there mentally yet. Still in the fantasy stage with my curiosity.