Is it okay to masturbate

[Beck31]

**Rolling eyes**

 

[amofiga]

Seeing this thread sort of reactivated got me to thinking. I know that most of us have masturbated with a spouse as part of foreplay or other sexual fun and games. However, give that you/then still do it in secret, what would you do if you saw them masturbating? I've seen scenes in several different movies that have handled it differently. Would you:
1) Just quietly walk away and leave them to their self pleasure without recrimination?
2) Let the voyeur in you win out and watch quietly in secret?
3) Get all upset, barge in and say, "How dare you?"
4) Walk in and continue to watch while they finished?
5) Walk in and offer to take over and help in one form or another?

 

[Beck31]

So many choices. Probably:

2
4
5

Not sure in which order though

 

[Tomahawk26]

I suppose it is, but neither of us really do, unless I'm gone for a few days, and then he does. I don't really like to masturbate completely alone, but I do it occasionally, with a sexy Skype partner!

 

[Beck31]

Oh. Ok.

 

[hilton1958]

Is it okay tomasturbate???? Do bears crap in the woods? I am happily married, have regular and amazing sex with my wife, but I still can't get enough of masturbation. It is so liberating, personal, and if you have any imagination at all, there is always something new to try, LOVE IT!!!

 

[hilton1958]

Maybe none of the above, I think I would walk in, reassure her to continue, then stand, lie, or sit next to her, take out my cock, and start doing myself. Masturbating together, how romantic and erotic, yummy!

 

[Dvus_D]

I'd probably watch.

 

[Image13]

Right there

Started with menopause, and then had another health issue. Nothing in her control at all. and it's something we do our best to work threw.

Im in the same situation - I know what you are going through

 

[Image13]

Is it ok to masterbate? yes. Obviously with a partner is even better

 

[Beck31]

Ah. Ok. Well yes masturbating with a partner is better. But sometimes my girl can't be there.
And since I am involved with somebody I feel a little like taking care of business while she is at work is bieng selfish.

 

[hilton1958]

This might sound weird, but when my wife tells me she and my son will be away for say a week, I really look forward to that time, because that's when my whole house becomes my very own, private masturbation palace. In those times I spend most of my time at home naked, masturbating wherever and whenever the fancy takes me. It feels so erotic, jerking and cumming wherever you like in the house.

 

[Beck31]

Ok. A little TMI but I can sort of see what you mean.

 

[hilton1958]

I don't see it as selfish at all, unless of course you do it to the extent that you aren't in the mood, or can't perform properly when she is with you, and wants it.

 

[softbuzz]

Uh, No it isn't alright
You will go blind, and grow hair on the palms of your hand, and I've even heard it will cause madness. :caning:

If she gets what she needs and you need a little more, whats the harm.
Mind you, if she is up for it three times a day and you only provide two and wank the rest away you are wasting her talents.

 

[michael2956]

Of course. I find it to be a great way to relieve stress. My wife knows and says she doesn't mind. I'm not sure that's always true, but....

 

[justherhusband]

Seeing this thread sort of reactivated got me to thinking. I know that most of us have masturbated with a spouse as part of foreplay or other sexual fun and games. However, give that you/then still do it in secret, what would you do if you saw them masturbating? I've seen scenes in several different movies that have handled it differently. Would you:
1) Just quietly walk away and leave them to their self pleasure without recrimination?
2) Let the voyeur in you win out and watch quietly in secret?
3) Get all upset, barge in and say, "How dare you?"
4) Walk in and continue to watch while they finished?
5) Walk in and offer to take over and help in one form or another?

or 6) walk in and strip down while she finishes and then jump her. I love to watch her masturbate and I love to hear about it when she does it while I'm away.

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

3 times a day.

 

[MrsCCfromRC]

Seeing this thread sort of reactivated got me to thinking. I know that most of us have masturbated with a spouse as part of foreplay or other sexual fun and games. However, give that you/then still do it in secret, what would you do if you saw them masturbating? I've seen scenes in several different movies that have handled it differently. Would you:
1) Just quietly walk away and leave them to their self pleasure without recrimination?
2) Let the voyeur in you win out and watch quietly in secret?
3) Get all upset, barge in and say, "How dare you?"
4) Walk in and continue to watch while they finished?
5) Walk in and offer to take over and help in one form or another?

For us, it's 1, 4, 5

Sometimes we'll just let each other have their own private time but more often it's 4 or 5...
We both know each other does and encourage each other....

 

[Beck31]

Ok then.

 

[LoveToLurk]

I'm really curious as to why you asked this question. Would you be willing to explain?

 

[fullservice65]

If you are married? I say yes it is. Feel free to agree/disagree

It better be -- I've been doing it for more than 15 years!

 

[Que]

Absolutely! Why not? Even if you love having sex with the person you're married to or in a relationship with, you still want some alone time sometimes.


Hell... I can get free car washes from my dealership, but occasionally I like to wash my car myself. I get some satisfaction in it and sometimes do a better job.

I've always liked a do-it-yourself girl....

Reading this I suddenly had an image of you as the girl washing her car in Cool Hand Luke.

 

[dreamykitten2]

It must be ok because .........

95% of women do and I don't have to look up the percentage of guys ! I know 100% do. But here's a stat I thought was interesting 11% of guys masturbate while driving! How do they do this without crashing their cars ? Lol I got a kick out of that one!

And yes I think it's ok and perfectly natural to masturbate ! I myself at least once daily! Kitten

 

[eric60red]

I have been doing it since I was around 11, almost ever day, some times several during a day. Even when the wife and I were having sex I still needed my private moments. Im now 74 and still at it, in fact reading some of the threads and looking at the pics, as made me want to do it now.

I find though that its better when I share with somebody, any offers?