Is it okay to masturbate

[nastyman12a]

Ahh... I'm sorry to hear that. That's probably difficult for the both of you.

Just part of our lives, and we deal with it however we have to. so yes I masturbate.

 

[Faye_Whitaker]

If you are married? I say yes it is. Feel free to agree/disagree

Why the fuck wouldn't it be? I mean, I'm not married, but if I were it wouldn't be to someone who had a problem with me touching myself.

It takes pressure off our spouses when they don't want to do it, and they also allow us to fantasize and dream without the pressure of performing sexually, helps keep the plumbing going, too.

I think the only place where masturbation is not okay is if ... instead of being a supplement to couple sex, it replaces it...

I second what NJLauren said. Wholeheartedly. I masturbate when I'm in a relationship for those reasons.

 

[Kat73]

Yes it is. Even more fun to mutually masturbate sitting on opposite sides of the bed...

 

[BKD140]

You need to ask?

What a stupid question, its perfectly normal and natural to masturbate - married or otherwise.
If you are in a relationship and you deny yourself, the pent up sexual frustration could make you more likely to succumb to temptation.

Next question: is it ok to have sex with my wife/partner?

 

[Beck31]

Ah but is it so stupid? Some men might feel guilty or selfish. Not saying this is the case.

 

[stucknut]

Uh, masturbation, it's bad mmmkay.

Doesn't it cause blindness.

 

[Beck31]

Lol. Only if you get cum in your eyes.

 

[stu_gats_2000]

I agree it is totally ok

 

[Beck31]

Thanks Stu.

 

[stucknut]

Oh that never happens. Oops, he stumbles out of bed, runs into door jam while try to make his way to bathroom to wash his eyes out.

 

[Beck31]

Lol. Normally I point away from my eyes.

 

[DarkPleasures]

Is it okay to masturbateIf you are married? I say yes it is. Feel free to agree/disagree

Does your wife agree?

 

[vibes]

Does your wife agree?

Would she have a word in say?

 

[Beck31]

@Dark Pleasures: Yes. She masturbates too.

@Vibes: Lol

 

[DarkPleasures]

Most people do. Honestly, I thought your question was a little silly. That's why I was curious to know if you had a wife!

 

[Biker_Type]

i hope so...and so does my OL (ok my wife) does too, since we both still do it together or separately!

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

If you are married? I say yes it is. Feel free to agree/disagree

I say yes, but only if it doesn't affect your sex life with your partner. If you can wack one out and then still have the stamina to satisfy the Mrs., I don't see a problem with it.

I've heard that some guys do it so much, that that's the only way they can come. That's not a good thing.

 

[Beck31]

I can rub one out and still be able to satisfy the Mrs.

 

[fma20fma]

hi.virile?

I can rub one out and still be able to satisfy the Mrs.

The second ejaculation takes longer.My ex got me do felatio for first.The second was anal.lasted longer and better.

 

[Dontweakenwild]

I say yes! Hell yes!

 

[Beck31]

Yeppers

 

[ana_lp_lug]

My wife is very much against me jacking off. She feels it interferes with our sex life. If I am horny, my wife will spread her legs anytime of day or night and has done so for nearly 24 years except for hospital stays and travelling apart.

 

[Beck31]

hmmm. that is partly why i asked the question

 

[Dvus_D]

Yes. It's Ok. In my case, I have a much higher sex drive than my wife. There was a time when she wasn't Ok with masturbation and I didn't do it very often to please her. I would pester her for sex and get turned down so often that it was putting stress on our relationship. And, that was before she developed a medical condition that has completely tanked her desire for sex. So, she gets randy about once a month and we get freaky. But, since I'm a once-a-day guy, I take care of myself the rest of the time.

And she's become very happy with me masturbating. It lets us just hang out without any (negative) sexual tension between us.

 

[Likes_Them_Kinky]

if it wasn't okay to masturbate I'd either be dead or out fucking around every nite!

Well thank god you aren’t dead… That can only mean 1 (or 2) things You can always come over again and masturbate and fuck around as much as you like (day or night).
PS…. leave your old sheets from college behind they need to be washed