Is my username accurate?

Ok, while not taking sides, as I don't see this as an issue that demands that or is heading in that direction. But I have to say I understand or at least think it's only fair to try to understand where Ahren is coming from. It was ok for some of us females to state our lack of appreciation for the thread starters name, so why is not ok for one of the males state his lack of appreciation to one of the females?.

I know that's not what the thread is about, but it's drifted that way in part. I didn't look up cuck_wanabe's profile to find out why he chose his name, because of his choice of name. So why not Ahren? I mean no disrespect to cuck_wanabe, and I'm sure if I took the time to go back over some of his other posts, he's probably a really nice approachable person...but the name just doesn't make me want to. No one is chastising me or any other females for saying as much.....but Ahren isn't allowed the same benefit.
I like FM..I've made it my business to check her posts and back to where she's explained why she uses that name...but that was because she is female. I'd not bother with a male and didn't on this thread. Ahren should be allowed the same choice and opinion if we/females are.

PS. I know he doesn't need me standing up for him cause he's well able to do that himself. I'm just making my point, that's all.
 
I've seen a lot of forums and this one is the worst for dumb usernames by far.

I mean "fuckmeat"? Really?

I'm sure you're a nice person and all but that's not something I ever want to type with any seriousness.

You're not suggesting that I typed it with seriousness are you? All the cool subbly names were taken and I wanted something that would reflect my cravings for humiliation, objectification and serious violence/abuse. I'm sure 'fuckmeat' gets you no hotter than 'cuck_wantobe' but all that means is that you're not my type of SRPer. Nothing wrong with that at all.

So what's ahren then? Some cutesy ickle androgynous anime poppet? I mean at least my name makes a statement, even if it's one you don't like. :p

ETA: And for the record, I regularly get pms from people telling me how hot they find my nic, so it's all just different strokes for different folks, mine just happen to be administered with whips and floggers.
 
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Someone has to say what everyone else is too timid to.

blinks incredulously

Too timid? I'm a scary assed bitch now?

collapses giggling

My girls might be a mite protective but they're right, you really don't know me.
 
I'm just going to say it, it's because the males on these sites are mostly pigs and they do the majority of "you're so cute, I misspell, come cyber me?" PM's.

Females that do this are a minority group. I went and checked out FM's profile out of curiosity as to why such an intelligent woman would name herself so. I found an intelligent reason that no male I've ever looked at has bothered to put in when they name themselves 'dick4u'
 
In my mind the difference is that when the others commented on the OPs name, by and large it was combined with suggestions and giving the benefit of the doubt- and by nature of the thread, such comments were solicited.

When Ahren commented it was nothing more than to say how stupid the name was, it was unsolicited and it was directed at someone who has established through her relationships and her writing that she has depth.
 
I'm going to have to go with Fuckmeat being a clever, funny, smart, sharp witted, lustful girl that knew exactly what she was doing when she chose the nick.
Its also worth noting that while I found it rather blunt when i first saw it, it also had the desired effect on me.
 
hands everyone a sucker

because in other words, we all suck.... giggles and runs off
 
In my mind the difference is that when the others commented on the OPs name, by and large it was combined with suggestions and giving the benefit of the doubt- and by nature of the thread, such comments were solicited.

When Ahren commented it was nothing more than to say how stupid the name was, it was unsolicited and it was directed at someone who has established through her relationships and her writing that she has depth.

Yes! This, thank you DA!

He singled out one woman who happened to have posted here just so he could say the handle was stupid. Not actually anything to do with the question posed by the OP.

It annoys me how often people gloss over the original comment to have sparked discussion and aggravation. It just wasn't necessary to say that nor was it kind to single out one person.
 
So what's ahren then? Some cutesy ickle androgynous anime poppet? I mean at least my name makes a statement, even if it's one you don't like. :p

Why are you attacking anime because I said I don't like a name? That doesn't make much sense. Read my post earlier. I made the name up. It's fine if you don't like that it means nothing. I am okay with that.

When Ahren commented it was nothing more than to say how stupid the name was, it was unsolicited and it was directed at someone who has established through her relationships and her writing that she has depth.

Would someone explain to me why me knowing her or her writing matters at all to my opinion on the name? She could be my best friend or a New York Times bestseller and it would not change that I don't like the name.

You're all seriously taking this way too personally.
 
I'm going to have to go with Fuckmeat being a clever, funny, smart, sharp witted, lustful girl that knew exactly what she was doing when she chose the nick.
Its also worth noting that while I found it rather blunt when i first saw it, it also had the desired effect on me.

blows a sinful :kiss: to Vail
 
Ahren, that's what happens when you single out one person. None of us did that, we spoke collectively. You trolled.
 
Why are you attacking anime because I said I don't like a name? That doesn't make much sense. Read my post earlier. I made the name up. It's fine if you don't like that it means nothing. I am okay with that.



Would someone explain to me why me knowing her or her writing matters at all to my opinion on the name? She could be my best friend or a New York Times bestseller and it would not change that I don't like the name.

You're all seriously taking this way too personally.

:rolleyes:

Honestly, I'm not. When everyone started getting my back though, I felt compelled to post and explain why I chose it. You do this all the time Ahren, post something scathing and offensive, then try to act aloof and uncaring when people call you on it. I don't care what you think about my name, you're the one who felt compelled to share those thoughts on a public discussion forum. You can play the henpecked lone voice of reason card all you like hon, but you really do bring this stuff on yourself.

ETA: My apologies to cuck_wantobe, it's not my intention to hijack your thread.
 
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Yes, it is a public discussion forum. Hence why I post my thoughts.
 
Yes, it is a public discussion forum. Hence why I post my thoughts.

You're familiar with the concept of discussion, right?

Discussion

An exchange of views on a topic, between two or more individuals.

Discuss - Debate or debating is a formal method of interactive and representational argument.
 
Actually, you all missed the point of the thread. I didn't ask if my name would attract you, whether you would answer PM's from someone with that name, or whether it met your standards as a "good" name.

What I asked in the title was: Is my username accurate?

And what I asked specifically in the second post, after explaining some of my issues with the supposed "cuck lifestyle" was: But, the question I have is this: If I want to see my wife servicing a huge cock, but I have little or no interest in the rest of the "cuck lifestyle", is cuck_wantobe accurate? Or is there some other name for what I want?

But thanks to all for letting me know that my username obvious meant I was a mindless troglodyte. That was helpful.

Sorry dude but to simply ask if your username is accurate isn't very helpful because there isn't any rules on usernames here. They don't have to be kink based or anything.

I don't think there's any exact username to specify your desires, really I'd just put that info in your sig or something. But you'll be hard up for anyone to really understand your username, I think the other women covered that in their thoughts on it before your explanation.
 
Oooh. He has a brain. Well color me impressed.

As for accurate.. only you can say whether or not it is. It's your life, wife and cock.
 
Actually, you all missed the point of the thread. I didn't ask if my name would attract you, whether you would answer PM's from someone with that name, or whether it met your standards as a "good" name.

What I asked in the title was: Is my username accurate?

And what I asked specifically in the second post, after explaining some of my issues with the supposed "cuck lifestyle" was: But, the question I have is this: If I want to see my wife servicing a huge cock, but I have little or no interest in the rest of the "cuck lifestyle", is cuck_wantobe accurate? Or is there some other name for what I want?

But thanks to all for letting me know that my username obvious meant I was a mindless troglodyte. That was helpful.

I don't think you're a mindless troglodyte. I do think that most people with cuck fantasies also like small cock humiliation and to be humiliated by the guy. (if BDSM Talk threads are an indication). You might want to move away from the term 'cuck' and call yourself 'fuckmyhotwife' or something. That way people might have fewer assumptions about what you want to include and exclude from such a roleplay.
 
You're familiar with the concept of discussion, right?

Yes, I am, thank you.

to OP: No, your name is not accurate. It is obviously causing confusion so just make a new one. Problem solved.
 
If we were all judged by our name IRL without having a chance to explain why it is what it is, then we'd all be fucked. I don't care whether your name is RichGuyBigDick that could have SO many meanings: A rich guy with a big dick or a rich guy who's a big dick.... Or his name may actually be Richard Guy aka Big Richard.... If you're here to write then write. We'd get the point. If you're here with a name like that and start sending out stupid PMs "Hey, wanna cyber?" Then yes, we're going to have issues.

And I had point I'm sure....just too sleepy to make it LOL
 
*Drags Zy's collapsing form out of the thread and into a warm bed, tucking her in*

No more caffeine for you young lady, try sleeping for a little while. I'm a super slut but even I need to catch Z's now and then ;)
 
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