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curiouschattycouple said:
Been there, done that. Never gets old. Definitely one way to keep the spark alive is to occasionally mention the 'competition'
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its a huge turn on. For me, in my 20s and 30s hearing about an ex just made me very jealous. But 30s and 40s it makes me very horny...
 
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BoredAsianWifey said:
I think its C. He ask me about my other relationship this morning. Wanting to know more details. He was actually getting turn on.
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Well even though you are hot and I cant see how you would need a spark, you may have just hit on the fuel.... just be careful if you embellish it that you remember since he will most likely want to know more.

Pre-covid I had been encouraging my wife to open her eyes to both specific men and women that I know think that she is really hot and for the wife to at least consider taking the next step with my encouragement.
 
misterym said:
Well even though you are hot and I cant see how you would need a spark, you may have just hit on the fuel.... just be careful if you embellish it that you remember since he will most likely want to know more.

Pre-covid I had been encouraging my wife to open her eyes to both specific men and women that I know think that she is really hot and for the wife to at least consider taking the next step with my encouragement.
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I concur, knowing there is someone else who has been with you before should stoke your spark...
 
bill3901 said:
lol its the same, just meant it is a complete 180 starting when I was about 35, it still shocks me how different my reaction is now compared to when I was younger...
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He's in his mid 50s, he's very old fashion, I am only the second person he been with and seeing that in him was a surprise. I thought he wouldn't want to hear it.
 
BoredAsianWifey said:
Had a strange conversation with Hubby last night. I talk to her about our sex life (or what's missing). It was the same old response from him (busy, kids, too tired, etc), but I brought up I bump into a Ex (well I told him I bump into him when I was out, but I bump into him on here). Hubby start asking about him, usual questions (what is he doing, what his job now, does he want to see you again, etc). But after a few question he start asking me about my Ex and I sex life. Some common question, who is better, who is bigger, etc. But he wanted to hear some of the times my Ex and I had sex and he wanted details.

He seem to be very interested. And ask me to tell him each encounter and want details. Not sure this is normal.
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yea it sounds like hearing about your ex is turning him on. This is exactly how I started, my wife found her ex on social media and instead of being jealous it turned me on... a lot...started to encourage her to talk to him...one thing led to another and...it seems like this is a fairly common story...at least on Lit it is
 
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bill3901 said:
yea it sounds like hearing about your ex is turning him on. This is exactly how I started, my wife found her ex on social media and instead of being jealous it turned me on... a lot...started to encourage her to talk to him...one thing led to another and...it seems like this is a fairly common story...at least on Lit it is
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Well he hasn't ask me to talk to him. But he did ask me to tell him another time how I had sex with him. I guess its become an entertainment for him.
 
BoredAsianWifey said:
What about 50 and 60s?
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I, and my 1st EX, let's call her T, and 3rd EX, let's call her R, are in our 50's. R happens to be T's sister. I know right... whoda thunk it. Anyway, R wanted to know about sex with T. When, where, how much, what positions, kinks, tastes, sounds...ext. As I gave her this info...I just did ok.. let it go, I could see a kinda look in R's eyes. 1/4 anger, 1/4 jealousy, 1/4 challenge, and 1/4 sexually excited. Coupled with her breathing picked up, her nipples got hard(on 46DD tits), and she got WET. I mean pussy dripping, grool running down her thighs WET!! R would then ride my face, fuck the hell of of me, swallow my cock, then take a load down her throat. Afterward saying "bet if T did that you'd still be married to her huh"?
 
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BoredAsianWifey said:
Well he hasn't ask me to talk to him. But he did ask me to tell him another time how I had sex with him. I guess its become an entertainment for him.
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Odds are, there is a few factors at play.. culture, age, conflict, internal lack of confidence and maybe if your stories are driving more sex for you then his desire to see you satisfied where he may not be able to deliver.

The wife and I are both over 60 and her passion for me has wained. Thus why I want her happy and have passion that she does not find in me.

PM if you want to talk specific non public dialog
 
BoredAsianWifey said:
I guess it could be competition, but it was turning him on.
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I can definitely relate to this as I am also very excited by my wife telling me about experiences with her previous boyfriend. I am not interested in her getting back with him or anything like that, nor is she. I love dirty talk and just like to hear about her being horny and turned on etc. When she is telling me a story I usually try to mimic the actions she is describing, etc.

Next time your hubby is asking around about your ex try something like this....."Let me tell you about a time I sucked his cock"..... start describing the location and circumstances etc. Doesn't need to be 100% accurate, you can make it up as you go. When you get to the point in the story where you are ready to suck your ex's cock and you have hubbys attention. Then just unzip his pants and tell him "It would be much easier if I just show you" ....then start doing your thing. Suck and lick a little then continue some more of the story then suck and lick some more, etc Don't make him cum. When he is good and ready that is when you roll over and spread your legs" and tell him something like "I was soaking wet and needed him to fuck the shit out of me". Gently pull hubby on top of you, keep whispering in his ear about how the ex fucked you. Remember doesn't need to be 100% accurate but more about what you want hubby to do to you at that point..... "He lifted my legs over his shoulders" ..."He buried himself all the way inside me in one thrust"....."He fucked me like a whore"
 
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RockHardKP said:
I can definitely relate to this as I am also very excited by my wife telling me about experiences with her previous boyfriend. I am not interested in her getting back with him or anything like that, nor is she. I love dirty talk and just like to hear about her being horny and turned on etc. When she is telling me a story I usually try to mimic the actions she is describing, etc.

Next time your hubby is asking around about your ex try something like this....."Let me tell you about a time I sucked his cock"..... start describing the location and circumstances etc. Doesn't need to be 100% accurate, you can make it up as you go. When you get to the point in the story where you are ready to suck your ex's cock and you have hubbys attention. Then just unzip his pants and tell him "It would be much easier if I just show you" ....then start doing your thing. Suck and lick a little then continue some more of the story then suck and lick some more, etc Don't make him cum. When he is good and ready that is when you roll over and spread your legs" and tell him something like "I was soaking wet and needed him to fuck the shit out of me". Gently pull hubby on top of you, keep whispering in his ear about how the ex fucked you. Remember doesn't need to be 100% accurate but more about what you want hubby to do to you at that point..... "He lifted my legs over his shoulders" ..."He buried himself all the way inside me in one thrust"....."He fucked me like a whore"
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Sort of did that. But he started it. I went out last night and just came home this morning (that is another story). I quickly jump in the shower to clean up and he had gotten up getting ready for work. He came in the bathroom while I was in the shower and ask me the usual, "had a good time?" "drink a lot" etc.

He ask me again about my Ex and I started to tell him another time Ex and I did it in the bathroom. Next thing I know he came in the shower with me. He told me to show him what we did. And He was really hard. It was the first time we done it in the shower in years.
 
BoredAsianWifey said:
Sort of did that. But he started it. I went out last night and just came home this morning (that is another story). I quickly jump in the shower to clean up and he had gotten up getting ready for work. He came in the bathroom while I was in the shower and ask me the usual, "had a good time?" "drink a lot" etc.

He ask me again about my Ex and I started to tell him another time Ex and I did it in the bathroom. Next thing I know he came in the shower with me. He told me to show him what we did. And He was really hard. It was the first time we done it in the shower in years.
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Awesome! Here is to hoping you get more of that!
 
BoredAsianWifey said:
Sort of did that. But he started it. I went out last night and just came home this morning (that is another story). I quickly jump in the shower to clean up and he had gotten up getting ready for work. He came in the bathroom while I was in the shower and ask me the usual, "had a good time?" "drink a lot" etc.

He ask me again about my Ex and I started to tell him another time Ex and I did it in the bathroom. Next thing I know he came in the shower with me. He told me to show him what we did. And He was really hard. It was the first time we done it in the shower in years.
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Awesome...now the ball is in your court. Even if he doesn't start the conversation and is just sitting tired on the couch. Just nuzzle up next to him and whisper in his ear...."Did I ever tell you about the time Ex and I (fill in blank)"
 
RockHardKP said:
Awesome...now the ball is in your court. Even if he doesn't start the conversation and is just sitting tired on the couch. Just nuzzle up next to him and whisper in his ear...."Did I ever tell you about the time Ex and I (fill in blank)"
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Hope I don't have to use that all the time to get him in the mood.

I went to lunch with my Ex and told him about it and he laugh. But he wants to know if he was better. And who is better overall. I wouldn't tell him and he was like a little kid "I was good" "I am better right"
 
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Celebrating my friend's 43rd bday tonight. Cougars on the prowl or is it MILF out to play.

https://ibb.co/Z22xzp0

But My kids refer to us as seniors outing. Telling us, you guys better go soon or you will miss the early bird special and you don't want to miss your bed time at 8.
 
Okay BAW.....just checking that your bored pussy was properly cared for this weekend. Who helped you out...Hubby, Ex, Girlfriend? ....or did you have to take matters into your own hands?? We need details!!
 
BoredAsianWifey said:
Celebrating my friend's 43rd bday tonight. Cougars on the prowl or is it MILF out to play.

https://ibb.co/Z22xzp0

But My kids refer to us as seniors outing. Telling us, you guys better go soon or you will miss the early bird special and you don't want to miss your bed time at 8.
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Looks like their will be a lot of sexy pussyfoot licking going on with this hot group!
 
RockHardKP said:
Okay BAW.....just checking that your bored pussy was properly cared for this weekend. Who helped you out...Hubby, Ex, Girlfriend? ....or did you have to take matters into your own hands?? We need details!!
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No Husbands. All of them was working.

We went out to dinner, dancing and drinking. Met a few guys at the bar/club. We finish a few bottles and we went to one of the guys house (one of my friends chicken out). Got home around 11 in the morning.
 
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