Is belly punching consider BDSM?

[seela]

Man, it's threads like this that remind me what a weirdo I am (even to fellow weirdos) sometimes.

I'd never, ever want to make you or anyone else feel like a weirdo because of their kinks. I might not understand all kinks, but I know I have some I won't go into detail here, because I am not equipped to deal with the shitstorm that would rise here, so I can sympathize.

I only wanted to remind people that with this particular kink you really, really need to know where to punch, because you can potentially do a lot of harm with relatively little effort, if you don't know what you're doing.

 

[BiBunny]

I'd never, ever want to make you or anyone else feel like a weirdo because of their kinks. I might not understand all kinks, but I know I have some I won't go into detail here, because I am not equipped to deal with the shitstorm that would rise here, so I can sympathize.

I only wanted to remind people that with this particular kink you really, really need to know where to punch, because you can potentially do a lot of harm with relatively little effort, if you don't know what you're doing.

'Twasn't you at all, my dear.

 

[DVS]

We've got people here who play with loaded guns, I play with electricity, and others play with fire. And I haven't even begun to break into the really weird stuff. So, what's a few stomach punches among friends? We've all got our kinks. I wouldn't do this, but I know from experience that there are also some that wouldn't even begin to touch electroplay. Some don't even want to engage in anal sex. Can you believe that? It's shocking!

But, we're all in the same family. Weird, strange people we are. All of us!

 

[IrisAlthea]

I'd never, ever want to make you or anyone else feel like a weirdo because of their kinks. I might not understand all kinks, but I know I have some I won't go into detail here, because I am not equipped to deal with the shitstorm that would rise here, so I can sympathize.

I only wanted to remind people that with this particular kink you really, really need to know where to punch, because you can potentially do a lot of harm with relatively little effort, if you don't know what you're doing.

I think the bolded part is why I prefer to stay away from this. For me, it's to closely linked to serious business.
I do get how it could be hot though, even if the pictures here are very non-erotic to me.

 

[bdsmshade]

Gut punching is a form of edge play and like all forms of edge play is not for everyone and like all bdsm play you have to understand the risks and be careful not to do serious damage to your playmates. Have heard how freaked out some people get over knife play and not that long ago had the spanner cases over here which started with some guys who enjoyed nailing their scrotums to wooden boards and ended with you could get arrested for spanking as its assault. We are all freaks to someone out there.

 

[StrayKat]

I think the bolded part is why I prefer to stay away from this. For me, it's to closely linked to serious business.
I do get how it could be hot though, even if the pictures here are very non-erotic to me.

Same here, only I cant even get the "hotness" of it. Stomach zone is no-no for me, I am horribly ticklish and dont even like the normal touching. Thats one thing I think I can relate to cats about, I can stretch in more or less inviting "scratch my belly" pose but God help the one who would actually accept the invitation.

 

[DVS]

I don't think we should discount this fetish, just because we don't find it erotic. I don't find it that erotic, but there are some other fetishes that I don't find erotic that many others do. I'm not into that much breast play. I like a nice looking set of boobs but I'm not like most men who seem to like the larger the better. I prefer a nice set of maybe 32s, and would even prefer a flat chest over a large one. See, I'm an ass man and a woman with big boobs just doesn't thrill me that much, unless she has a nice ass.

I also don't find bond breast bondage that interesting. And it seems to me that the longer they are bound, when they get engorged with blood, I think they look sickly more than sexy. And when some bondage has them so tight that it changes their shape so much that they don't even look like breasts any more...that just doesn't thrill me at all. But, I see it a lot in photos, and in videos, so I know it must be a very popular fetish.

And I've never been into needles. Ew. To see needles stuck into these bound breasts is such a turn off for me that I have to look away. First, I don't care for blood at all and I don't care for the bound and blood gorged breasts, and when you stick needles into them, that really compounds the disgust I have for it. It don't turn me on at all.

I like canes. But there is a limit to what I like. Caning breasts is icky. I can go for whipping or caning a stomach a little more, but I still don't find that very erotic. I just like to cane a woman's ass. And there is even a limit to that. I don't care for the long term caning where someone is hit so hard that they start to bleed. That is going way too far for me.

I can cane someone a long time without going to that extreme and still inflict a sufficient amount of pain. But, that's just me. I've seen a lot of serious caning and whipping where the pain is so intense that the victim is covered in bloody wounds that I'm sure would take nearly a month to heal. Oh, I know the videos are mostly fake, but these videos wouldn't be produced if people didn't like seeing it. It doesn't thrill me, though.

We all like what we like. I've said I don't find this stomach punching erotic and I don't. But, who am I to be the judge if there is someone who does enjoy it? There was a very popular movie called "Fight Club" and I tried to watch it, but I just couldn't see the desire in seeing so much fighting. I won't ever hit a woman with my closed fist. I know the movie had men fighting, but I don't care for any kind of fighting. I don't think I've ever even slapped a woman before.

I've sure done my share of other things, though. Like I said before, I'm really into electroplay. I mean REALLY into it. I always have been. Some people are scared shitless by it, though. It does tend to piss me off when they are so turned off by it that some won't even try it. It reminds me of the vegetable that a kid wouldn't eat because it didn't look good. Then, once he ate one, he liked them.

I have a sister that won't eat any kind of sea food, because of how they look in the wild. This list includes crab, lobster and scallops, just to mention a few. I don't think she's every even tasted them and she's now in her 60s.

People get set in their ways and they can get turned off by things along the way. And sometimes these things that turn them off are very popular to other people. It's just something about it that they personally don't like. Sometimes, you don't know why and sometimes the reason is really stupid. But just because it's stupid, that isn't going to change your mind.

BDSM is a melting pot of all of these strange fetishes. We look at how vanilla people find us disgusting for what we like to do. They think we are sick in the head because we enjoy getting beat on and enjoy inflicting pain on others. Some even try to cure us.

I've gone on record to say I don't find it erotic. But, above I've mention a few more fetishes I don't find erotic. That doesn't mean somebody else doesn't have the right to enjoy what they like. I don't think we should try to cure the people who enjoy stomach punching.

 

[evilryu7914]

Yeah I don't know why but I really like to watch girls stomach getting depressed.

 

[StrayKat]

I don't think we should discount this fetish.

Not discounting.
Just said its not my cup of tea and why.
As far as I am concerned, if others find it hot they can knock themselves out.

What I do discount is people who think they should push oversized photos of their particular fetish down everyones throat in each one liner post they make.

 

[DVS]

Not discounting.
Just said its not my cup of tea and why.
As far as I am concerned, if others find it hot they can knock themselves out.

What I do discount is people who think they should push oversized photos of their particular fetish down everyones throat in each one liner post they make.

I think some of it is in their signature, but it is rather HUGE.

 

[StrayKat]

Whatever it is, pokes me in the eye when I open the thread and text seems to be there just as an excuse to post the pics

 

[Netzach]

I'd rather be hit with a closed fist than with anything else. *Shrug* Sue me. And I like punching people, too. Whatevs.

I think people are assuming that the puncher is throwing his or her punches as hard as possible, but that's rarely the case. I have been flogged/caned/whatever a lot harder than I've ever been punched. Punches just don't require as much force to have the same effect, IMO.

You stay away from bony areas and from the face. The large muscles of the thighs and, yes, the stomach (so long as you're plenty south of the ribcage) are places that are ok to hit, provided you're not swinging like you're in a fucking street fight. The idea is short, straight jabs that are well-controlled.

If you're not an idiot about it, it's fucking hot.

This. There *is* a technique. ( avoid sternum, ribs, keep your knuckles flat, start soft and see what happens.) I never though this was hot, but I went to a workshop on a "what the hell" whim where I learned how to punch and kick people with a satisfying level of force and in such a way that even frail little people can be kicked and puched and nobody goes to the hospital. It's hot. It's about lead in and eye contact, and words, and energies, and not about making your partner into a heavy bag, duh.

Learn the technique, communicate the fuck away about any medical history with this, sit it out if you have a pacemaker. Stay safe. There you go.

 

[Netzach]

Done carefully there are no risks

Well that's not true, but done carefully there are a lot fewer risks than say, most bondage.

 

[BiBunny]

This. There *is* a technique. ( avoid sternum, ribs, keep your knuckles flat, start soft and see what happens.) I never though this was hot, but I went to a workshop on a "what the hell" whim where I learned how to punch and kick people with a satisfying level of force and in such a way that even frail little people can be kicked and puched and nobody goes to the hospital. It's hot. It's about lead in and eye contact, and words, and energies, and not about making your partner into a heavy bag, duh.

Learn the technique, communicate the fuck away about any medical history with this, sit it out if you have a pacemaker. Stay safe. There you go.

Ooh, you explained it so much better than I did. Thank you.

 

[midwestyankee]

Done carefully there are no risks

I have two words for this: Darwin Awards. There's a reason why some of the most common last words spoken are, "Here, hold my beer. I wanna show you somthin' cool."

 

[Primalex]

I can't be bothered to write anything useful, it's just another "Look at my kink. Look. NOW LOOK, GODDAMN" guy.

 

[Erochic]

Whatever it is, pokes me in the eye when I open the thread and text seems to be there just as an excuse to post the pics

Indeed

 

[evilryu7914]

Whatever it is, pokes me in the eye when I open the thread and text seems to be there just as an excuse to post the pics

Pics removed I wont post any more pics on this topic since I there is no one interested in this topic but only ppl with negative remarks. I thought if no one like this topic they just ignore this thread but they keep coming in waves with negative remarks. If u still not happy u can tell the owner to ban me from this forum.

 

[DVS]

Pics removed I wont post any more pics on this topic since I there is no one interested in this topic but only ppl with negative remarks. I thought if no one like this topic they just ignore this thread but they keep coming in waves with negative remarks. If u still not happy u can tell the owner to ban me from this forum.

Take it easy. Nobody's going to get banned from the forum. People do sometimes take offense at signatures with excessive pics and such in them, though.

You could start a thread where you can post all the pics you want. It's a way for you to find an audience. There are all kinds of threads with specific themes. Start it in the correct forum and post as many pics as you want. Urge others to post pics, too. Just don't post copyrighted pics. That's against site rules.

Give it a descriptive title, so those who enjoy this fetish can find it. You might start something big.