Ladies: thoughts on anal?

[goneb4dawn]

I never understood why women were always complaining about their anal sex experiences, or w/ their boyfriends/husbands wanting to try anal sex, I had always enjoyed it. I now understand that it may not have been the act itself, but how it was carried out. You need to be in the mood for it, lube is a must, and go slowly/gradually.

 

[It'sasecret]

Well, I have never had anal sex. My husband won't go there. I have very recently experimented with myself though! It was wonderful!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Guest]

Since you asked for a guys view: my girlfriend and i like to caress each others anal region (out- and inside) while having sex. She sees it as a way of giving me the same feelings she has, and i thoroughly enjoy her doing it, touching my sphincter, entering me with a wet finger or also sucking it when doing 69.

After some time we decided to experiment some more and got a buttplug and a double-ended dildo, both made of silicone. While i find the buttplug quite comfortable (about the width of a thumb) the bigger dildo takes some time and lots of lube, but when i see my girlfriends face watching me and feel her moving the dildo in me i'm taking off like a spaceshuttle...

I still consider myself hetero, this is a thing i really enjoy sharing with the woman i love, nothing else. For all the guys too scared to try it i'm quite sorry, you miss something. And for the girls wanting to get their guys to try it: as with everything else, it's a question of communication, go easy about it, don't press it too hard (not when getting to the issue and even less when doing it).

Sorry if i'm being too long, but i think there wont be a lot more messages to that point.

Everybody enjoy yourselfs!

 

[weathered2]

Have indulged in this for some time now and agree that patience (go SLOWLY) and lots of lube are the key. And, yes, we also believe that turn-about is fair play... please, Honey?

 

[casper3110]

I really enjoy anal sex. The guy I am with introduced me to it. He is really gentle, takes the time to turn me on and always makes sure to use LOTS of lube. The first time it was OK. But since then, WOW!

 

[voyergirl]

anal

oh boy i think i am following casper around tonight lol

AHHH ANAL!!!!

well how do you start here, yes everyone is right LUBE, LUBE, LUBE!

i was very worried i could not accept my partners size, but after a VERY slow process and lots of fun playing i got him all the way in!
and OH MY GOD !!

i am an anal whore, i am only vocal during anal. we have to do it only when the kids are spending the night elsewhere lol. i don't really do it alone, well not at all really. and it by no way replaces vaginal sex! as it never should! by the way we were married 10 yrs before we ever even tried anal, wow what i was missing

God i don't want you poeple to get the wrong impression of me here, really i am a normal everyday girl next door type, i swear it!

 

[Jellybeangirl]

I've only experienced with anal play...I would love to try the real deal, but my regular partner isn't too keen on the idea...what I've experienced has been wonderful, but would enjoy exploring further

 

[weathered2]

Re: anal

... by the way we were married 10 yrs before we ever even tried anal, wow what i was missing

God i don't want you poeple to get the wrong impression of me here, really i am a normal everyday girl next door type, i swear it!

I think we went closer to 20 years before venturing there, and went very slowly and patiently when we did. Now, when we do, it's a real turn on for both of us. We too sort of save it for occasional extra spice. Sort of like the guy on the cooking show to "POW!, Kick it up a notch". And, no your post was very straightforward and sensitive. I don't think we have the wrong impression of you at all. Thanks for sharing.

 

[Sandy Balls]

Could someone give the name or type of lube to use. I haven't really found one that works well.

Thanks

 

[Sunny One]

Sandy Balls,

Have you tried a lube called Wet? It comes in a blue bottle that says Original Wet. In my opinion, it works much better than K-Y.
I like that one, so I haven't tried any others for comparison.

Sunny

 

[voyergirl]

"my normalcy"

thanks weathered2, but some of the thoughts dancing in my head after reading these posts. all i can say is "wowowow" i am going to have some fun exploring the "new" me

 

[Intense]

double-ended dildo... made of silicone.

Whoa Dude I think your onto something here. What a great idea. My anal and her pussy, huffing and puffing and rubbing and well...
The mechanics might take a bit of working out but thats half the fun.

 

[casper3110]

Could someone give the name or type of lube to use. I haven't really found one that works well.

Thanks

Have tried both Millenium and Wet.

Wet works a lot better and doesn't feel as greasy.

 

[Sirensong]

lube

Whatever brand you use make sure it is a silicone base as this stuff is god!!!! It stays smooth and slippery and never gets tacky. It also lasts and lasts....... They usually are very nonallergenic and unscented and unflavored like water. It is awesome stuff.

 

[Wizard]

**** Astroglide oe K-Y have my vote................

 

[Guest]

Re: empathy

After all, if he won't let you do it to him, why should you let him do it to you?

Because girs are used to being filled. They like it. Guys aren't. That's why.

I'm sorry, that logic doesn't fly.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

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[steffy]

I've had many intense orgasms with just anal stimulation. I quite often wear a butt plug with a thong when I go out. During the course of the day I'll have several small orgasms from it. I love to have my lover insert the head of his cock just past my sphincter, and while we are lying on our sides, very gently rock back and forth. I'll use a vibe on my clit and his balls and ass. I usually am the initiater of anal, but have to completely trust him before I can give that part of me to him. I love to feel his cock throbbing inside my ass. My most intense orgasms are from anal/clitoral stimulation. As everyone has said, lube, lube, lube.
<kisses> Steffy

 

[marksgirl]

anal, any day! The most intense fucking by far. Lube it up baby!

 

[Belilica]

how I got started

I picked up a toy just for this purpose. It's like a set of anal beads, but the balls on it start at 1 cm and progress to about 4 cm in width. You have to use a lot of lube and really turn her on, but after teh initial shock of it going in, you hardly feel the difference in size on the next one. Be gentle, and just let her relax. And make sure to stop if she says to!

-Bel

 

[Belilica]

reply to Empathy, Unregistered

"Because girs are used to being filled. They like it. Guys aren't. That's why. " (Unregistered)


You know, just because a woman likes it in one hole, doesn't mean she wants to be poked in every one. I know a lot of other women who hate anal and even oral. And, as I AM a woman, there was a time when I tried it and hated it. Just think of it this way... If someone tried to fuck my ear or my nose, I'd cut off his cock, and some women feel this way about anal. Get it?

-Bel

 

[huskie]

When in your life, ladies, did you say o.k. I'll give anal sex a try? and why???

 

[Voosla]

I have to agree with most of the woman here about the anal stimulation. I love it when i'm on top and my man place w/ my ass. As for actual penetration, i've done it a few times, first time was ok, 2nd time one thrust and i couldnt take anymore, I think we did it one or two times after that. Never used lube. Maybe i'll give it a shot.

 

[a_quietguy]

Lubrication

empty

 

[Belilica]

When in your life, ladies, did you say o.k. I'll give anal sex a try? and why???

my partner wanted to try it, and I was willing to experiment. it was only a few months ago or so, and I'm 20 now.

-Bel