Latex Lifestyle Blog - real?

[Etoile]

From the blog:

The hood has a double zip over the mouth and I carried an inflatable gag with me, placing it in my mouth and zipping the hood shut over my lips. The only time i was able to speak was during dinner. I do find it terribly erotic to actually, in public, reach up and gag myself. It feels like the deepest sort of total surrender to Sir and to the rubber enclosure.

This just hit a nerve for me. Dressing in a burqa is all well and good. Going unveiled but in full latex at a fetish party is all well and good. But this, to me, sounds like exposing unwilling participants to your kink. I'm not cool with that. This is the first time I have felt actual disapproval when reading this.

Sorry to keep bumping the thread folks. I'm still reading!

Edit, added:

from the blog:

The kids were, however, not impressed that we had seen the London production with Richard O'Brien because they had no idea who he was...ah youth, wasted on the young!

AHAHAHAHAHAHA no. This is supposedly at a Rocky Horror show. Nobody, nobody at all, who has ever seen Rocky Horror, doesn't know who Richard O'Brien is. AHAHAHAHAHA.

 

[seela]

I read some posts here and there, and some of the comment sections as well. In this one the comment secion was particularly.. Well. I really don't even know what to think of the last three or four comments.

And I'm certainly not sure what to think of the sections throughout the blog, where the son and his girlfriend get involved. She makes a point to say it's not sexual, but the son helps her get gagged and corseted. Maybe it's just like other sons helping their moms with jackets...

As a side note, though: I think I'd enjoy being closed of the world for some periods of time. I think I'd enjoy the complete objectification she describes. But not with latex.

 

[KoPilot]

I've been in very elaborate costumes for events, completely covered from head to toe in foam, PVC, with a spandex bodysuit underneath, often in several layers of each at the same time.

And I gotta say, I can't do more than 4-5 hours in one of those things, and that's with taking off the helmet/mask ensemble at every chance I get (i.e. when someone isn't rushing up with a camera). I look, smell, and feel like shit when I'm done; at least you don't have to worry about needing to use the restroom because you wind up sweating out every drop of liquid you drink. At least my body suits were made to wick sweat away, and the foam and PVC wasn't often directly on the skin, so there was opportunity for the moisture to evaporate somewhat. But still, wearing that shit for a whole year? I'm surprised her skin didn't come off with the latex when all was said and done. Remember trench foot from WWI? I'd honestly expect it to start rotting under there if this were real.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Gags and corsets ARE sexual. They are never, ever, not sexual. She might as well ask her son to help her shove a dildo into her pussy.

 

[seela]

Gags and corsets ARE sexual. They are never, ever, not sexual. She might as well ask her son to help her shove a dildo into her pussy.

Yeah, I probably should have added the rolleye emoticon there. But yes, I agree with you.

 

[StrayKat]

Gags and corsets ARE sexual. They are never, ever, not sexual. She might as well ask her son to help her shove a dildo into her pussy.

Gags definitely, but corsets I dont think so. I have been in situations where I helped or was helped with the corset by my Mother or my daughters.
Miss Scarlett would disagree with the dildo comparison too I believe

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[Stella_Omega]

Gags AND corsets?

Latex gags and latex corsets?

 

[StrayKat]

I dont know, I can imagine wearing even a latex corset of a kind in public. After all its just material the clothes can be made of, it doesnt *have* to be fetish, I can like the look or feel (I dont, but I am trying to speculate). I believe I could imagine some kind of combo with latex corset that would not look too exposed.

Gags of course not, gags are specific instruments. I just dont believe corsets, no matter what they are made of, are so specific. Sexy, provocative, yes, but wearable in a non-fetish way as well in my opinion. I just cant put a corset in the same box with gags and dildos.
Or maybe I am biased because I do love corsets, albeit not latex ones, and they suit my body type. I wear them as tops quite often, usually under the jacket but still showing.

 

[Loverskitten]

My son has helped me into corsets, I'm usually holding onto the door jam, hehe. But not latex ones. And her fetish IS clothing based.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Gag + corset = fetish = TMI for a son or daughter.

My daughter now wears a beautiful North Beach leather corset that used to be mine. But I never asked her to help me into it back when I was wearing it as fetish clothing. That would have squicked me right out of my fun.

And I never ever asked her to help me buckle a gag around my face, for krissake.

And if she had ever seen me in a gag while wearing the corset, I doubt she'd touch it with a ten-foot pole now. It would have been sexualised for her.

Does this woman think her son has never googled for "latex fetish?"

 

[seela]

Does this woman think her son has never googled for "latex fetish?"

Her son is a latex fetishist himself...

 

[Etoile]

Her son is a latex fetishist himself...

Which I would find totally understandable, growing up in that household...

 

[Stella_Omega]

Her son is a latex fetishist himself...

In which case she might as well ask him to shove a dildo into her pussy as ask her to lace her into her latex corset.

Which I would find totally understandable, growing up in that household...

I have a real problem with parents shoving their sexuality in their children's faces.

My kids know that I'm queer-- but they were always free to choose their own paths. We gave them role models of all genders. They know that their dad is hetero, too. They know that both of their parents respect their choices.

My daughter has sent her friends to me to talk about BDSM. So I know that the knowledge that I'm into it doesn't squick her-- but that's partly because I have never ever let them witness anything sexual OR Fetish-y on my account. Affection-- yes, a hell of a lot of hugging and laughter between adults.

I raised them to be sex positive, not sex obsessed. Me, I'm sex obsessed. But that's me, not my kids.

 

[Etoile]

In which case she might as well ask him to shove a dildo into her pussy as ask her to lace her into her latex corset.

I have to disagree. Just because someone has a specific fetish doesn't mean they're automatically into another fetish. The son undoubtedly picked up a latex fetish by being exposed to it regularly while growing up, but that doesn't automatically mean he wants to fuck his mom. Incest is a taboo that most people don't particularly want to cross, and I don't think that having him help her gets dressed means she wants to have sex with him. Is it somewhat sexual for him to help her get dressed? Undoubtedly, given the amount of talk she does about how erotic latex is for her. Does that automatically make the leap to "let's fuck" then? I don't think it does.

I have a real problem with parents shoving their sexuality in their children's faces.

I do too, but I don't think that having done that as a child, means she wants to have sex with her adult son (I haven't seen his age mentioned yet, but he's at least an adult).

 

[Stella_Omega]

What do you think "Latex fetish" means, Etoile?

It's not the same thing as "liking to dress in latex."

If the boy has helped her gag herself, he knows it's about sex.

 

[Etoile]

What do you think "Latex fetish" means, Etoile?

It's not the same thing as "liking to dress in latex."

You and I will have to agree to disagree on the incest point, I think. I'm too sick to argue my point eloquently right now.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Dammit, I edited late-- so I'm going to repost what I had added after you answered

You and I will have to agree to disagree on the incest point, I think. I'm too sick to argue my point eloquently right now.

You miss my point, which is not actual incest but the child losing the autonomy to mold himself into his own sexual person.

If the boy has helped her gag herself, he knows it's about sex.

My kids know that I'm queer-- but they were always free to choose their own paths. We gave them role models of all genders. They know that their dad is hetero, too. They know that both of their parents respect their choices.

My daughter has sent her friends to me to talk about BDSM. So I know that the knowledge that I'm into it doesn't squick her-- but that's partly because I have never ever let them witness anything sexual OR Fetish-y on my account. Affection-- yes, a hell of a lot of hugging and laughter between adults.

I raised them to be sex positive, not sex obsessed. Me, I'm sex obsessed. But that's me, not my kids.

 

[Etoile]

Dammit, I edited late-- so I'm going to repost what I had added after you answered

I did see your edit, I quoted part of it! (I also see now your edit to the post before...I can't keep up with all of your edits!)

You miss my point, which is not actual incest but the child losing the autonomy to mold himself into his own sexual person.

You're right, I did miss that point. Again...I blame it on being sick. I thought "In which case she might as well ask him to shove a dildo into her pussy as ask her to lace her into her latex corset." WAS saying that since he was helping dress his mom, he might as well have sex with her. But I am fuzzy in the head right now, forgive me.

 

[StrayKat]

Gag + corset = fetish = TMI for a son or daughter.

My daughter now wears a beautiful North Beach leather corset that used to be mine. But I never asked her to help me into it back when I was wearing it as fetish clothing. That would have squicked me right out of my fun.

And I never ever asked her to help me buckle a gag around my face, for krissake.

And if she had ever seen me in a gag while wearing the corset, I doubt she'd touch it with a ten-foot pole now. It would have been sexualised for her.

Does this woman think her son has never googled for "latex fetish?"

My daughters asked me details about a blowjob when they were around 7 and 9. They knew I was having sex with their father since they were really little, I tend to be loud and they even told me so. They used to help me around goats and other animals, including breeding. I never hesitated answering anything they asked me. I was never embarrassed to walk naked or in sexy clothes around the house, they act the same. We used to watch movies with certain scenes pretty freely as a family. If they didnt understand something they were alway encouraged to ask.

So how much info about my sex life would be too much?
I think sexuality is normal and I did my best to pass my views to my daughters.

My kids are 22/25 now, they live with their boyfriends for past 3/7 years, I see them as grown up women who are supposed to know nearly everything about life. Last movie I was discussing with my older daughter was Secretary.

I would not feel weird if my daughter helped me into any kind of fetish clothes. Life is sexualized in many ways we may not even notice in everyday life, for our children as well. I was never "showing" anything in their face, just acting like sex, even kinky sex, is normal and acceptable thing in life. What I honestly believe myself. Would you have preferred me to lie, hide and feel embarrassed about my natural needs? I think that would hinder my children more than open attitude I had.

So, imho, it all depends on how you look at it. I dont see anything my kids may ask or notice as TMI. I dont even believe there is such thing as TMI, every info can be good and helpful in some way if its given honestly and with good intentions.

 

[DVS]

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[Stella_Omega]

I'm going to try to stop with the edits.

And start sending you wellness thoughts

So far we have multiple concerns about health, concerns about innocent bystanders, concerns about her goddamned safety-- walking on the moors in tight bondage, really?

 

[Stella_Omega]

So how much info about my sex life would be too much?

Too much info would be the point where it prevents the kids from developing their own sex lives.

Admittedly, that's a fuzzy line. it's up to eachof us to decide where it lies, and the vast majority of folk don't think about it at all-- they indoctrinate their children into heteronormative sexuality as a matter of course. But that's privilege for you, you don't have to examine anything.

I think sexuality is normal and I did my best to pass my views to my daughters.

yes, it is normal-- and that is a good thing to pass on. As I said, I did too. I didn't try to specify what form of sexuality is best, or most desirable, or most normal.

 

[StrayKat]

Too much info would be the point where it prevents the kids from developing their own sex lives.

But children are little sponges. They do develop their sex lives based on info you provide unconsciously as well. They pick up hints and read between the lines.

My own Mother always had a rather disgusting (for me) sugary romantic vanilla ideas about sex she claimed were the only "normal" way to go. Her very visible exhibitionism though made all her statements zero valid. Right now at the age of 74 she has a 35 yo lover and is chasing another guy who could even be my son.
When I point out the discrepancy between her words and her actions she just says I was too young to be told anything different.
Well, I turned out kinky as hell despite all her tries to make me "normal"

 

[Etoile]

Turns out the experiment would have continued forever, but their maid fell in love with somebody and moved away, and she couldn't maintain the regimen herself. I'm in March 2006 now. I suspect it will get more believable from now on.

I did like this:

I often refer to the fact that Sir uses me in one way or another for his gratification. As my particular fetish is to be oibjectified, please understand that nothing pleases me more than for him to do this. It is deeply comforting and highly arousing for him to manipulate me in a physical manner as though I were a toy.

 

[BiBunny]

You know, as much as she talks about Second Life, I wonder if most of the scenarios she writes about don't come from there....