I'm a little confused.

[IsabellaSnow]

Interesting question, Isabella. I am no bi, nor am I at all bi-curious. I've never been interested in women. However, there have been instances when I've met dominant women to whom I deferred. And I was involved in a wax scene with one at the dungeon. Was it sexual? Not really, although it was arousing.

I think the submissive tendencies depend on the dynamics of the interactions, whether or not there is sexual interest. I don't think it means anything other than the fact that the person you're interacting with is dominant at a level that somehow brings out your submissiveness. Submissiveness isn't just about sex for many of us. It involves other aspects of life as well. It just seems to me that maybe this person was dominant at a level that brought out your submissiveness beyond which you'd experienced before. It really has no other meaning than that. The dynamics worked well between you, which when this happens, can lead to feelings of attraction that might not otherwise have been there. They don't have to be sexual in nature.

This is interesting too, thank you.

All the replies are interesting, but I dont have time to reply to them right now!

Thanks everyone for answering me!

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Really? Interesting!

Does it turn you on if it involves a man?

Does it "turn me on"? Good question.

Meaning "does it give me a hard-on and make me want to fuck?" No.

Meaning "does it excite me, arouse me, make me feel 10 feet tall?" Absolutely.