Keeping the spark alive

Being married 20 years, 2 kids, and him working 7 days a week (12+ hours days), I work 4 days a week. Its getting hard to keep the spark alive.

How does everything keep there sex life active?
Lots of fantasizing while we play involving others! It’s addictive! Gets wild. We’re both open to something real happening but it’s hard in regular life to find people who are appealing inside and out! Cheers 🥂
 
It can be hard. Especially because nothing kills sex drive like physical exhaustion. One tip I have is if you have gotten out of the habit of having sex is that you can't be subtle or elaborate. As nice as romance is I find that its much more practical to be direct. Conversations like this work well.

"I want to eat your pussy."
"Are you kidding? I haven't had time for a shower in three days."
"Make time for a shower."
"Tonight then."
Later that night.
"God that shower felt good. What were you saying about my pussy?"
Kind of sexy with no shower!
 
Being married 20 years, 2 kids, and him working 7 days a week (12+ hours days), I work 4 days a week. Its getting hard to keep the spark alive.

How does everything keep there sex life active?
Send him sexy pics at random times when he is away. Is he a voyeur? If so, maybe tease him a little with pics of you with other men having coffee, etc, at first to see how he reacts? You should try to rattle his cage a little and see what happens. He should not ignore you just cos he works and travels a lot. Spice it up while he is away!
 
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