Is your significant other aware you're on Lit?

[LittleRain]

I'm Weird!

Mr. Vanilla, whom I love dearly, already thinks I am weird. But he has no idea! He could never talk about anything remotely erotic.

I only share the nasty demons running around in my head with Lit. members. They "understand" me.

 

[omgitselaine]

My husband knows, he was the one that got me on here.

Just as I though he doesnt get on often anymore due to his work schedule

 

[NoMoreNoMore]

Yes and No

No, not specifically Lit, but she green-lighted going to porn sites. She is no longer interested in sex, but she acknowledges that I am. So she told me to go to porn sites and even bought me toys. I like reading and looking at the pics, but miss that body on body.

 

[sethp]

I've told/shown three girls.. One was mostly horrified. too prudish...another one seemed to like it. I think my stories were too wild for her. I did write a story for her here and publish it though.. the third was most open but again she just wasn't a big fan of it or the stories.

 

[FSUBasketball]

Sometimes she is...

 

[JohnnyRock69]

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[omgitselaine]

Sometimes she is...

And she knows how much you ummmm behave here right ???

 

[MrsCCfromRC]

Yes, he certainly does....

 

[Doopey]

Yep, I troll the stories she writes and we work out different descriptions while acting them out.

 

[hoyaspartybronc]

Just as I though he doesnt get on often anymore due to his work schedule

Ditto

 

[Redrosewitch]

Yes and he LOVES how horny I get.

 

[LorraineRenee]

Yes, he does know!

This is going to sound odd, but he is actually the one who convinced me to begin role-playing. I've always acknowledged sexual gratification as equal a need to eating or sleeping, and so have never been uncomfortable with my boyfriend watching porn, RPing, and even voice chatting with other girls online. He used to tell me about all these interesting people he'd meet (he was the more adventurous of the two of us!) and all the very sexy RPs he would have. I would ask him to tell me about his latest ones all the time, and finally he asked why I don't just try it myself.

It took him 3 years to convince me, but here I am. We both feel that the internet is fair game for whatever we like-- RP, cyber, voice, cam-- because at the end of the day, these experiences just give us some really hot ideas to try out on eachother

So yes, he does indeed know, and we ALWAYS have something to talk about ^.~

 

[SexyHeavyLady]

Yes my Master knows, infact has has joined in acts while I have been talking to men sometimes.

 

[the_kingslayer]

Nope, not at all.

 

[CBM514]

Wife knows and has her own account also...she posts far less but is aware of everything I post...no point in secrets in a relationship IMO...especially sexually...

 

[alexx_is]

Nope, he has no idea. I don't think it'd be a big deal if he found out but I'd rather keep it to myself

 

[magicalmoments]

yes, he knows I am using it as a confessional along with another site.

Which other site? pm me please.

 

[FragileUnbroken]

Yes, 'twas his idea, although, I think I put more time into it during the first few weeks than he intended.

 

[MrFoxwood]

I wouldn't be at all surprised to find that my wife has an account here just to keep an eye on me, or maybe im just paranoid. I'd love it if she read some of my stories and got inspired, especially as I wrote one particularly about us.

 

[markmeup]

Unaware

No, she is unaware of my activities

 

[sterculius]

I did tell my wife that I used to like sucking my best friend's cock as a teenager but I've only told all you people here on lit that I'm still an insatiable cocksucker

 

[gametime07]

She doesn't have a clue and would be shocked to see what I talk about on here.

 

[tiny_tits]

No.
I've been way too open, discussing things that would upset him if he knew.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I'm afraid

I'm with you. I've said things on here that would make her hair curl.

 

[StrongMaster7]

I just had this reinforced this week. My wife, the love of my life, is happy to go weeks without any sexual contact at all. No hugging, no kissing beyond a platonic quick peck, nothing. I obliquely referred to the fact that I "took care of my own needs" and she was not interested if not revolted.

I have had sex every day of my life since I was 14. 99% of that was alone. I thank God for internet porn. I rarely chat. I occasionally exchange PMs. I love to look at the pics on various threads. It fulfills a primal need for me to know that there are women out there, however rare, who enjoy sex in the same way, on the same frequency as I do.

If I could multiply my wife's sex drive by a factor of ten, it would be about right to match mine. We 69 and have sex in one of two (rarely a third) postions. It lasts maybe 14 minutes by her choice.

So, no, she doesn't know I am here. She would say that it only makes matters worse by giving me an unrealistic view of what a woman is like. To me, it helps me to be physically faithful to her. It is a pressure relief valve without which I would seriously go insane.