tbh, it is a only a very small percentage that are persistent, and no one has been rude. 95% are nice about it when I say I am not interested.You’re not ghosting as far as I know. You’re further enforcing boundaries that aren’t being respected. When I first joined I’d respond to every single message and compliment and it became exhausting so I learned to respond only to names I knew and already interacted with (if I wanted to). I also looked at follows and followers if they had them and their profile.
You don’t owe anyone a response![]()
I never mind receiving messages, and I respond to every one, with the exception of those discussed. Sometimes I miss responding to messages, bc they come in big flurries and I lose track of them. (I lose track of which threads I have commented in, too!) I have ongoing chats on here, but none of them are "sex chats." They are discussions about sex, but they are not online sex. I have never done online sex before, but when guys try to go there, it feels really weird.