Ladies that love young guys

[Scentofawoman]

I guess I would need to ask are you talking about entering a relationship with an older woman, or just talking and fooling around with an older woman? Because in my mind my responses would be different then to a younger man.

 

[Kahlo]

Yep, I do lack life experience if you measure strictly chronologically.

I've met enough idiotic middle aged men to know that that often accounts for very little, though, but everyone is entitled to their own opinions.



Thanks for summing up so concisely what would take me many more words to convey. Cheers

In terms of dating.. yes.. I am sorry, but you do. There no way at your age you have experienced a variety of relationships and different levels of commitment to the degree of knowing for sure what you are going to want for the next several decades. It takes time to experience and process all of that.

 

[TheLM]

In terms of dating.. yes.. I am sorry, but you do. There no way at your age you have experienced a variety of relationships and different levels of commitment to the degree of knowing for sure what you are going to want for the next several decades. It takes time to experience and process all of that.

I have friends who've been together since highschool who are still madly in love, and they didn't need to be divorced or sleep around to know when a match was made, but you could be very right.

Although it may be the woman who changes what she wants and not the man as he grows older.

 

[LucyH]

The older guys don't have as much trouble keeping up as you seem to imagine, Miami, but there certainly are a lot of twenty-somethings who are especially pretty, and that's nothing to sneeze at.

 

[Kahlo]

I have friends who've been together since highschool who are still madly in love, and they didn't need to be divorced or sleep around to know when a match was made, but you could be very right.

Although it may be the woman who changes what she wants and not the man as he grows older.

I think your friends would be the exception to the rule. In my experience it happens to both sexes and if I were a man, I would refuse to date a girl of your age for the same reason.

I was not suggesting sleeping around, just casual dating.. going out on dates with different women, meeting lots of different women to find out what qualities you really like in a woman, what are definite rule breakers.. etc.. Just to get a really good idea of what you are looking for in a partner and what you expect out of a relationship. Every relationship you experience is going help you realize what you are really looking for.

 

[TheLM]

The older guys don't have as much trouble keeping up as you seem to imagine, Miami, but there certainly are a lot of twenty-somethings who are especially pretty, and that's nothing to sneeze at.

The reason I'm in this thread is because I was hoping to see women who saw an attraction to younger men for other reasons than the obvious physical ones...

Do any women like younger men for reasons like ambition, humor, optimism and diligence?

 

[braingasm]

Do any women like younger men for reasons like ambition, humor, optimism and diligence?

Yes, I do. To me it is not all about their physicality. The personalities of younger men are different than older men. Older men can be a pain in the ass, frankly.

 

[tcbyron]

That kind of mentality probably comes from
A. Not having ever had a younger man
B. Not picking a good (mature, open, good communicating) younger man

The last woman I played with was a mother and much older who said the exact same thing. She had had multiple older male experiences but never a younger guy for the stereotypical reasons you outlined... Now she has changed her opinion.

Just because you aren't meeting intelligent, sensual younger men doesn't mean they don't exist, it probably means you are looking in the wrong places.

I'm going to be 36 this year. I've dated younger, same age range and older. To me, honestly, I've never actually cared about age. Hell, when it comes to age, I will be the first one to day that I'm nothing but a big kid who loves to enjoy myself. And my teenagers will back me up on that. lol

And the first half of your bolded part just goes to show that you did not read or understand the entire thing that I said...
"Of course there are exceptions to every rule. I'm not so crass as to claim that I know all."

So, I did -not- say they don't exist. I didn't say anything like that or imply it. I was speaking from -my- personal experience on behalf of refuting the broad, generalized statement that you made in your original posting against older men.

 

[NikkiX13]

I tend to go for a younger guy....though i'm still in my twenties...so not that big of an age gap...lol

My older sister is 33. Her boyfriend is a well built 19 year old stud and by the looks of him in a bathing suit also very well hung. She has always had a thing for younger guys.

 

[Loverskitten]

Younger men?

I'll take two... To go!

 

[TheLM]

So, I did -not- say they don't exist. I didn't say anything like that or imply it. I was speaking from -my- personal experience on behalf of refuting the broad, generalized statement that you made in your original posting against older men.

And my statement was refuting your own broad, generalized statement.

I'm done arguing; my opinions, however unfounded(yeah right), are my own.

 

[MiamiFirefighter]

Sorry, I couldn't help but reply when I noticed the part in bold... Personally, I've found it to be the complete opposite. The younger may have more, ahem, staying power. Which is great for those who just want to be screwed.

BUT, it's the older gentlemen who will go above and beyond to make sure that their woman is happy, spend the time with her, and generally make her feel like a princess. Not to mention their ability to have a normal conversation with. But what I think is the best ~ they realize the many, many ways that a women's sexual desires can be fulfilled.

Of course there are exceptions to every rule. I'm not so crass as to claim that I know all. But, for me, I'll take an "older man" any day of the week. Just my 2 cents. Back to my older man now.

Its funny that you say all those great things about your older men. But on a different note ask the women that been in marriages for 10+ years and ask them how the majority of them feel? Those men that make you feel like princesses are the same ones that haven't payed attention to there wives in months. We could go back in forth all day trying to point the finger on which age group is arguably "better", but quite honestly age is irrelevant, its not tangible and frankly you cant do shit with it.

I could fill rooms of men 30+ that honestly haven't grown up yet. In my profession there are many. And i could also fill rooms of men my age "22" that will leave your jaw dropping. Oh and if you haven't been with a baby before. Don't bash it until you try it. Its like your mother always told you, don't say you don't like the food until you try it! so when your laying down next to your dinosaur, look at him and think of him 15 years younger with every good perk you like. And think there is a man just like him or better out there =P im only teasing its all love sweat heart =)

 

[Roc_crawl]

As swingers, the Mrs. and I have opportunities to play with people of varying ages. We find positive attributes in all ages and tend to find negatives in all ages when we choose our partners poorly.

For Mrs. Roc, a man a couple of years older (me, for instance) is her preferred man for relationships. To support that, I offer the fact that we've been married for 20 years and when she dated prior to our relationship the men tended to be a few years older.

When it comes to play time, she prefers younger men. Give her a tall, bright young man who handles himself well and she's in heaven. Keep in mind she's not searching for a mate but searching for a fun, sexy, playful man who makes her tingle in a certain spot. It seems to me that the want of a much younger man comes from her desire to see if she can attract such an animal and then satisfy him.

It has been our experience that a man from 24 to 50 who can get in her head (that certain spot) will bring her to great heights sexually and have her calling for more.

Prior to our relationship, I dated a woman who was 12 years my senior for about 6 months. It was a hot relationship that taught me a great deal. When I quizzed her about dating someone so much younger she told me that she'd always dated younger men but couldn't put her finger on why. To this day, I haven't the foggiest idea why but enjoyed her preference a great deal at the time.

The much younger men she's played with (20 years + or -) have been great fun. While there was no lack of maturity on their part, they've all been in a different place than us. Several of them have told me that they have a desire to be with an older woman to feel and enjoy sex with a woman that's in it purely for the fun and pleasure and have few, if any, limits.

So the question by the OP is a loaded one...and I've wandered around and make the issue as clear as mud...

Sorry...carry on.

 

[thejdangel]

I'm only 26 myself so not that much older. I imagine much of the problem is that although women love sex they also love a bit of stability. It is an automatic assumption in most women (myself included) that stability comes from an older man. (I mean a stable relationship, I go to work for my own money. I will never understand why someone wouldn't) I may well be wrong and I'd love a gorgeous young man with stamina to come along and show me I'm wrong one day but... I don't see that happening.

 

[thejdangel]

I do feel younger men can give more than just looks and bodies. A lot of their appeal is their playfulness and the lack of embarassment (They are very bold). Can't say I sit and find ambition attractive. Many people do but I feel it is more an expectation.

 

[deskuser]

Young ones? older ones? I more bothered if they're sexy and interesting.

 

[TheLM]

I do feel younger men can give more than just looks and bodies. A lot of their appeal is their playfulness and the lack of embarassment (They are very bold). Can't say I sit and find ambition attractive. Many people do but I feel it is more an expectation.

Bold is a good word for it...

Basically we're just not that afraid to be shot down, I suppose.

 

[thejdangel]

Bold is a good word for it...

Basically we're just not that afraid to be shot down, I suppose.

Exactly and seeing as I will never have the courage to do so I really admire it in a man.

I also think that a younger man is more indipendent, liking to go out and have fun without their partner of an evening.

 

[edgelinks]

19 is very hot...but just not practical as far as relationships go

 

[TheLM]

19 is very hot...but just not practical as far as relationships go

Hmm. Yeah, it's true, most older women couldn't keep up with the speed of my lifestyle.

 

[braingasm]

Hmm. Yeah, it's true, most older women couldn't keep up with the speed of my lifestyle.

Hahaha....touche.

 

[MiamiFirefighter]

19 is very hot...but just not practical as far as relationships go

Do you enter every relationship saying this is the man you are going to marry? No right? some relationship turn out to be just two people that care about each other that may travel, have fun, etc. and might have no intentions in getting married. So why not try it with someone young? have nothing to lose, just time... Take it with a grain of salt lol

 

[sweet_secrets4u]

perhaps you should look at it more on the basis of the meeting of the mind than the age range. when 2 people click then age becomes becomes meaningless, unless you have some ingrain hang ups about them that you cant over come

 

[MiamiFirefighter]

perfect

perhaps you should look at it more on the basis of the meeting of the mind than the age range. when 2 people click then age becomes becomes meaningless, unless you have some ingrain hang ups about them that you cant over come

You hit the nail on the head.. I honestly couldn't have said it better!!!!!!!!!!

 

[sweet_secrets4u]

You hit the nail on the head.. I honestly couldn't have said it better!!!!!!!!!!

ty do i get a prize?