Kissing and affection in scene
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who needs kissing??
I DO!! I consider kissing by my Master to be a very intimate thing as I know He only chooses to do it with me..I love to be rewarded for "good behaviour" that way also as it encourages me to do as well the"next time"kissing,I feel is my Master's way of displaying to me,His slave that He is not oly 'pleased" with me but very much cares for and loves me.
..kissing serves to bring"us" closer..
I DO!! I consider kissing by my Master to be a very intimate thing as I know He only chooses to do it with me..I love to be rewarded for "good behaviour" that way also as it encourages me to do as well the"next time"kissing,I feel is my Master's way of displaying to me,His slave that He is not oly 'pleased" with me but very much cares for and loves me.
..kissing serves to bring"us" closer..
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Desdemona
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foxinsox said:
I second this, Desdemona
I love kissing Him, and am very fortunate that He seems to like kissing me, as well
I regard it as an essential part of our relationship, I could kiss Him all day... but it might get in the way of all the delicious spankings
Fox, I know exactly what you mean! Unfortunately, I'm not getting enough of either the kisses or the delicious spankings these days. I'm sure that will change, though. Do call me des.
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what is interesting is
I kiss a lot out of scene (read vanilla). It is part of my dating behaviour. but in D/s, my boys have to work harder for their kisses.
I am more apt to kiss him after he has endured the pushing of a limit to the point that I am moved to kiss him.
Also, if a particular play activity has been especially successful and/or intense, I am usually motivated to kiss. Aftercare is always the finale regardless of kisses or the lack thereof.
Ebony
I kiss a lot out of scene (read vanilla). It is part of my dating behaviour. but in D/s, my boys have to work harder for their kisses.
I am more apt to kiss him after he has endured the pushing of a limit to the point that I am moved to kiss him.
Also, if a particular play activity has been especially successful and/or intense, I am usually motivated to kiss. Aftercare is always the finale regardless of kisses or the lack thereof.
Ebony
40_and_frisky
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... my first post here
Hi,
Since kissing is one of my favorite things during a scene, this seems like the perfect topic for me to delurk and post here for the first time. I'm a very oral, very tactile person. When I'm playing with my subbie, I'm not content just seeing and hearing her reactions to a spanking, nipple play, or whatnot - I need to feel and enjoy her pain even more intimately. One way I do this is by kissing her deeply while I'm playing roughly with her. This works best with pulling, pinching, and twisting her nipples while we kiss, or reaching back around her to spank her while my tongue searches hers out. It makes her pain more real and more arousing to me, as I can almost feel it myself through her lips and tongue. It also provides the opportunity to gag her protests with my kisses and also the proximity to whisper sweet and nasty things to her.
Along the same lines I like to feel her reactions through my cock in her mouth while I spank and flog her. I like the sensation of teeth scraping me during oral sex though; if you're squeemish about getting bit, then you probably wouldn't enjoy this special kink of mine.
Leo
Hi,
Since kissing is one of my favorite things during a scene, this seems like the perfect topic for me to delurk and post here for the first time. I'm a very oral, very tactile person. When I'm playing with my subbie, I'm not content just seeing and hearing her reactions to a spanking, nipple play, or whatnot - I need to feel and enjoy her pain even more intimately. One way I do this is by kissing her deeply while I'm playing roughly with her. This works best with pulling, pinching, and twisting her nipples while we kiss, or reaching back around her to spank her while my tongue searches hers out. It makes her pain more real and more arousing to me, as I can almost feel it myself through her lips and tongue. It also provides the opportunity to gag her protests with my kisses and also the proximity to whisper sweet and nasty things to her.
Along the same lines I like to feel her reactions through my cock in her mouth while I spank and flog her. I like the sensation of teeth scraping me during oral sex though; if you're squeemish about getting bit, then you probably wouldn't enjoy this special kink of mine.
Leo
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A Desert Rose
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Re: ... my first post here
~~~~~~~~Hi back and welcome.
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40_and_frisky said:
~~~~~~~~Hi back and welcome.
Rose
catalina_francisco
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Interesting topic...
cati
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A note on kissing.
The first time my Master and I met, I assumed that we were going to indulge in some heavy petting and of course kissing is a big part of that. I've always loved it and find it extremely arousing and of of course I wanted to express my hunger for him. I suppose I was being too aggressive and he literally pulled me off of him.
During the same meeting I slipped him the tongue and he bit it......hard! I learned my lesson all too quickly...he was the one in control.
I am allowed to kiss him after pleasing him in other ways. Needless to say I am very careful where I put my lips, mouth and tongue now. Like all other forms of play, this too has been taken to a new level.
The first time my Master and I met, I assumed that we were going to indulge in some heavy petting and of course kissing is a big part of that. I've always loved it and find it extremely arousing and of of course I wanted to express my hunger for him. I suppose I was being too aggressive and he literally pulled me off of him.
During the same meeting I slipped him the tongue and he bit it......hard! I learned my lesson all too quickly...he was the one in control.
I am allowed to kiss him after pleasing him in other ways. Needless to say I am very careful where I put my lips, mouth and tongue now. Like all other forms of play, this too has been taken to a new level.
Bandit58
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With His previous subs (play partners only) He told me they had to ask permission to kiss Him. And He would kiss them after the scene, to reward them for pleasing Him well.
I love kissing. We do it all the time, outside and inside the bedroom. Before a scene I need that kiss and stroking my head and face to "set my mood" I guess. It begins to put me in my "space" and get me ready for what is to come, and reinforces our bond. I could not be in any relationship, D/s or not, without it.
I love kissing. We do it all the time, outside and inside the bedroom. Before a scene I need that kiss and stroking my head and face to "set my mood" I guess. It begins to put me in my "space" and get me ready for what is to come, and reinforces our bond. I could not be in any relationship, D/s or not, without it.
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I love kissing him
In and out of a scene.
Kissing various parts of him in a scene feels so special, as though its the right thing to do at the right time
But I love the first kiss after we have travelled from the airport to our destination best of all. Its not erotic or fantasy fuelled, but it is calm sexy and full of emotion. As though every part of me is engaged in reminding him how much I care about him.
I confess when I see him on the web cam working, frowning or looking a bit down, I stroke the cursor down his cheek as if I were there kissing him
OK, I admit thats odd, but it works for me
In and out of a scene.
Kissing various parts of him in a scene feels so special, as though its the right thing to do at the right time
But I love the first kiss after we have travelled from the airport to our destination best of all. Its not erotic or fantasy fuelled, but it is calm sexy and full of emotion. As though every part of me is engaged in reminding him how much I care about him.
I confess when I see him on the web cam working, frowning or looking a bit down, I stroke the cursor down his cheek as if I were there kissing him
OK, I admit thats odd, but it works for me
Caitlynne
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artful said:
**a walk down memory lane**
Back when I was just lurking, I read artful all the time. I remember all the drama, but I always remembered artful as such a thoughtful Dominant. Every time I see a post bumped that contains one of his "thoughts" I always go, hummm.
Humm, I agree, I like kisses to be done at a chosen moment. I like them to always be special and memorable, never taken for granted. I consider them wonderfully intimate moments that make me feel special.
A caress of the cheek, a kiss to the forehead, or *shivers* to the neck or shoulders. These all are treasured when the moment is chosen well.
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My Dom and I have spent so much time on the phone imagining our first time together and those kisses and the kisses we will have while playing and during aftercare. I just can't imagine not having lots and lots of kisses from him all the time. Of course, were so hungry for each other anything sounds good right now.
BeachGurl2
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Interesting thread to bump, Cat. For me, kissing is extremely important, not just before or after, but also during. There are times when he will stop what he is doing to me in order to kiss the marks he has made along my back or ass, and I love the shiver that goes through me when he does this. And there's the kiss on the forehead while his hand strokes down my hair - don't know what it is about that particular kiss that is so wonderful. Could probably create quite a list of especially great kisses.
But it's interesting to me to see that many of the posters who are in romantic D/s relationships seem to value kissing while those who are in play relationships don't value kissing as much. Hmmmm. Might make an interesting poll . . .
But it's interesting to me to see that many of the posters who are in romantic D/s relationships seem to value kissing while those who are in play relationships don't value kissing as much. Hmmmm. Might make an interesting poll . . .
cati
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Mild objection here.
beachgurl2...I have a question.
From what I can surmise by reading the previous posts, I would agree it would seem that most people are indeed involved in as you say "romantic D/s". I feel however that you may be generalizing a tad too much by slipping them into the two categories...play and romantic. Some men/Doms are just not touchy feely types, who wish to engage in extensive "kissing" of their subs/bottoms or any one else for that matter. Are you suggesting by chance that these Doms/Tops (masc)feel less for their partners because they don't kiss them as much?
Afterall, women tend to display their affection more readily than their male counterparts and then there are those people who simply have a deeper need for that particular "kind" of physical expression.
Shoot, the fact that he licks my welts and runs his tongue over my lips is more than enough *s
beachgurl2...I have a question.
From what I can surmise by reading the previous posts, I would agree it would seem that most people are indeed involved in as you say "romantic D/s". I feel however that you may be generalizing a tad too much by slipping them into the two categories...play and romantic. Some men/Doms are just not touchy feely types, who wish to engage in extensive "kissing" of their subs/bottoms or any one else for that matter. Are you suggesting by chance that these Doms/Tops (masc)feel less for their partners because they don't kiss them as much?
Afterall, women tend to display their affection more readily than their male counterparts and then there are those people who simply have a deeper need for that particular "kind" of physical expression.
Shoot, the fact that he licks my welts and runs his tongue over my lips is more than enough *s
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BeachGurl2
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Not at all. I was merely noting with interest that those who posted here seemed to suggest that people involved in play only may be less inclined to want/need kissing than their more romantically involved counterparts. Thus my suggestion for a possible poll topic. I think it would be interesting to find out where people fall on the spectrum of those for whom kissing is important to those for whom kissing isn't very appealing and whether they are Dom or sub, play partners or romantically involved. Just my weird mind picking up on something of interest.cati said:
BeachGurl2
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Ahhh, yes. I must agree that I love that as well.cati said:
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I do not tend to kiss or cuddle my subs. It is just not something that is part of the way i interact with them. However there are times when a single kiss, to the forehead or to a particular wound just feels right, a reward for them and a sign of my pleasure, but this is normally only after a long relationship has been established. I do not see it as necessary to build the relationship with my subs.
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