Ladies, help: What do I(domme) wear to my first play party?

[Lizzie_Borden]

I'm of the mind that parties such as this with a dress code say much more about the psychological needs of the hosts than anything else.

In your case, I'd be quite tempted to wear a shockingly bright pink or yellow suit with a black rose in the breast pocket or pinned to the lapel. Carry a whip if you wish, but I suspect that your independence will speak more loudly than any other element of costume.

Who wants to go to a costume party where the costumes are dictated by the host?

I vote for this.

 

[Primalex]

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I don't get why the host should not set the rules...?

If you would get an invitation to an event that asks for a formal dress, would you then talk about the psychological problems of the host, too? Sorry, I don't get it.

I'm visiting regularly the Night of the Masks and I think it's well-deserved that anyone gets kicked out who doesn't follow the hosts rules. And I consider the recommendations to violate the hosts wishes on purpose as rather rude. The "don't dress properly to prove that you are a Dom" attitude shown here is hypocritical.

The correct advice was the "don't like it, don't go there" part here though. Then you don't annoy the other guests at least.

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[BiBunny]

*** RANT WARNING ***

I don't get why the host should not set the rules...?

If you would get an invitation to an event that asks for a formal dress, would you then talk about the psychological problems of the host, too? Sorry, I don't get it.

I'm visiting regularly the Night of the Masks and I think it's well-deserved that anyone gets kicked out who doesn't follow the hosts rules. And I consider the recommendations to violate the hosts wishes on purpose as rather rude. The "don't dress properly to prove that you are a Dom" attitude shown here is hypocritical.

The correct advice was the "don't like it, don't go there" part here though. Then you don't annoy the other guests at least.

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It was the "dress Dommy" part I objected to. That may be a part of the dress code, but the way it was worded, it sounded more like an aside than a "rule."