Ladies, Do you love older men?

[chargergirl]

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Take a hell of a lot more than your age to make me run

And no, not TMI. I like that you were willing to share that info without being asked. It's nice to see a female member doing that.
Understand the freeing part. It's nice to share a bit of RL at times. Of course that's when all the weird PM tend to start for me.

You always make me laugh. I love that in a man.

 

[Madmar]

Like just about anything else, it's in the eye and mind of the beholder. I'm 44, which might put me in that category for some women but not others.

It's certainly about perspective to one's own age. I've just never had an "older man" thing.

 

[coacheric]

It's certainly about perspective to one's own age. I've just never had an "older man" thing.

What about younger guys? You know, 3 years makes you a cougar right?

 

[Madmar]

I think that might be a broader character trait than just sexual. I'm always game for trying different things, but that also extends to the kitchen, travel, dining, events, and so on. When I go to a restaurant, I always scan the menu to find the thing I've never tried. I think it's just a mindset.

Probably the man -- or woman -- who is not game now for new things has always had that as a core trait. Can be an "age" thing, sure, but doesn't have to be and surely shouldn't be ... not if you want to feel alive.

 

[Madmar]

What about younger guys? You know, 3 years makes you a cougar right?

Well, "technically", I think I've passed through cougar on to leopard in the vernacular of the Urban Dictionary. But 3 years ain't nothing, baby.

 

[RockyRoll]

Probably the man -- or woman -- who is not game now for new things has always had that as a core trait. Can be an "age" thing, sure, but doesn't have to be and surely shouldn't be ... not if you want to feel alive.

Agreed. I know someone who went to Greece and didn't try any of the local food...just ate chicken and lettuce for two weeks. I was stunned to hear that, but there are people out there who refuse to expand their comfort zones or experiment in the slightest. I can't relate to that at all. As you said, it's a matter of feeling alive.

 

[coacheric]

Well, "technically", I think I've passed through cougar on to leopard in the vernacular of the Urban Dictionary. But 3 years ain't nothing, baby.

Yea, sarcasm doesn't come thru very well sometimes.

 

[serenitysbliss]

Did I give TMI? LOL. Every now and then I reveal a little too much about myself on here, I think. I try not to...but sometimes it kind of feels good...freeing, maybe? I don't know...

ETA: At least you've taken the time to get to know me a little. Most people on here see that I'm a mod and run away screaming.

Please your just an exsperianced young lady besides your only as old as you want to be

 

[coacheric]

You always make me laugh. I love that in a man.

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[chargergirl]

Please your just an exsperianced young lady besides your only as old as you want to be

Aw, thank you.

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[snoopydaddy59]

Evening All..... hope everyone is having a great day, night and week.....

 

[lovelygirlatin]

Mmmmm I adore older man! They're a new level of pleasure!

 

[Cycle Tom]

Mmmmm I adore older man! They're a new level of pleasure!

That's nice to know!

 

[FluteMaster]

A thread to make me smile

I've had a number of age gap relationships...ranging from 15 years to over 30 years in difference.

The advantages are new experiences, a sense of fun and desire to try new things.

The downsides tend to be that they are usually looking for short term fun, rather than developing a longer term relationship.

There is also the added difficulty that most of the Lit population are US and Canada based...which reduces the odds of finding that sort of relationship this side of the pond.

 

[iamjustme4ever]

Mmmmm I adore older man! They're a new level of pleasure!

That's nice to know!

Indeed!

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

I've had a number of age gap relationships...ranging from 15 years to over 30 years in difference.

The advantages are new experiences, a sense of fun and desire to try new things.

The downsides tend to be that they are usually looking for short term fun, rather than developing a longer term relationship.

There is also the added difficulty that most of the Lit population are US and Canada based...which reduces the odds of finding that sort of relationship this side of the pond.

I hope you find someone on your side of the pond

 

[iamjustme4ever]

The downsides tend to be that they are usually looking for short term fun, rather than developing a longer term relationship.

However, there are exceptions. My dad and my mom got married when he was 48 and she 24 years old. They had a 38 years marriage, until my father passed away.

 

[Doctor Joe]

Mmmmm I adore older man! They're a new level of pleasure!

Pleased to meet another young beauty. Ready to make your acquaintance.

 

[FluteMaster]

I hope you find someone on your side of the pond

You are very kind...and me too.

 

[FluteMaster]

However, there are exceptions. My dad and my mom got married when he was 48 and she 24 years old. They had a 38 years marriage, until my father passed away.

I agree, and I live in hope. I did meet someone on here nearly two years back, and we were in an LDR for over 1 1/2 years, (ended last Feb). Sadly, she was stopped on the way in because they thought she was under age...and then got dropped into the "do not admit" category. (Our immigration people are complete a......s at times

I'm glad your parents had what they did.. Many people don't make it to 38, even without the age gap.

 

[Bunnylily]

However, there are exceptions. My dad and my mom got married when he was 48 and she 24 years old. They had a 38 years marriage, until my father passed away.

*snoops in*

I'm glad there are exceptions.
It gives me hope.

38 years it's so amazing, especially with an age gap.

 

[james47m]

*snoops in*

I'm glad there are exceptions.
It gives me hope.

38 years it's so amazing, especially with an age gap.

Little Bunny, I too hope for the same. I'm looking for my younger equal. I want a romance and love that will endure until death do us part as well.

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

I agree, and I live in hope. I did meet someone on here nearly two years back, and we were in an LDR for over 1 1/2 years, (ended last Feb). Sadly, she was stopped on the way in because they thought she was under age...and then got dropped into the "do not admit" category. (Our immigration people are complete a......s at times

I'm glad your parents had what they did.. Many people don't make it to 38, even without the age gap.

That's a bummer. I met my husband when I was 14, I'm glad we became friends and lovers. Being from Scotland and loving in France for years I've learned and cultivated a more liberal outlook than many of my friends.

 

[Mac380]

That's a bummer. I met my husband when I was 14, I'm glad we became friends and lovers. Being from Scotland and loving in France for years I've learned and cultivated a more liberal outlook than many of my friends.

It is amazing the difference in mindsets between the UK and the continent, I've worked over here for more thn a year now (with many buisness trips before that) and its quite a relief to be away from the uptight prudishness of the UK.
Saying that, there is of course those exceptions on both sides of "La manche" to prove the rule haha

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

It is amazing the difference in mindsets between the UK and the continent, I've worked over here for more thn a year now (with many buisness trips before that) and its quite a relief to be away from the uptight prudishness of the UK.
Saying that, there is of course those exceptions on both sides of "La manche" to prove the rule haha

Thank you