Ladies: pussy licked or grinding pussies with another woman?

[PricelessT]

Cunnilingus hands down. I never knew the whole clit grinding thing was something that people actually do in reality. I thought that was something that men concocted for their lesbian sex dreams. I did it when I first had sex with a female, but I didn't know better. As far as the double-headed dildo, I've never been with a female who felt the need to do all of that. There are other less cumbersome ways to climax. Most don't involve toys.

It definitely shows the diversity of women's sexuality that some women get a high and great pleasure out of clit grinding while other women do not. Since the clitoris is the most sexually sensitive area on a woman and most women need direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm (external stimulation on the clitoral glans/hood or parts of the vulva near the clitoral glans/hood rather than vaginal stimulation that can also stimulate the clitoris), I don't understand how some women don't enjoy clit grinding, whether it's clit to clit or the clit grinding against some other body part. It's not much different than a woman fingering a woman's clit (sometimes including use of her palm) or grinding her clit against a woman's mouth (oral sex).

 

[kellyann1972]

I'm going to have to go with this option so, so, so very much!

I absolutely love both as well

 

[bibethhotwet]

Over the weekend I hosted a friend of mine from way back in high school who had gone through a nasty divorce last year. She had only been with a woman on a couple of occasions in her life but was open and willing Saturday night. We spent a lot of time kissing and hugging on my be before I moved down and spent about 30 minutes or so pleasing her orally. (My what a screamer) We then moved down on the bed where we interlaced our legs and had a very intense grinding session. She is a very beautiful red head and the sight of her chest heaved out, nipples erect and clit against mine was more than I could take. It wasn't long before I was squirting over her belly onto her tits. (yes I am a squirter) Beautiful night that was repeated several times.

 

[Dyslexicea]

It definitely shows the diversity of women's sexuality that some women get a high and great pleasure out of clit grinding while other women do not. Since the clitoris is the most sexually sensitive area on a woman and most women need direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm (external stimulation on the clitoral glans/hood or parts of the vulva near the clitoral glans/hood rather than vaginal stimulation that can also stimulate the clitoris), I don't understand how some women don't enjoy clit grinding, whether it's clit to clit or the clit grinding against some other body part. It's not much different than a woman fingering a woman's clit (sometimes including use of her palm) or grinding her clit against a woman's mouth (oral sex).

Hon, I wish you would have just let this thread die. It makes it seem like all we do is lick pussy and grind clits. I have a body, she has a body when we have sex or make love, all her body, all my body is in play. I can suck her toes, lick her feet, nibble on her neck, bite her hard on her wonderful buns and so very much more.

In my arrogant lesbian opinion this is just another trite thread no different than the I love to suck another man's cock but I'm repulsed by kissing him.

I don't want you to take this as a personal attack Priceless, at times I can be a bitch to everyone!

 

[PricelessT]

As touched on in this thread, I felt that it was good to resurrect this thread because there are obviously women who are interested in discussing these aspects of female-female sexuality and because they obviously feel that threads about these topics (more so tribadism than oral sex) are usually neglected in this forum when they come here and don't see a thread about them. I understand your point, going by how this thread's title implies that women who have sex with women only do either of these two things (though the starter of this thread does mention the topic of double-ended dildo, as though women who have sex with women typically choose that), but I don't see a problem with a thread being specifically devoted to these topics. Just as there are some men who love to talk about sucking a man's cock in a thread specifically about sucking men's cocks, or rubbing their cock with another man's cock specifically in a thread about that, there are women on this forum who specifically want to discuss oral sex or tribadism (tribbing) in a thread specifically about those things. It just so happens that this thread combines the two. And since it is one of the few threads about tribadism at this forum (though tribadism, as even this thread and various reliable sources show, is a common sexual practice among women who have sex with women despite not being discussed very often), I feel that this thread should remain visible. The link I showed above in this post is a perfect example of why.

Nothing about this thread title implies that the women involved don't like kissing and/or other aspects of lovemaking regarding sex with a woman. And if anyone takes the thread title to mean that, or to mean that all women who have sex with women do is engage in oral sex and/or tribadism, then they truly are ignorant. In fact, I'd created a thread sometime last year which addresses the misconception that a lesbian is not a real lesbian unless she likes oral sex or that a woman who has sex with a woman should like to engage in oral sex; it didn't get a lot of responses, though, because, as the reliable sources I listed in that thread show (though source #1 needs to be updated), it is a touchy topic. Notice how just about half of the people who voted in that thread voted that a woman is not a real lesbian, or even truly sexually attracted to women, unless she likes oral sex. With the exception of the "Undecided/In between on my views" voters, the poll is currently at 11/11 (tied).

Anyway, this thread that you object to gives people a format to express their feelings about these things. And that shouldn't be taken away, especially since this is a sex and lesbian/bisexual/WSW (women who have sex with women) topic on a LGBT/GLBT forum. And those who would rather not discuss these things specifically, or specifically in this thread, obviously don't have to.

 

[johnnyampleed]

a nice tribbing vid..

http://xhamster.com/movies/370946/ex..._exercise.html

this is why we love to tribb

so, so .... so, so HOT

 

[Dyslexicea]

Whatever!

The GLBT board is so full of this crap that there is seldom anything worth posting to. It's pathetic that I find more discussions worth being a part of on the BDSM board, that have little to do with BDSM, but relate to us as human beings. Yes more pertinent to me as a lesbian than I can find here.

Even if this was important, there would be 100's of choices, pick and choose what you really love about having sex with another woman. So if you think this is important to the study of women's sexuality than post it over on the general board, where it might just enlighten some freaken dude who thinks sex revolves around his little thingy doing the inny and outy.

All this post does is enforce the stereotypical porn concept that sex between lesbians is nothing more than a little kissing, a little breast play and her face between my legs along with a little clit to clit rubbing. Bullshit.

Priceless I'm not the only lesbian or bi who has this opinion of these types of posts. If you really want to talk about our sexual life than please make a thread that mean something "Ladies: pussy licked or grinding pussies with another woman?" isn't it!

 

[Safe_Bet]

Whatever!

The GLBT board is so full of this crap that there is seldom anything worth posting to. It's pathetic that I find more discussions worth being a part of on the BDSM board, that have little to do with BDSM, but relate to us as human beings. Yes more pertinent to me as a lesbian than I can find here.

Even if this was important, there would be 100's of choices, pick and choose what you really love about having sex with another woman. So if you think this is important to the study of women's sexuality than post it over on the general board, where it might just enlighten some freaken dude who thinks sex revolves around his little thingy doing the inny and outy.

All this post does is enforce the stereotypical porn concept that sex between lesbians is nothing more than a little kissing, a little breast play and her face between my legs along with a little clit to clit rubbing. Bullshit.

Priceless I'm not the only lesbian or bi who has this opinion of these types of posts. If you really want to talk about our sexual life than please make a thread that mean something "Ladies: pussy licked or grinding pussies with another woman?" isn't it!

1. Thank you. I personally agree with you.

2. We BOTH do need to remember that, even though this is the LGBT section and that there SHOULD be a much higher percentage of legit posts, this is still a porn board. Ya know what I mean, jellybean? Nice boobage, btw!

3. You are not me and I am NOT you. Stop agreeing with and sounding like me!


P.S. I guess smart, educated, opinionated and lesbian have their own "sound" huh???

 

[PricelessT]

Dyslexicea, I never stated that I think that this thread "is important to the study of women's sexuality."

As for talking about sex between women, I again reiterate that this site is specifically made for talking about sex. So you are of course going to find threads about all types of sexual topics. Not all of those threads, or even most of them, will be enlightening. I have made an enlightening thread, and, like I mentioned above, it got little traction. But this site is not specifically designed for sex talk that is enlightening. It's simply designed for sex talk. You don't find this thread enlightening, but some others (not just men who think "sex revolves around [their] little thing[ies] doing the inny and outy") do. Some stereotypes have been displayed as only stereotypes because of discussions in this thread. And, actually, if this were posted to the general board, the title of it would have more of a chance of reinforcing stereotypes than here on the LGBT (GLBT) board where people are more educated about LGBT (GLBT) matters. You don't find this thread important because it focuses on two sex acts. Fine. I find the thread beneficial to those who want to discuss those two sex acts or just one of them, especially when they don't see a thread about it and/or don't want to start a thread about it. It's not like the threads here about sex between women have to focus on every aspect of what is good about having sex with a woman. And tribadism can encompass more than just grinding clits or grinding the clit against another body part, such as one's hands being free to caress other parts of the lover -- something that I've touched on in this thread.

I've stated pretty much all I have to state to you on this matter in my post above. But I will also state this: I will post in whatever thread here I feel like posting in, and I should not be told what type of thread I should post in or what type of thread I should start.

You don't like this thread; you are free to ignore it and not post in it, just like others are free not to ignore it and to rather post in it.

 

[Safe_Bet]

I again reiterate that this site is specifically made for talking about sex.

Uhhh, no...

This site is "specifically" designed to cover a LOT of different subjects.

This particular forum (GLBT Chatter) is even more diverse. In fact, thought sexuality is mentioned, it is not the majority of the description, now is it?

"Discussion of non-straight sexuality and life. Find support and friends."

Now I agree that this IS a porn site (at least the story side sure is), but I also agree that there are WAY too many "body part" threads in this forum. We are freak'in people, not specific body parts. If there is an interest in dicks/pussies/men with fake boobs/asses/ etc. that belongs in the Sexuality and Fetish forum, IMO.

 

[PricelessT]

Yeah, I wasn't exactly accurate when I stated "specifically made for talking about sex." But by "specifically," I didn't mean "only." My point was/is obviously, like you noted, that sexual talk is a major component of this site.

I'm also tired of there being so many threads about dicks/pussies/asses and things along those lines in this forum. Didn't know that there have been threads about men with fake boobs, though. I'm especially tired of all the threads about cocks. But I largely ignore such threads. And I don't post often at this site. If there were more discussion on this board that wasn't about sex, then maybe I would post more often here.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Yeah, I wasn't exactly accurate when I stated "specifically made for talking about sex." But by "specifically," I didn't mean "only." My point was/is obviously, like you stated, that sexual talk is a major component of this site.

I'm also tired of there being so many threads about dicks/pussies/asses and things along those lines in this forum. Didn't know that there have been threads about men with fake boobs, though. I'm especially tired of all the threads about cocks. But I largely ignore such threads. And I don't post often at this site. If there were more discussion on this board that wasn't about sex, then maybe I would post more often here.

So we have three+ intelligent women here. Why don't we START more "non-body part" posts?

 

[PricelessT]

I'm all for it, Safe_Bet. Any suggestions?

 

[Safe_Bet]

I'm all for it, Safe_Bet. Any suggestions?

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=43359979#post43359979

Tag. You're it!

 

[Stella_Omega]

I dunno... I like this thread. It actually convinced me to try something I never had done. I did it last night, in fact. (And I thought about this thread for a moment while we were moving into postion)

Sure, we are more than our clits, but why the fuck should we not talk about raunchy sex when we feel like it?

Remember-- this IS a sex site. Which is why the board is full of what is is full of. Don't try to police women's sexuality. The entire rest of the fucking world does that already.

 

[PricelessT]

Stella, if you're talking about clit-to-clit tribadism, that was a different thread that convinced you to try it. And I got the credit for you trying it. But then again, you may be speaking of some other aspect (of tribadism or otherwise) mentioned in this thread. Either way, you know that I fully understand your point.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Stella, if you're talking about clit-to-clit tribadism, that was a different thread that convinced you to try it. And I got the credit for you trying it. But then again, you may be speaking of some other aspect (of tribadism or otherwise) mentioned in this thread. Either way, you know that I fully understand your point.

Credit freely given then!

But i guess it was hard to remember 'cause you know there have been SO MANY threads here from women, talking about sex with women... The whole forum is flooded with them.

 

[PricelessT]

LOL; I think because there's been so few threads about tribadism on this site (though that also goes for most lesbian or LGBT sites) that that's why you mistook this thread for a different one (though if there had been many, there obviously would have been the possibility of the same wrong-thread effect). I think we both mean the first thread I popped up in at this site, which is about tribadism. But, anyway, I'm glad that it helped you give it a try (the vulva-to-vulva-minus-a-dildo kind instead of the vulva-to-other-body-part kind that I think you stated you had already engaged in) and that it didn't disappoint you.

 

[LongLiveMetal28]

Clit on Clit. My dog licks me. I don't neeed my GF to do so. Yuck!

 

[cutebak3r512]

Himmm, definitely tubbing