Kinky Self Love

Wizard said:
I bet I know where it is.....Or was....clothspins too.:D

*giggles*


The kidlings only needed teh rope and pins to make their super duper indoor tent!

The battery operated stuff stayed in my toy bag, dear!

;)

(With the hand cuffs, beads, oils, .....)
 
MissTaken said:
*giggles*


The kidlings only needed teh rope and pins to make their super duper indoor tent!

The battery operated stuff stayed in my toy bag, dear!

;)

(With the hand cuffs, beads, oils, .....)


I should hope so but you started with "I wonder where my rope went" I had to laugh at that.;)
 
Wizard said:
I should hope so but you started with "I wonder where my rope went" I had to laugh at that.;)


OH...Doh!


I suppose I wasn't paying close enough attention.

That should be good for a spanking?

Please!
 
white_mage_goddess said:
Hi everyone....I've been lurking around for a while, and I don't know if this topic is the best one to choose for a delurking, but what the hell...

As far as masturbation goes, I don't do anything kinky when nobody is watching/listening...i just pop in a porno, grab that handy dandy vibe and go to work! But when I have an audience, its a totally different story.

When masturbating in front of my b/f , I've done what I would consider slightly kinky things...(course I'm new to this, so it ALL seems kinky to me!) Anyway, I've done things like tying my legs up above my head to the headboard, spanking myself, whipping myself with a variety of belts, whips, and crops (I train horses, so there is no shortage of interesting implements laying around!), dripping hot wax on myself, using ice on myself, double penetrating myself, using nipple clamps and clothes pins on myself...stuff like that.

Hows that for an introduction! :D
Welcome to Lit....looking fwd to more...............................Dik :)
 
Well, this evening the children aren't home. I have no plans for dates or anything, so thought I would take a nice, hot, very hot bath.

I opened the toy bag and found the Jack Rabbit, the brand new virgin anal beads and nipple clips. I cleaned them with rubbing alcohol and then, got my favorite fluffy towel and favorite body wash.

I slipped out of my clothing, very aware of my body as I did so. My full breasts were waiting in anticipation of what I had thought through. I dipped a toe in the water



Ring! Ring! Ring!

The damn phone rang off the hook. Ultimately, I got into my bath, the mood having vanished, scrubbed up and dried off.

*sigh* This seemed a very appropriate place to vent!
 
Kinky bt

The genuine torture of balls requires a mistress with a strong hand. She can watch you and guage how tightly to squeeze by the moaning or squirming.

In the absence of a mistress, there's a problem, a bit like trying to hold your hand in a fire. How much pain can you cause by squeezing your own testicles? Or, ladies how much nipple pain can you cause by pinching your own nipples?

The answer, of course, is a mechanical device, just, a bit in the same way as adjustable nipple clamps allow the self infliction of major pain.

A ball squeezing/crushing device with bolts and wing nuts that can be gradually tightened, is the answer. Gradually the weird erotic pain builds and there's no relief. Jerking off eases it a little.
Once reaches the point where the *tiniest* tightening, say a quarter turn causes agony. The testicles are quite a bit flattened and everything is turning blue. The scrotal skin is stretched under the pressure and is shiny. At the maximum, maybe a quarter turn more it is excruciating.... and most importantly there is no relief... as would be the case if one could possibly squeeze this hard. The wood and metal are unyielding.

I picture my mistress watching me squirm helplessy and succeed in coming. Only after that is the device loosened. The balls are going to ache for a couple days, reminding me of her. I think she would be proud.

XC

Well, Miss T, maybe you can continue your story....
 
Wow, Xtreme, that was a very vivid post. I usually skim over discussions of CBT -- 'cause it doesn't exactly apply to me, you see -- but this was fabulous. Makes me wish I had the right equipment to try it myself!
 
MissTaken said:
Well, this evening the children aren't home. I have no plans for dates or anything, so thought I would take a nice, hot, very hot bath.

I opened the toy bag and found the Jack Rabbit, the brand new virgin anal beads and nipple clips. I cleaned them with rubbing alcohol and then, got my favorite fluffy towel and favorite body wash.

I slipped out of my clothing, very aware of my body as I did so. My full breasts were waiting in anticipation of what I had thought through. I dipped a toe in the water



Ring! Ring! Ring!

The damn phone rang off the hook. Ultimately, I got into my bath, the mood having vanished, scrubbed up and dried off.

*sigh* This seemed a very appropriate place to vent!

oh WOW that sucks *huggles* i sorry...i'd have unplugged the phone or just left it off the hook.
 
MissTaken said:
Well, this evening the children aren't home. I have no plans for dates or anything, so thought I would take a nice, hot, very hot bath...

Ring! Ring! Ring!

The damn phone rang off the hook. Ultimately, I got into my bath, the mood having vanished, scrubbed up and dried off.

Ooooh, the ultimate cruel tease! I usually only do that sort of thing to a subbie as a punishment.

*hug*
 
How have I missed this thread?

I have turned this into a fucking art!

Sometimes I devote several hours to kinky self-love beginning with an enema, reading erotica or watching porn and then nipple clamps, anal electro-stim, large plugs/objects/dildos, and finally release.

Other times when I don't have the time...

I like to take a nice hot shower and get my nether regions all soapy. I introduce one, then two, then three fingers into my ass. When I am sufficiently relaxed, I reach for a shampoo bottle I keep for just such activities. It takes a while, but I am eventually able to take about 5 inches of it. By this time I am usually standing and stroking myself 'till I come. After rinsing thoroughly, it's off to work!

-Vv
 
Self Love

:p

I have just recently started to experiment with self love in this manner and I would love some new ideas. I have been pretty innovative I think. I have attached clothespins to my nipples but I can't stand it for long. I found other types of clips that aren't as tight and I put them on my nipples. I have put an ice cube inside me and have dripped some candle wax on my nipples and breasts. Also, after I become aroused, I find that I can stand a little more pain, and I have lightly poked my nipples with a straight pin. It isn't excruciating pain, but it is thrilling. Of course, I am fingering myself during all this and I tease myself so I don't come quickly. I fantasize different scenarios while doing this.

I would love more suggestions of items to use, etc.
 
FungiUg said:
Ooooh, the ultimate cruel tease! I usually only do that sort of thing to a subbie as a punishment.

*hug*

Hmmmmm I do so love orgasm control.

:D

XtremelyConfused hit on something very important. Taking care of business on my own is never the same as being with a Dominant. The element of surprise is missing whether it be where the touch, tweak, swat etc occurs or to what degree pressure is applied.

MyPinkFlower,
If clothespins are something you can't tolerate for very long, using tiny rubber bands or hairbands wrapped around your nipples can be nice, very nice. In fact, it is a bit of a different sensation.

Your observation concerning things not being as painful when aroused...that gets a BINGO! The idea behind using pain for erotic purposes is entwined with the Dom/me's and submissive's arousal. Some forms of play arouse me and then once aroused, I tolerate, enjoy and even crave things that when unaroused either seem silly or are damn painful.

For example: I may start by applying mentholated rub. (One of my favorite things) Then, pinching and twisting my nipples, building the pressure until I feel that familiar chord of arousal that seems to travel from my breasts through my tummy to my netherregions. Yummy. Adding the pins or clips to already hot nipples makes me squirm. Sometimes, I touch myself, sometimes I don't. It depends on where my fantasy mind is at. Then, I may slap my breasts or pull the pins and twist them, harder and harder. It seems the more I do, the more I want. If I am in a slapping frame of mind, I may slap at my mound as well, being sure to strike my throbbing clit. ;)

Perhaps, dripping ice on the nipples, warm from the vapor rub is the next step? The contrasting sensations is startling and certainly adds to the already heightened state of arousal.

At some point during this thread, I must reveal a very personal secret to you all. But, not yet. I am enjoying the direction of the discussion very much !

:devil:
 
I also want to Welcome My Pink Flower to the forum.

I jsut felt my warm wishes required a separate post from my discussion involving Mentolated Vapor Rub!

;)

It seems you will bring much to us and I hope you leave with a sense of having learned something about us, yourself or BDSM.

Many hugs
 
For a little bit of public foreplay or simply to tease yourself for a time, try thumb tacks. They can be placed around a nipple under a bra securely, without actually puncturing and yet making a fine, stimulating point! Hint: don't go into a jostling, pushy crowd unless you're a pain slut. ;)
 
daisie said:
Oh, I'm going to regret admitting this, but:

At a former place of employment, I masturbated (fully dressed) with a medical dictionary, in my chair at my desk.

On a 400 mile solo road trip last week, I found that masturbating makes the time go much faster.

I know that doesn't exactly answer the question regarding how you make your solo life more interesting, so I'll get to that point:

I enjoy marking my skin, so occasionally, while masturbating, I press bottle caps into my palms. It hurts a little and makes a neat little design that disappears quickly.

You probably think I'm nuts now.

D

who you miss daisie? crazy? i think not. goofy on occasion and downright silly? oh yeah sister kate, but i love you just like that.
*smiles*
 
MissTaken said:
Hmmmmm I do so love orgasm control.

:D

XtremelyConfused hit on something very important. Taking care of business on my own is never the same as being with a Dominant. The element of surprise is missing whether it be where the touch, tweak, swat etc occurs or to what degree pressure is applied.

MyPinkFlower,
If clothespins are something you can't tolerate for very long, using tiny rubber bands or hairbands wrapped around your nipples can be nice, very nice. In fact, it is a bit of a different sensation.

Your observation concerning things not being as painful when aroused...that gets a BINGO! The idea behind using pain for erotic purposes is entwined with the Dom/me's and submissive's arousal. Some forms of play arouse me and then once aroused, I tolerate, enjoy and even crave things that when unaroused either seem silly or are damn painful.

For example: I may start by applying mentholated rub. (One of my favorite things) Then, pinching and twisting my nipples, building the pressure until I feel that familiar chord of arousal that seems to travel from my breasts through my tummy to my netherregions. Yummy. Adding the pins or clips to already hot nipples makes me squirm. Sometimes, I touch myself, sometimes I don't. It depends on where my fantasy mind is at. Then, I may slap my breasts or pull the pins and twist them, harder and harder. It seems the more I do, the more I want. If I am in a slapping frame of mind, I may slap at my mound as well, being sure to strike my throbbing clit. ;)

Perhaps, dripping ice on the nipples, warm from the vapor rub is the next step? The contrasting sensations is startling and certainly adds to the already heightened state of arousal.

At some point during this thread, I must reveal a very personal secret to you all. But, not yet. I am enjoying the direction of the discussion very much !

:devil:

omg! *drools* all this talk of vaporub...i really wanna try it now...
 
Bondagebunni said:
omg! *drools* all this talk of vaporub...i really wanna try it now...

A little dab will do ya!

:D


Umm a small bit applied to your clit can cause some incredible sensations as well.

But, be sure it doesn't inadvertantly get into the vaginal canal. I believe there is a Surgeon General's Warning on the package regarding the health and safety risks. :D
 
MissTaken said:
A little dab will do ya!

:D


Umm a small bit applied to your clit can cause some incredible sensations as well.

But, be sure it doesn't inadvertantly get into the vaginal canal. I believe there is a Surgeon General's Warning on the package regarding the health and safety risks. :D

whoa...that was quite nice...i didn't mean to get any on my clit...but i guess where was some left on my fingers...WOW...heh...new favorite toy!
 
Bondagebunni said:
whoa...that was quite nice...i didn't mean to get any on my clit...but i guess where was some left on my fingers...WOW...heh...new favorite toy!

I love buying stuff like that.

I always feel a bit devious purchasing something for sexual purposes that wasn't really produced for sex.

:devil:
 
Buying sex toys

Actually, one of the things I very much love to do with a new subbie is take her sex toy shopping. For some reason, going into an adult store to buy sex toys is incredibly scary, so it makes a wonderful test of how determined they are to obey.
 
Re: Buying sex toys

FungiUg said:
Actually, one of the things I very much love to do with a new subbie is take her sex toy shopping. For some reason, going into an adult store to buy sex toys is incredibly scary, so it makes a wonderful test of how determined they are to obey.

I get seriously aroused whenever I go to the Sex Store. We have one sex store in our county and please, keep in mind, this is the third largest county east of the Mississippi. (Our one claim to fame. Well, that and something to do with the bovine population! )

I went to the sex store last week. I had a day to myself and a few dollars and though, "Why not?" The Store is located off a highway about ten miles from any village. It is in a building that once was a barn and has been remodelled for purposes of providing for those of us with libidos that are spurred on by a bit of artificial stimulus...movies, vibes, toys, and one each of common BDSM toys. :D

I was asked for id before the door even shut. I told the stodgy old dude that it had been a long time since I had been under 21. He smiled and told me I had a "Young face." How nice. I bought two things!

One of my purchases came with free samples of toy cleaner and lube. So, when I got to the mall, my next stop, I went immediately to the bathroom, cleaned my brand, new virgin "Love beads" and inserted them in my most feminine parts. Then, I shopped and had dinner. While shopping I was very aware of the beads inside me. They shifted and bumped just a bit with ever step. While eating, I spread my legs, ever so slightly and ground myself into the seat of the chair. I didn't orgasm, rather my face was flush and I was soaking wet.

The entire time I shopped, walked and drove, I had a little secret. Now, imagine my embarrassment if I had gotten pulled over and mind you, keeping to the speed limit with the thoughts I had and the beads properly inserted was a real trick.

;)
 
Re: Re: Buying sex toys

MissTaken said:
I get seriously aroused whenever I go to the Sex Store. We have one sex store in our county and please, keep in mind, this is the third largest county east of the Mississippi. (Our one claim to fame. Well, that and something to do with the bovine population! )

I went to the sex store last week. I had a day to myself and a few dollars and though, "Why not?" The Store is located off a highway about ten miles from any village. It is in a building that once was a barn and has been remodelled for purposes of providing for those of us with libidos that are spurred on by a bit of artificial stimulus...movies, vibes, toys, and one each of common BDSM toys. :D

I was asked for id before the door even shut. I told the stodgy old dude that it had been a long time since I had been under 21. He smiled and told me I had a "Young face." How nice. I bought two things!

One of my purchases came with free samples of toy cleaner and lube. So, when I got to the mall, my next stop, I went immediately to the bathroom, cleaned my brand, new virgin "Love beads" and inserted them in my most feminine parts. Then, I shopped and had dinner. While shopping I was very aware of the beads inside me. They shifted and bumped just a bit with ever step. While eating, I spread my legs, ever so slightly and ground myself into the seat of the chair. I didn't orgasm, rather my face was flush and I was soaking wet.

The entire time I shopped, walked and drove, I had a little secret. Now, imagine my embarrassment if I had gotten pulled over and mind you, keeping to the speed limit with the thoughts I had and the beads properly inserted was a real trick.

;)


Sounds like a dare I'd have told my marionette to do (now abandoned-the idea, not my marionette!) and you go and do it all on your own ;) I can well imagine your arousal, browsing and choosing things with which to pleasure yourself, not waiting to get home until you try them either :eek: such wantonness :eek: a wild feline in ewe's clothing aren't you ;) I don't know about the others but I'd like to hear some more adventures of Miss Taken :rose:
 
Last edited:
Back
Top