is this cheating?

[faithchick]

i was just wondering if people think posting pics on here is cheating if you're in a relationship. i didn't ask my b/f before i posted the first pic of myself but was going to before i put more when a friend of mine said it was "cyber cheating."

anyone else deal with this before?

So NOT cheating!

 

[phelon]

i was just wondering if people think posting pics on here is cheating if you're in a relationship. i didn't ask my b/f before i posted the first pic of myself but was going to before i put more when a friend of mine said it was "cyber cheating."

anyone else deal with this before?

Any relationship is a social contract.. you agree that your with this guy and by doing so you have things you will do and he has things he will do..
Cheating is.. breaking that contract.

unless you have discussed exhibitionism and somehow he has stated he is jealous or doesn't like you showing off, or some other form of his dislike and you agreed not to do whatever and other things like it... then it cannot be cheating...

that said it could potentially upset him, so before you make a habit of it, you may wish to discuss how you like showing off a bit and hope he doesn't mind etc...

 

[koalabear]

i was just wondering if people think posting pics on here is cheating if you're in a relationship. i didn't ask my b/f before i posted the first pic of myself but was going to before i put more when a friend of mine said it was "cyber cheating."

anyone else deal with this before?

If your beau doesn't know, it is cheating.

 

[monique1971]

I stopped posting my pictures because I had to lie about it to my husband. He doesn't know about this site and if he knew he'd be very uncomfortable. Posting and not telling him was dishonest.

For me, it's more about "what do I know to be my husband's expectations regarding honesty and privacy, and how do I meet those expectations" rather than some sort of legalistic definition of cheating.