KISSING? More intamite than sex??

Oh yes

Kissing CAN absolutely be more intimate...if done right!!!!
 
I'm really not sure. I've never had the morning after feeling after kissing or any other sexual/intimate act. I really like both the sex and the romance (I even get teary watching/reading emotional scenes), but, apparently, I'm really good at seperating the physical from the emotional.
 
i could not say either way. i think that kissing is an integral part of sex and heightens the intimacy. it may depend on with whom you are having sex. if it's a hot one night stand, kissing may be too intimate, however, if it is a lover, it may be part of the foreplay for or a layer of a sexual experience. i can't do without it and find a sensual experiences much more intense with multiple forms of mutual lip and tongue caresses.
 
I think that, generally speaking, kissing is more intimate. But, that's due to the feelings that we put into kissing.

You can have an emotionless fuck.

You can have an emotionless kiss.

I think that emotionless fucking would be more common than emotionless kissing. When you fuck, you get something out of it. When you kiss, you don't get such an obvious reward. So, we add in the passion to kissing, because that's our reward.
 
Kissing in my opinion is definitely more intimate of an act than sex. I mean lets face it there is casual sex... which often DOES NOT include kissing at all.
When done right a very intimate kiss includes every detail of sense ... taste, feel , smell, hearing and sight and can often put you to a sensory overload... and that overload can be mind stimulating.

AND now I really DO miss him more
 
Kissing is a #1 priority in my book!
Its one of the most intimate and sensual things two people can do. It sets the tone for everything else and I find it a complete turn on.

I'm way beyond the age of one night stands and casual sex. Even way back then I never felt very good if the sex was without a deeper feeling for my partner...and that means kissing. Long deep sensual lingering toe curling kissing!

Kissing is making love if done right.

So yeah...I'm a fan :D
 
I've kissed 6 people in my "romantic" life.
I'll only kiss someone that I've let into my heart, someone I care very deeply for.

I've been with many "lovers" but sex doesn't have to include kissing.

IMO, sex is like going to the gym;
you go, use the equipment, finish, clean up, and leave until the next time you need a work out.


Kissing involves soul in my belief.
 
Over time, I found the sight of my ex fucking, sucking, etc exciting, and easy to take. I cannot say the same of kissing...it was always a gut check.


Definitely.

Had a threesome with a man I wasn't sure if I had feelings for. My friend went to kiss him and I ended the show momentarily. They said I growled and that was enough to stop that. I was fine with the sex, but add the kissing and I'll rip your head off.
 
a good, long deep kiss can be as good as sex - and certainly enough to get me wet enough for a long session :) *shy*
 
kissing IS making love

I don't know about "more" or "less" intimate, and would probably say it's an equivalent intimacy. But I do think it is more revealing. Kisses don't lie, but you can be absent fucking. Has anyone tried eyes-open kissing? It feels really strange at first, but it forces you to come out from your hiding place.
 
I think kissing is far more intimate as well. I totally agree with bernett69. Slow, gentl really generous sloppy kissing is such a turn on for me and feels so much more personal. I feel like we have so much control over our tongues and mouths compared to the organs we use to have sex ;).
 
Kissing is a #1 priority in my book!
Its one of the most intimate and sensual things two people can do. It sets the tone for everything else and I find it a complete turn on.

I'm way beyond the age of one night stands and casual sex. Even way back then I never felt very good if the sex was without a deeper feeling for my partner...and that means kissing. Long deep sensual lingering toe curling kissing!

Kissing is making love if done right.

So yeah...I'm a fan :D

I completely agree ! I could never have put it as you did but I feel the same !!
 
I agree

My bf is alseep, but we wake up with our tongues entwined and licking and sucking our way into the world of wonder!
 
kissing

kissing is extremely intimate...I've known women who do lots of sexual things but kissing is a separate thing reserved for serious lovers....

Kissing involves face to face ....sensitive tongues and a mutual willingness...we kissed with abandon in early teens...less the last few years..everything changes but to think back to kissing girls when I was in Jr. High makes me smile and chuckle too.
 
To me kissing is definately more intimate. The thoughts of long kisses that show the pure emotion. Showing each other such pure raw emotion as we start with kissing, touching and eventually working our way to making love. There is nothing like it.
 
So ... My bf and I were having a discussion on kissing on the mouth ..

Bf: sex is more intamite than kissing on the mouth
Me: no way passion and emotion is put into how you kiss someone and the drive behind it

Bf: so you are saying inserting myself in you isnt more personal or intamite ?

So I'm saying no that sex can be emotion less .. What do you think. ??

man have it all wrong kissing is extremely personal and intimate, and without intimate kissing sex can become boring and repetitive..
 
man have it all wrong kissing is extremely personal and intimate, and without intimate kissing sex can become boring and repetitive..

not all of us ;) there's something to be said for a good, hot, long makeout session. It's a very intimate and can be just as passionate as sex.
 
Making out

Nothing like starting out a sexual bout with long drawn out making out.......kissing takes you to where you want to go.......it has it's place in sex......I love long drawn out bouts of foreplay.......I never get enough kissing......it flips everything else.......and to have a lady who is likeminded.......oh my
 
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