Is my wife a slut?

[Justfantasies]

Good question

"Slut" seems to imply "fun loving" and can be almost funny for the right people

 

[Filipinawife]

"Slut" seems to imply "fun loving" and can be almost funny for the right people

Exactly

 

[Vitriolhack]

At a wedding a few weeks back a young man started hitting on my wife. Physically his look was of a guy I know my wife likes. After a bit I noticed her demeanour changed. She nodded at me so I wandered over to hear her say…, yes I am a slut for those I like. You are not a man I like.
I told him that pretty much sums this up so wander off.
He hesitated and then left.
My wife told me for a moment her inner slut almost came out to play.
I’ve known for many years she won’t put up with disrespect.
His loss

You mention “young man”, I myself have missed out solely due to my ineptitude and poorly chosen maladroit words!

I still want to kick myself for it!

I am certain the young man won’t be making the same mistake again, well, one would hope so!

Good for her for being open and putting herself “out there”, great of you to support her. Love these couples!

 

[Vitriolhack]

Exactly

I don’t disagree, but it’s a poor choice of word as an opening statement.

 

[remypare]

As most of you seemingly know, my wife and I are a hotwife couple. We both enjoy her having sex with other men. Mrs. Screwher currently has two lovers. I'm hoping more is soon added to the roster so to speak. Throughout our marriage, a total of five other men have fucked my sexy hotwifey

One of the things I enjoy doing on this site is chatting with other men about them having sex with her. And just about our lifestyle in general. A handful of men have called my wife a "slut". I admit that it kind of turns me on when they do. For me though Ive always equated being a slut with having a large number of sexual partners over a relatively short period of time. Over our thirty years together only five other men have gotten naked and nasty with my wife. So going by that , I don't think she's very "slutty".

But...

A case has been made recently that my wife may be a slut, or acting slutty, within this lifestyle. First off, the fact gat she's married and dropping her panties for other men. Another is that she's using our marital bed with one of her lovers. And mostly, her relationship with the other lover. Their whole "relationship" is simply he calls her up. She practically drops everything to run to his place. They have no pretence anymore about it being a date. She goes to his place. He fucks her. Then sends her home.

So with all of this in mind, do you consider my wife to be a slut. There's no right or wrong, or offensive, answers.

I would say she is a slut but not in a pejorative way. She is embracing her sexual nature and enjoying sex in a way that is apparently fulfilling to both her and you. I admire the honesty, transparency, and willingness to be true to her (and your) true sexual selves, especially in a world filled with repressed desires and antiquated social norms.

 

[Justfantasies]

Exactly

I've been married twice -- both of my wife were sluts and we always treated it as a big giggle and a source of endless games

 

[IARainman]

As most of you seemingly know, my wife and I are a hotwife couple. We both enjoy her having sex with other men. Mrs. Screwher currently has two lovers. I'm hoping more is soon added to the roster so to speak. Throughout our marriage, a total of five other men have fucked my sexy hotwifey

One of the things I enjoy doing on this site is chatting with other men about them having sex with her. And just about our lifestyle in general. A handful of men have called my wife a "slut". I admit that it kind of turns me on when they do. For me though Ive always equated being a slut with having a large number of sexual partners over a relatively short period of time. Over our thirty years together only five other men have gotten naked and nasty with my wife. So going by that , I don't think she's very "slutty".

But...

A case has been made recently that my wife may be a slut, or acting slutty, within this lifestyle. First off, the fact gat she's married and dropping her panties for other men. Another is that she's using our marital bed with one of her lovers. And mostly, her relationship with the other lover. Their whole "relationship" is simply he calls her up. She practically drops everything to run to his place. They have no pretence anymore about it being a date. She goes to his place. He fucks her. Then sends her home.

So with all of this in mind, do you consider my wife to be a slut. There's no right or wrong, or offensive, answers.

Yes, and that’s a wonderful thing for both you and her ( and us variously)

 

[Dad442]

As most of you seemingly know, my wife and I are a hotwife couple. We both enjoy her having sex with other men. Mrs. Screwher currently has two lovers. I'm hoping more is soon added to the roster so to speak. Throughout our marriage, a total of five other men have fucked my sexy hotwifey

One of the things I enjoy doing on this site is chatting with other men about them having sex with her. And just about our lifestyle in general. A handful of men have called my wife a "slut". I admit that it kind of turns me on when they do. For me though Ive always equated being a slut with having a large number of sexual partners over a relatively short period of time. Over our thirty years together only five other men have gotten naked and nasty with my wife. So going by that , I don't think she's very "slutty".

But...

A case has been made recently that my wife may be a slut, or acting slutty, within this lifestyle. First off, the fact gat she's married and dropping her panties for other men. Another is that she's using our marital bed with one of her lovers. And mostly, her relationship with the other lover. Their whole "relationship" is simply he calls her up. She practically drops everything to run to his place. They have no pretence anymore about it being a date. She goes to his place. He fucks her. Then sends her home.

So with all of this in mind, do you consider my wife to be a slut. There's no right or wrong, or offensive, answers.

A “slut” is a derogatory term and should not be applies to a woman weather she has sex with 5 or 5000 people. Obviously she enjoys sex as you do. End of issue.
As long as you both enjoy what you’re doing is all that matters and stop worrying about a label that means nothing.

My friends wife enjoys other men and women. When You meet her she is every bit a lady. If you both enjoy what your doing that is ALL that matters.

 

[stiv837]

A “slut” is a derogatory term and should not be applies to a woman weather she has sex with 5 or 5000 people. Obviously she enjoys sex as you do. End of issue.
As long as you both enjoy what you’re doing is all that matters and stop worrying about a label that means nothing.

My friends wife enjoys other men and women. When You meet her she is every bit a lady. If you both enjoy what your doing that is ALL that matters.

The first time my wife and I went out she told me she was a slut . So if I call my wife a slut it doesn't seem derogatory if that is how she describes herself.

 

[CuttingEdge]

I HATE the term slut and like other's on here would love to see it banished from the english dialect. Its just so one-sidedly offensive. If a guy sleeps with a hundred women he is "sowing his seeds" or a pleasantly sounding "womanizer", but a lady sleeps with a few men and she is considered a "slut".

No one is as bad as I was on this.

For years I called any woman that had kids "a slut", but the real reason I did it? My first wife and I could not have kids and so I was jealous, and used the derogatory term. Looking back, I realize I was a true jerk, but fortunately grew up. And luckily have several kids now too.

 

[KaitlynW1993]

Unreal.. The word slut is perspective.

I grew up knowing the term of a slut as a negative. As I started my training I enjoy being called a slut. Means for me that i'm good at what I do. Means i'm enjoyable for the male. Its just a word. I have been called all sorts of things and I don't take offence by it.

A slut is a woman that enjoys sex openly. So good for her. Many women never get to enjoy that or ever embrace there sexuality.
So you may see your wife asa Hot wife and others a Slut. Doesn't matter as long as she is enjoying herself. No one is being hurt.

 

[stxjimmy]

Unreal.. The word slut is perspective.

I grew up knowing the term of a slut as a negative. As I started my training I enjoy being called a slut. Means for me that i'm good at what I do. Means i'm enjoyable for the male. Its just a word. I have been called all sorts of things and I don't take offence by it.

A slut is a woman that enjoys sex openly. So good for her. Many women never get to enjoy that or ever embrace there sexuality.
So you may see your wife asa Hot wife and others a Slut. Doesn't matter as long as she is enjoying herself. No one is being hurt.

Context needed as ever. In this case dependent on whose using the term and why.
There’s no use men condemning women for behaving as they do or would like to.
On the other hand it’s a word that has been reclaimed and i suspect that you are a very happy and accomplished slut.

 

[KaitlynW1993]

Context needed as ever. In this case dependent on whose using the term and why.
There’s no use men condemning women for behaving as they do or would like to.
On the other hand it’s a word that has been reclaimed and i suspect that you are a very happy and accomplished slut.

Yes you are right. It is how its used. If I was having a argument with say a guy and he called me a slut because he didnt like what I said then yes he is trying to just hurt my feelings.

When a guy is enjoying himself and he is receiving pleasure from me and called a slut its totally sexy and a compliment.

 

[stxjimmy]

Yes you are right. It is how its used. If I was having a argument with say a guy and he called me a slut because he didnt like what I said then yes he is trying to just hurt my feelings.

When a guy is enjoying himself and he is receiving pleasure from me and called a slut its totally sexy and a compliment.

That is the joy of Ds, the enhanced consent, both actual and implied opens
all sorts of possibilities.

 

[Stoicbutfun]

Yes you are right. It is how its used. If I was having a argument with say a guy and he called me a slut because he didnt like what I said then yes he is trying to just hurt my feelings.

When a guy is enjoying himself and he is receiving pleasure from me and called a slut its totally sexy and a compliment.

I agree it’s all in the context and the same with the ‘c’ word if there is trust and sexiness between you it can work but you need to know it’s ok or take the risk and the consequences