Like Big Men?

thats funny, I have a thing for Amazons....

lets get together and make some giant babies....:devil:

That instantly made me think of the Futurama episode with the giant Amazon women. :D

And yeah... being a tallish gal can be kinda a drag sometimes. Short guys lurve to hug me though. ;)
 
this is for the big guys like me that post here, do you ever feel that you are ugly because you don't look "Normal" (normal by society's definition)
 
Does it help at all to see proof positive that there are women who think your're adorable/handsome/hot/all that despite what society says? These women have no reason to lie.
 
this is for the big guys like me that post here, do you ever feel that you are ugly because you don't look "Normal" (normal by society's definition)

Yes. I struggle against it, but yes. Some things can be so ingrained into your mind that they stay with you despite all evidence to the contrary.

Does it help at all to see proof positive that there are women who think your're adorable/handsome/hot/all that despite what society says? These women have no reason to lie.

ebunny, see above. Its not about how others see us, it's about how we've been made to see ourselves. We've been fed this bullshit since childhood and it gets inside you to stay. That being said...in my personal life thre have been a lot of women who called me handsome, but when thew time came to prove it...they split. I guess its fine to say that someone else would fuck me, but they are too good for slumming.
 
ebunny, see above. Its not about how others see us, it's about how we've been made to see ourselves. We've been fed this bullshit since childhood and it gets inside you to stay.
Sadly, there is alot of truth in this.
 
Oh, I get the ingrained hate. Believe me. My own grandmother took every opportunity to inform me from childhood that I would grow up to be fat just like my father's side. The sound of her voice rises up every time a guy looks at me and I can't help but think she's right. However, it helps my heart to have someone tell me I'm not ugly. That's what I was getting at.
 
Well just something as food for thought... I've read that for something like every 35-40 lbs lost, you can "recover" about an inch of penis length. In overweight men, there is often fat at the base of the penis that "hides" length. When the weight is lost, you actually end up regaining some of that length, making the penis look bigger (or more appropriately, look its true, normal size). You don't actually grow, obviously; you're just sort of rediscovering length you already had! My ex found that to be the case when he lost a lot of weight (about 160 lbs). Of course, there is a limit to what you'll uncover -- you're not going to lose your way to an 8-inch cock if you don't have one already. ;)

All that said, though... from a woman's point of view, it's mostly about how you use it, and more importantly, how you use other parts of your anatomy! I think a man with a smaller cock can certainly still be a good lover. But yeah, you'll run into size queens. All women are different. Variety makes the world go 'round!


Thank you for the expert advice, Scarlet_GA! Before I became and member of this forum and read this thread, I felt like a LOSER (sexwise) because I had a small dick and that I would NEVER be able to satisfy any woman. You ladies have just given me a shred of hope. (Let's keep in mind that there is that old stereotype going around that African American men are sexually aggressive and have LARGE cocks. Believe me, I can shoot that stereotype down in a matter of seconds; I am an exceptional case big time!) :)
 
Oh, I get the ingrained hate. Believe me. My own grandmother took every opportunity to inform me from childhood that I would grow up to be fat just like my father's side. The sound of her voice rises up every time a guy looks at me and I can't help but think she's right. However, it helps my heart to have someone tell me I'm not ugly. That's what I was getting at.

I guess the trouble is that unless kind words end up resulting in something more, it's quite easy to see it as someone being polite rather than actually feeling it, and so slipping back to the default sense of ever decreasing hope.

It's been nearly a decade since I was last pretty close to a girl or felt that someone might be genuinely interested, and those times didn't come to anything much but then I was still in my teens so no big deal I guess.


So, just read that back; now I'm off to slash my wrists :D
 
I wish everyone would stop looking with their eyes and start seeing with their heart.

yes I know it sounds cliche, but its the truth
 
I have recently considered taking a few pics of myself, would any ladies like to see them if I do?
 
I have recently considered taking a few pics of myself, would any ladies like to see them if I do?

Buddy, I don't want to sound mean here. I also don't want to discourage you getting in touch with your sexual self or feeling attractive or manly.

But my personal observation has been that anyone who is at all unattractive in the conventional sense should never post naked pictures on the AMpics forums.

Unless that is, you get off on humiliation and public abuse.
 
this is for the big guys like me that post here, do you ever feel that you are ugly because you don't look "Normal" (normal by society's definition)
I know you were looking for feedback from women, but let me offer a little advice:

THE SHAPE YOU'RE IN IS NOWHERE NEAR AS IMPORTANT AS THE ATTITUDE YOU PROJECT!!

Funny works. So does decent hygiene. Buy yourself some clothes that make you feel HOT. And if you've got a female friend who will go shopping with you, so much the better. Figure out what you've got now that's genuine and sexy, 'cos no woman is going to believe in that if you can't first.

I've seen fat fucking PIGS who could get more ass than they knew what to do with. And I've seen decent-looking guys who came across as so timid and unsure that even women who liked their looks didn't know what to do with them.

Confidence sells. Not swagger (well, not too much, anyway). Figure out who you are, and then be that person!!

That concludes today's after school special... :)
 
Daddy Bear

Hey everyone... I have been following this thread for a few days and decided it's time for me to say Hi... I'm a 40yr old bigger man. I agree with allot of the post here that allot of people look at a larger person and you can see the change in the way they act. Almost like we are an alien at times. As for myself... I use to be very self conscious of myself but over time I have come to be happy with who I am. I am easy going laid back and mischevious... lol
I have been called a Teddy Bear allot of times but since I have into BDSM most of the subs have started calling me Daddy bear because I can be veru protective of them... lol

Thanks to all the Ladies that have posted and shown thier support... Thanks to the other guys that have posted about themselves... Great thread and hope to chat with others from here... :)

SirMathos
 
He was in front of me in line at the coffee shop this morning... heard him say his name was Scott. Just standing near him made me moisten since he must have been about 6'6", plus he was muscled but not overlyso with normal fat content no flab. He was dressed clean and casual, almost looked ex-military with that short hair cut. The almost 40 y/o has no idea that I was behind him swooning away. And yeah, he's married and no, I didn't talk to him but DANG! Would I love to be adored by a guy like that!! :cattail: The guy that I do know who would be easily comparable is married to this lil chick. She looks like she could be my sister in the plump, short form. Why do some "real" men end up with these teeny things???
 
My new story has started today in the Sexual Role Play forum

I'm limodriverslut there if ya wanna play :rose:
 
I finally am confident enough to post nudes of myself, it took allot of time to get up the courage
 
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