Letting Wife Have A Younger Boyfriend?

[Justplainjeff]

My wife and I must come from a different generation. We've been married nearly 54 years, and the 1st week of October we will turn 78 and 77 years of age. While we read all.sorts of stories here, we have never discussed having secondary partners, of any age.

 

[peter49parker]

Make sure your relationship is as strong as you think it is. I fostered something similar with my husband, and he asked for a divorce 3 months later...

This is good advice. It's not for everybody. There are many pitfalls that await.

 

[Scotchlander]

Make sure your relationship is as strong as you think it is. I fostered something similar with my husband, and he asked for a divorce 3 months later...

Why did he agree to it in the first place unless he was 100% certain.

 

[AlbertoGran]

I see this as something that is very personal to the two (or more) of you. If you are enjoying your relationships, exploring life, engaging in expanding how you love each other and those around you, then you are living the life you want. Provided you are acting out of love of each other, of the others in your life, and for life itself, then no one has the moral authority to tell you otherwise.

My sole apprehension here is the way you expressed the question. "Letting my wife . . ." implies that one partner has control over the other, however I suspect you are both equal partners.

 

[Sgts19]

I'd love to see her with one or two younger men. Being older I'm a one and done guy now, being married as long as I have does get rather ho hum been there done that a million times. I'm sure she'd probably say the same. I've seen her with a few others, and she sure acted different with a lot differently with them. Two young guys pounding the hell out of her for a night..perfect. I'd probably cum seeing or hearing then more than once

 

[Hipshot1554]

I often get chatted up by younger guys, just in our local shopping centre or pub, and to be honest, I'm putting out signals if some younger guy takes my fancy. Almost always short lived affairs. Most often a once only or they will use me for a while then move on and I make it clear it is short term fun.

All good, there is no shortage of young guys who would partake.

ETA, with hubbies full knowledge and blessing.

They will always remember too!

 

[CEOescape]

Well, that's a quaint notion. Around here, something like "well-used, depraved little ho's" might be more accurate.

But although most of them can get a hook-up on a moment's notice, they all joke openly about how inept guys their age are at pleasing them, and the look of shock and amazement on their face when they realize they've just been properly fucked for the first time in their life is just priceless.

this conversation is making me so turn on

 

[Sienna62]

This woman is exceptionally alluring, I’d love to share thoughts ..,

Pm open to women who’d like to discuss

 

[EdB007]

Hey I’m 19 id love to be a boyfriend for a wife pm me!

 

[SPARTAN047]

I am posting here to gauge how others feel about this type of situation, and if it turns them on like it does me. Men and women please both reply as I would love to start a conversation about this topic. My wife and I recently opened the door to swinging. We met an awesome younger guy at a nude beach we frequent and the three of us hit it off right away. A week later we were having a threesome in a hotel after our second beach hangout. Since then my wife has admitted to me that she has a crush on him. She loves his 10 inch cock (she was not a size queen until she fucked him), she likes him, and they have a very sexy chemistry with each other when they are fucking.

I encourage them to sext each other, which they do now. I have encouraged her to masterbate with him via video calls, which she does. She is really into him and I fully encourage it. It's not a humiliation thing either. We don't do that. It's compersion on my part that drives me. And her knowing how much I am turned on by her fucking other guys makes her extremely horny.

So I offered her some alone time with him in the hotel room so they could be more intimate, passionate, and free with each other. She is all for it and totally wants to do it. I told her she can have him as her boyfriend if she wants. At first she was hesitant, but then admitted that it turns her on so much and she really has put a lot of thought into it. I know she isn't going anywhere. We have a secure relationship, 4 adult children, and two grandchildren. Our bond is strong. So why not let her has some fun. Life is too short to pretend we aren't into some kinky shit.

I want her to have the most fun, passionate, intense, and intimate sex with him that she can. The knowledge that she likes him and has a big crush on him makes me so hard. I cum so hard when she tells me all of this as we are having sex, or as she jerks me off while talking all about it.

So what are everyone's thoughts? Anyone have this experience? Feel free to share. I am interested in the conversation this brings about. Looking forward to hearing from you all.

It sort of excites me too TBH. I'd never do this in a real strong relationship due to the risks. Maybe something casual and I'd just make sure I was looking for any tail on the side myself. I have my own needs and I can't stay focused 24/7 on someone who wants to stray or play around. It's not a bad thing but my focus is to keep it new and exciting for both of us. Not just her.

 

[LustyScribe]

I am posting here to gauge how others feel about this type of situation, and if it turns them on like it does me. Men and women please both reply as I would love to start a conversation about this topic. My wife and I recently opened the door to swinging. We met an awesome younger guy at a nude beach we frequent and the three of us hit it off right away. A week later we were having a threesome in a hotel after our second beach hangout. Since then my wife has admitted to me that she has a crush on him. She loves his 10 inch cock (she was not a size queen until she fucked him), she likes him, and they have a very sexy chemistry with each other when they are fucking.

I encourage them to sext each other, which they do now. I have encouraged her to masterbate with him via video calls, which she does. She is really into him and I fully encourage it. It's not a humiliation thing either. We don't do that. It's compersion on my part that drives me. And her knowing how much I am turned on by her fucking other guys makes her extremely horny.

So I offered her some alone time with him in the hotel room so they could be more intimate, passionate, and free with each other. She is all for it and totally wants to do it. I told her she can have him as her boyfriend if she wants. At first she was hesitant, but then admitted that it turns her on so much and she really has put a lot of thought into it. I know she isn't going anywhere. We have a secure relationship, 4 adult children, and two grandchildren. Our bond is strong. So why not let her has some fun. Life is too short to pretend we aren't into some kinky shit.

I want her to have the most fun, passionate, intense, and intimate sex with him that she can. The knowledge that she likes him and has a big crush on him makes me so hard. I cum so hard when she tells me all of this as we are having sex, or as she jerks me off while talking all about it.

So what are everyone's thoughts? Anyone have this experience? Feel free to share. I am interested in the conversation this brings about. Looking forward to hearing from you all.

Wow. That's a LOT of trust. I hope it doesn't come back to bite you, and I will say that you have GOT to be one of the kindest, most generous people ever to give so much to her. I sure hope she never loses sight of just how good she has it.

 

[Jeph77]

If you're confident and caring, you'd let her have her fun and enjoy it with them. What's he gonna say, no?

 

[Matt3427]

I am posting here to gauge how others feel about this type of situation, and if it turns them on like it does me. Men and women please both reply as I would love to start a conversation about this topic. My wife and I recently opened the door to swinging. We met an awesome younger guy at a nude beach we frequent and the three of us hit it off right away. A week later we were having a threesome in a hotel after our second beach hangout. Since then my wife has admitted to me that she has a crush on him. She loves his 10 inch cock (she was not a size queen until she fucked him), she likes him, and they have a very sexy chemistry with each other when they are fucking.

I encourage them to sext each other, which they do now. I have encouraged her to masterbate with him via video calls, which she does. She is really into him and I fully encourage it. It's not a humiliation thing either. We don't do that. It's compersion on my part that drives me. And her knowing how much I am turned on by her fucking other guys makes her extremely horny.

So I offered her some alone time with him in the hotel room so they could be more intimate, passionate, and free with each other. She is all for it and totally wants to do it. I told her she can have him as her boyfriend if she wants. At first she was hesitant, but then admitted that it turns her on so much and she really has put a lot of thought into it. I know she isn't going anywhere. We have a secure relationship, 4 adult children, and two grandchildren. Our bond is strong. So why not let her has some fun. Life is too short to pretend we aren't into some kinky shit.

I want her to have the most fun, passionate, intense, and intimate sex with him that she can. The knowledge that she likes him and has a big crush on him makes me so hard. I cum so hard when she tells me all of this as we are having sex, or as she jerks me off while talking all about it.

So what are everyone's thoughts? Anyone have this experience? Feel free to share. I am interested in the conversation this brings about. Looking forward to hearing from you all.

My wife sees a young lad regularly and has met a few over the years. Hard to explain to people who haven't experienced it. We actually started out with this in our 20s when I found out she had cheated a few times - all while i was overseas a lot with work. It was actually a couple of years later before i found out. Became a big turn on for us.

 

[Dessertman]

I was in a relationship with a woman 9 years older than me for 40 years. It ended when she died aged 85.

 

[LongWood619]

I’ve been with many older couples, mostly in their late 30s and early 40s (the oldest woman I’ve been with was 48). I love the age difference. I love the idea that I’m fulfilling the wife’s sexual desires, that she may be sexually deprived, that she craves a young man’s cock.

 

[Wanderingsoul1333]

I’ve been with many older couples, mostly in their late 30s and early 40s (the oldest woman I’ve been with was 48). I love the age difference. I love the idea that I’m fulfilling the wife’s sexual desires, that she may be sexually deprived, that she craves a young man’s cock.

I love this. And yes, my wife craving a young man's cock is the best part. I love that she desires men half her age. And she gets them. I want her to have as much young cock in her pussy as she can handle. She likes young guys that can cum multiple times in her pussy during one session. She loves their stamina and eagerness to please her. So we agreed that she can fuck whomever she wants to as long as she keeps me in the loop.

 

[MarionsLover]

She is totally down to watch me fuck other women. As for me having a side girlfriend, I don't know, we haven't crossed that bridge yet. She is all about fair play, so she might be ok with that. For right now we are focused on this.

I would be totally OK with my wife wanting to have a younger BF as long as I could play around too.
i'd be open to a threesome with the BF or we just watch each other fuck our friends.

 

[LongWood619]

I love this. And yes, my wife craving a young man's cock is the best part. I love that she desires men half her age. And she gets them. I want her to have as much young cock in her pussy as she can handle. She likes young guys that can cum multiple times in her pussy during one session. She loves their stamina and eagerness to please her. So we agreed that she can fuck whomever she wants to as long as she keeps me in the loop.

Oh that sounds amazing, I wish I was one of her many young lovers

 

[CEOescape]

I might be playing a word game but I love her having the freedom to have sex with a safe and respectful other man but to classify him as a boyfriend, I think not.

 

[shewantsmore]

I am posting here to gauge how others feel about this type of situation, and if it turns them on like it does me. Men and women please both reply as I would love to start a conversation about this topic. My wife and I recently opened the door to swinging. We met an awesome younger guy at a nude beach we frequent and the three of us hit it off right away. A week later we were having a threesome in a hotel after our second beach hangout. Since then my wife has admitted to me that she has a crush on him. She loves his 10 inch cock (she was not a size queen until she fucked him), she likes him, and they have a very sexy chemistry with each other when they are fucking.

I encourage them to sext each other, which they do now. I have encouraged her to masterbate with him via video calls, which she does. She is really into him and I fully encourage it. It's not a humiliation thing either. We don't do that. It's compersion on my part that drives me. And her knowing how much I am turned on by her fucking other guys makes her extremely horny.

So I offered her some alone time with him in the hotel room so they could be more intimate, passionate, and free with each other. She is all for it and totally wants to do it. I told her she can have him as her boyfriend if she wants. At first she was hesitant, but then admitted that it turns her on so much and she really has put a lot of thought into it. I know she isn't going anywhere. We have a secure relationship, 4 adult children, and two grandchildren. Our bond is strong. So why not let her has some fun. Life is too short to pretend we aren't into some kinky shit.

I want her to have the most fun, passionate, intense, and intimate sex with him that she can. The knowledge that she likes him and has a big crush on him makes me so hard. I cum so hard when she tells me all of this as we are having sex, or as she jerks me off while talking all about it.

So what are everyone's thoughts? Anyone have this experience? Feel free to share. I am interested in the conversation this brings about. Looking forward to hearing from you all.

Im glad you trust her,you have a strong relationship, ,encouraging her to explore ,you didnt mention your ages and his. . Masturbating by skype phone giving them space and time. Please make sure the younger lover dosnt get the wrong idea , he might deceide to take more control of your wife,if hes a bull of dom.
My husband encouraged me to swing and it did totally change our relationship

 

[drobert44]

Im glad you trust her,you have a strong relationship, ,encouraging her to explore ,you didnt mention your ages and his. . Masturbating by skype phone giving them space and time. Please make sure the younger lover dosnt get the wrong idea , he might deceide to take more control of your wife,if hes a bull of dom.
My husband encouraged me to swing and it did totally change our relationship

I think its swell you let her fuck him. Jealousy is a curse. But, shewantsmore has a good point. Young boy dont get to be a Dom.

 

[MarionsLover]

I might be playing a word game but I love her having the freedom to have sex with a safe and respectful other man but to classify him as a boyfriend, I think not.

Good point.
"Boy friend" implies sn emotional/romantic commitment
"Lover" is maybe better? To me it implies a certain amount of emotional care (maybe I'm weird, or old fashioned, but i think we should treat even a fuck buddy or sex worker with respect), but puts the focus on the sex.

 

[MarionsLover]

I think its swell you let her fuck him. Jealousy is a curse. But, shewantsmore has a good point. Young boy dont get to be a Dom.

Absolutely.
Sure fuck my wife, but don't try to call any shots around here.
You don't give her mind blowing orgasms, you're fired.

 

[cuckoldbill]

Love this

 

[SPARTAN047]

One younger and one older.