Keeping the spark alive

Being married 20 years, 2 kids, and him working 7 days a week (12+ hours days), I work 4 days a week. Its getting hard to keep the spark alive.

How does everything keep there sex life active?

If you were my wife I would make sure I take care of you every night after work no matter what.
 
Married 25+ years; it was her second marriage and had two kids from previous (she's more than 10 years older than me). It was usual married sex while the kids were around, and I always expected things would ramp up when the kids moved out, but instead it went down to eventually nothing.

It's been nothing for quite a while now. Pretty sure it's going to be like that for the duration.

Change that to married 42 years/together 45 and welcome to my life.........Sex life slowed down 30+ years ago (due to long work hours on her end.......or was she fooling around? (I would have loved it to be that....)), but when sex did happen it was great. Then about 15/20 years ago it skidded to a stop, with the occasional roll through the stop sign (occasional hand job and when lucky a blow job).
 
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Time to change

We were like that at the beginning after kids and career. It slow down a lot.


I had the same problem. One day I woke up and realized that a have this beautiful woman next to me always available if I hit the right chords. Slowly but surely it went back to the way it was.
 
Change that to married 42 years/together 45 and welcome to my life.........Sex life slowed down 30+ years ago (due to long work hours on her end.......or was she fooling around? (I would have loved it to be that....)), but when sex did happen it was great. Then about 15/20 years ago it skidded to a stop, with the occasional roll through the stop sign (occasional hand job and when lucky a blow job).

Probably just like us. We got used to one another. Family life and work had become more important. Nowadays I fool around on the side and I won't be surprise if he does too.
 
I had the same problem. One day I woke up and realized that a have this beautiful woman next to me always available if I hit the right chords. Slowly but surely it went back to the way it was.

In the Mood, Moment and time. Its hard to have that nowadays.
 
Probably just like us. We got used to one another. Family life and work had become more important. Nowadays I fool around on the side and I won't be surprise if he does too.

Yep, life got in the way at the beginning, but then all interest left her. Seriously considering fooling around on the side and exploring some of my fantasies, kinks, etc.
 
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