Kinky Self Love

[calypso_21]

better in the summer I would think There is a thread here somewhere about icy pleasure, seems to be popular!
....

I will have to look up the thread. I don't see the point in waiting til summer...if you've got it...melt it!


Pixie...you should try it again!

 

[april-wine]

Hello April!!!!

I have not seen you in the longest time.

How nice to see you again!!!

Hello cellis, I have been here just lurking on this board mostly....It is wonderful to see you....

 

[welshman]

I will have to look up the thread. I don't see the point in waiting til summer...if you've got it...melt it!


Pixie...you should try it again!

I doubt the ice would last long on you... you're sooo hot

 

[MissTaken]

On the topic of ice

Popsicles...




They are great for solo play or tandem play.

I don't buy the Twin Pops (with two sticks), but the single stick popsicles are in my freezer.

Most recently, I lay with clips on my nipples and a popsicle. The popsicle circled my nipples, moved down my tummy and separated my labia. Letting it rest above the clitoris, the cool water dripped over my most intimate regions.

Popsicles have a better life expectancy than ice cubes.


The Downside?
Well, a bit sticky, but messy sex is nice too. On the other hand, if with a partner, flavored oral sex is a benefit.

Oh, and while it may be tempting and exciting, you shouldn't insert the popsicle as the sugar etc can lend itself to infections.

 

[Bondagebunni]

Re: On the topic of ice

Popsicles...




They are great for solo play or tandem play.

I don't buy the Twin Pops (with two sticks), but the single stick popsicles are in my freezer.

Most recently, I lay with clips on my nipples and a popsicle. The popsicle circled my nipples, moved down my tummy and separated my labia. Letting it rest above the clitoris, the cool water dripped over my most intimate regions.

Popsicles have a better life expectancy than ice cubes.


The Downside?
Well, a bit sticky, but messy sex is nice too. On the other hand, if with a partner, flavored oral sex is a benefit.

Oh, and while it may be tempting and exciting, you shouldn't insert the popsicle as the sugar etc can lend itself to infections.

such neat things you do!

 

[FungiUg]

Re: On the topic of ice

Popsicles...

Hmmm... related are some of my favourites.

Plain ice: divine in a woman's mouth while she's giving a blowjob! As well as great on nipples, pussy lips, etc. Have to be careful not to leave ice burns.

Peach shnapps or vodka from the freezer. Yummy!

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: On the topic of ice

such neat things you do!

I have always enjoyed contrasting temperatures.

A bit of ice, followed by a bit of candle wax.

Admittedly, I have never played with candle wax on my own, but with someone else......

 

[Bondagebunni]

Re: Re: Re: On the topic of ice

I have always enjoyed contrasting temperatures.

A bit of ice, followed by a bit of candle wax.

Admittedly, I have never played with candle wax on my own, but with someone else......

more stories please!

 

[MissTaken]

It is time

to reveal a secret about myself.

I am not able to orgasm by masturbation alone. There must be someone else involved, whether by phone or preferably, in person.

So, my efforts at self love have been to try to find a way in which I can change this little problem. Some have suggested that the reason for the "little problem" is the depth of my submission. I cannot pleasure myself unless it pleases someone else. I don't know if that is true or not, but it is one theory presented.

So, even, as I lay on my bed, my breasts bound tightly, teh vapor rub making my nipples sensitive, the clips applied and perhaps, even being twisted, a bit of clit spanking, and two vibrators using my body, I still have this little problem.

 

[cellis]

Re: It is time

to reveal a secret about myself.

I am not able to orgasm by masturbation alone. There must be someone else involved, whether by phone or preferably, in person.

So, my efforts at self love have been to try to find a way in which I can change this little problem. Some have suggested that the reason for the "little problem" is the depth of my submission. I cannot pleasure myself unless it pleases someone else. I don't know if that is true or not, but it is one theory presented.

So, even, as I lay on my bed, my breasts bound tightly, teh vapor rub making my nipples sensitive, the clips applied and perhaps, even being twisted, a bit of clit spanking, and two vibrators using my body, I still have this little problem.

You know I have in the past talked about my inability to orgasm except in one position and then infrequently at that...

Himself kept telling me that it was just in my head.. that I had masturbated in the position for so long that I just "thought" that was the only way I could come.

You know what? He was right!

After all this time, I can come on my stomach, on my back and even sitting up. Still working on the one while standing, but it is just around the corner.

Hmmm... maybe you should forget about the toys... just relax and play with yourself... you never know what will happend.

 

[MissTaken]

It is odd.
I can cum hands free, even, with someone else telling me too.

But, to just relax and play hasn't worked.

I am used to it, but that is the reason for my wondering how others perform self love as well as my somewhat creative experimentation.

In the next edition of MissT's guide to self love:

The Refrigerator!

 

[Image]

No problems here!!!

Thank the gods this is not a problem for me. Masturbation is more of a fetish to me than most people. I find it easier to orgasm by myself actually than with a partner (unless it is in a mutual session, that's best...)

Maybe it sounds selfish and certainly I like sex with a partner as well but at that time, alone, it's all about me, me, me! And finding new ways to please myself and feed my imagination is part of the experience!

 

[welshman]

Re: It is time

to reveal a secret about myself.

I am not able to orgasm by masturbation alone. There must be someone else involved, whether by phone or preferably, in person.

So, my efforts at self love have been to try to find a way in which I can change this little problem. Some have suggested that the reason for the "little problem" is the depth of my submission. I cannot pleasure myself unless it pleases someone else. I don't know if that is true or not, but it is one theory presented.

So, even, as I lay on my bed, my breasts bound tightly, teh vapor rub making my nipples sensitive, the clips applied and perhaps, even being twisted, a bit of clit spanking, and two vibrators using my body, I still have this little problem.

clearly, a fantasy involving being watched as you're masturbating should take you over the edge? or masturbating with the intention of writing about it after, like a documentary, so anyone reading it would 'be there' with you? just a suggestion. You can send your documentary to me if you want Or even recording the sounds of your pleasure, there is a French website I can direct you to so you can share your self love internationally anonymously if you prefer.

 

[RoughPlay]

Re: It is time

Originally posted by MissTaken
I am not able to orgasm by masturbation alone. There must be someone else involved, whether by phone or preferably, in person.

Hi MissTaken

Just a couple of suggestions that might be worth considering.

How about a video of your Master telling you what to do and demanding
that you cum. You would watch this video while masturbating together
with any other simulation you like. The video would be made just for
you and genuinely is your Master its just he would not be in the room
with you at the same time.

Alternatively how about you masturbating while being filmed by a
video camera with the intention of passing the video recording onto
your Master for his pleasure. He would have given instructions before
hand that you must cum in order to please him and he must be able to
see this on the video.


> It is odd.
> I can cum hands free, even, with someone else telling me too.

Do you need some form of prior stimulation before cumming hands free
or can you do this from cold by your Masters command alone (just
curious) ?

 

[~ Emmeline ~]

Re: It is time

to reveal a secret about myself.

I am not able to orgasm by masturbation alone. There must be someone else involved, whether by phone or preferably, in person.

So, my efforts at self love have been to try to find a way in which I can change this little problem. Some have suggested that the reason for the "little problem" is the depth of my submission. I cannot pleasure myself unless it pleases someone else. I don't know if that is true or not, but it is one theory presented.

So, even, as I lay on my bed, my breasts bound tightly, teh vapor rub making my nipples sensitive, the clips applied and perhaps, even being twisted, a bit of clit spanking, and two vibrators using my body, I still have this little problem.

That's a lot of toys, MissTaken! Overstimulation comes to mind, in the sense that it may be difficult to focus with so many sensations occuring at once.

Put all of those toys away! Go lay on the bed with a pillow under your hips, lube yourself well and just relax and enjoy the sensations. Use ONLY your fingertips to stimulate yourself and play as long as you have the time to enjoy it. Fingernails are great for a direct tickling-like stimulation on the sides of your clit. You may not cum the first time, but with patience you can and will achieve results if you have no other things available to help you cum. And I can't stress the use of lube enough, there's nothing as sexy as fingers sliding over lube-slicked skin.

 

[~ Emmeline ~]

PS. Make sure the TV is off, put on some sexy music, close your eyes and drift as you play...

 

[Bondagebunni]

i find i get bored w/o something to help me...if it doesn't feel REALLY good...after a bit, if i don't cum...i get bored with it and stop...so i find i have to have at least ONE toy. My egg is best...just a LITTLE while with it makes me cum REALLY hard. My problem was always the opposite of MissT's. I could only cum alone...and with a certain toy. Now my Hinansho San can make me cum so much i lose count! ^_^ i love him!

 

[welshman]

Re: Re: It is time

clearly, a fantasy involving being watched as you're masturbating should take you over the edge? or masturbating with the intention of writing about it after, like a documentary, so anyone reading it would 'be there' with you? just a suggestion. You can send your documentary to me if you want Or even recording the sounds of your pleasure, there is a French website I can direct you to so you can share your self love internationally anonymously if you prefer.

in fact I'm going to make this a genaral dare post yourself in pleasure here: http://recits.masturbation.free.fr/Sons_orgasme/masturbation-sounds.htm

 

[lustyem]

kinky self love

Hi , I like feeling being stretched using larger toys or other things ,sometimes in both my pussy and my other .or being tied up ,sometimes i'll tie my legs and one hand .
thanks em.

 

[welshman]

Re: It is time

to reveal a secret about myself.

I am not able to orgasm by masturbation alone. There must be someone else involved, whether by phone or preferably, in person.

So, my efforts at self love have been to try to find a way in which I can change this little problem. Some have suggested that the reason for the "little problem" is the depth of my submission. I cannot pleasure myself unless it pleases someone else. I don't know if that is true or not, but it is one theory presented.

So, even, as I lay on my bed, my breasts bound tightly, teh vapor rub making my nipples sensitive, the clips applied and perhaps, even being twisted, a bit of clit spanking, and two vibrators using my body, I still have this little problem.

Forsooth! a damsel in distress
I feel I'd like to help even if you don't want it

Do you have a Master(s) at the moment (would you like one? PM me ) or are you trying to be able to orgasm without the BDSM part, by yourself? Can a fantasy Master in your imagination bring you to orgasm, or do you think ~that's me really~ so you're not responsive? Much as I'd like to be there watching you masturbate it's a bit of a distance however I do have the ability to dwell in your imagination as a 'Shadow'

Is it your ambition to have vanilla flavoured masturbation MissTaken?

 

[welshman]

Any lurkers about? I'm talking to myself here

As for myself, I have no problem at all masturbating to orgasm, it's being truly mentally aroused I find lacking. I don't know if it's to do with age, as I've said, erection is not a problem if I do it phisically but to be mentally aroused, by whatever means, is what I find more difficult these days. Once, a pair of magnificent breasts braless in a t-shirt thin enough to show skin-tone through it could play on my mind all the time it took to be able to masturbate Something that simple was so arousing then! come to think of it, it might this coming summer as well

So, MissTaken, whatever makes your knees turn to jelly(er, jello) and moisture run down your (doubtlessly adorable) thighs, you should nurture and be thankful for?

 

[lady-kat]

A little dab will do ya!

mmmmmmmmmm..............

vaper rub is nice *grin*
Ben Gay is also a nice change for nipples. It lasts longer and the "sting" is more intense.......

damn, why, o why, did I ever open this thread while my SO is at work?

*snicker* oh yeah. I guess that is the general idea behind this one, yes?

 

[MissTaken]

mmmmmmmmmm..............

, why, o why, did I ever open this thread while my SO is at work?

*snicker* oh yeah. I guess that is the general idea behind this one, yes?

*giggles*

Yes, that is the point!

As for everyone with suggestions.
Thank you!!!

Some I have tried, some i will try.

Honestly, it isn't that much of a problem, I have always been this way. It is more an anomoly.

And as for the last scene, that was extreme, a moment of needy desperation. I was trying to see how far I would have to go to make myself come. And even with the addition of the rope pulled from beneath my breasts, over my mound and fastened in the back, no go.

 

[lady-kat]

It is odd.
I can cum hands free, even, with someone else telling me too.

But, to just relax and play hasn't worked.

I am used to it, but that is the reason for my wondering how others perform self love as well as my somewhat creative experimentation.

In the next edition of MissT's guide to self love:

The Refrigerator!

Not sure if my "method" would accomplish anything. Expecially stacked up against some of the excellent suggestions I have seen posted here. But here goes........

I have a vivid imagination. (thank goodness that as an only child I was forced to create my playmates for the most part ;-)

I set an "event" in my head, always involving some sort of s&m, and live the character as best as my imagination allows...
*nervous giggle inserted here*

This has worked for me since I was probably 11 or 12 years old. There is usually self-inflicted pain also, but mostly my imagination does a lot of the work. With a little physical help on my part.

Not to say, my SO has not given me good orgasms, but for some reason, selfish creature that I can be, my own "self made orgasms" seem to be more intense. Maybe because they involve pain, real or imagined, and my SO is vanilla flavor.


ps. I really loved your suggestion of the vapor rub Miss T. I had never considered it. Of course, I couldn't stop there. Hence my comment about Ben Gay.

 

[melancholia33]

Ok, so- after lurking these boards for a good eight months- I finally registered. *first post newbie*

Anyway. Most of the things I tend to do (and for the record, I'm so glad that this topic came up) with me, myself and i tend to be a little bit mild, but very very satisfying. For example. I use nipple clamps, clothes pins, magnets...whatever. I enjoy the sensitivity that brings...

I've also done vicks vapor rub to achieve that happy tingle feeling pretty much everywhere ... um, toys (whoo) especially vibrating ones that provide direct clitoral stimulation... i kind of enjoy turning up the power on those just high enough so I'm right inbetween pure pleasue and pain. My body doesn't know how to take it- so I just cum and cum. (hurray).

i've never actually tried electro-play. i've always wanted to... i lurk around wiredpussy.com a lot, i really want to try it... but i guess i'm just really starting to come out of the BDSM closet. blah. I'm 19, got with a Dom guy once... was floored by the exeperience... but am cursed by shyness. I guess I should bring up my desire to try it... or I can just try it solo.

Heh. Good to be here.