Like Big Men?
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Teddy_Bear1990
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I love all girls, big or small
You and me both dude. Great that you found the courage to post your pics though mate, I hope it helps you accept yourself.
For my part I struggle with the concept of my pictures (clothed of course) being on facebook for my friends to see (the only pics of me are posted by others), let alone the likes of yours.
Teddy_Bear1990
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bassistxtreme
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Big guy here, around 135 KGs, have always had trouble having a GF, or socializing mainly because of how insecure I am of how I look, but knowing that there are women out there who actually like bigger guys, gives me a confidence boost
Teddy_Bear1990
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Big guy here, around 135 KGs, have always had trouble having a GF, or socializing mainly because of how insecure I am of how I look, but knowing that there are women out there who actually like bigger guys, gives me a confidence boost
I know the feeling my friend, I'm just glad that we have the internet so that those girls are easier to find
KatNW1
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Bumping this thread... Where'd all the handsome big men go??
We're around ....
Rainbow2429
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I am glad this thread is surviving, there was one a while ago which fizzled out eventually. I'm really attracted to big men. It makes me sad when they aren't confident about themselves, if only they knew how much they are appreciated!
Winter is coming we need good heat sources
I will second this!!! I need yummy cuddle material.
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Yay for bumping this thread!
As to confidence, I think that is definitely key.
As I work where I an enormous number of people every day, I decided I was going to force myself to look each and every customer directly in the eye when talking to them. Having incorporated that into my day, I have so many people smiling at me back it is amazing.
Taking that outside of work, I find that when I notice someone attractive, I am not as quick to look away when they might notice me checking them out. Eye contact and a smile usually give the same in return, so there must be many many people not 'grossed out' by the big fat dude looking st them
Now to build confidence and maybe talk to some
Smiles are a huge confidence builder.
As to confidence, I think that is definitely key.
As I work where I an enormous number of people every day, I decided I was going to force myself to look each and every customer directly in the eye when talking to them. Having incorporated that into my day, I have so many people smiling at me back it is amazing.
Taking that outside of work, I find that when I notice someone attractive, I am not as quick to look away when they might notice me checking them out. Eye contact and a smile usually give the same in return, so there must be many many people not 'grossed out' by the big fat dude looking st them
Now to build confidence and maybe talk to some
Smiles are a huge confidence builder.
Yay for bumping this thread!
As to confidence, I think that is definitely key.
As I work where I an enormous number of people every day, I decided I was going to force myself to look each and every customer directly in the eye when talking to them. Having incorporated that into my day, I have so many people smiling at me back it is amazing.
Taking that outside of work, I find that when I notice someone attractive, I am not as quick to look away when they might notice me checking them out. Eye contact and a smile usually give the same in return, so there must be many many people not 'grossed out' by the big fat dude looking st them
Now to build confidence and maybe talk to some
Smiles are a huge confidence builder.
So completely true. I love a confident man that knows what he wants and knows he deserves it. There's nothing sexier than that attitude.
KatNW1
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Glad I go in late tomorrow and was up to see this. I feel bad for guys who get caught up in this (it's as bad for you as it is for us and breast size, believe me).
Here's the deal on penis size (for me, anyway - and forgive me if I screw up what I'm really trying to say here):
A REAL woman is not concerned with it. It's not quantity so much as quality. I've been with a few men in my day, some (overly) well endowed, some average, a couple a bit below average - if you believe in averages....and I have to say, they were of varying talents with what they had. Bigger isn't always better. I'm more about touching and kissing and exploring what gets me hot (and off!) than I am straight up intercourse anyway. (Not that I don't like a good pounding once in a while, but Jesus, there's more to sex than Tab A into Slot B.)
If I was turned on by a man who happened to be on the smaller side, then he'd fired me up before he got his pants off, and at that point, I'm not concerned. If a larger guy didn't do it for me, then he'd not known what to do for me (ha ha) from the start.
It's QUALITY, not quantity.
If a woman is concerned about penis size, then she'd better not be upset when some bloke rejects her because her tits are too small by his standards. It's sort of the same thing. It reduces the human being to something I don't want to be associated with.
That said, I will say my SO is 6'5" tall, I have no idea what he weighs but he does happen to be in decent shape (he could be better, but hell - so could I!), and he's proportioned accordingly, but that didn't matter a whit to me. He had me long before he had me, so to speak.
It's QUALITY that really matters. If you're attentive to her needs, treat her like a queen (if, of course, she deserves it), find out what she likes and doesn't like, both in the bedroom and out, size is irrelevant.
If the guy doesn't, then his dick doesn't matter - because she won't give him an opportunity to show it off to start with.
Teddy_Bear1990
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wanted to say thank you guys for resurrecting the topic, ladies, I know its been said, but us big guys, we won't try to break your heart or hit it and quit it, most of us big guys (with the exception of the bad apples of the bunch) just want a girl to cuddle with or snuggle with, or spend hours making sweet love to you, focusing on every nerve ending that we caress until you feel like you are gonna explode, then with the smallest movement and touch we will bring you through a powerful orgasm and we will not stop until you are satisfied. we want to make you feel good, we were made for tender loving ladies, never forget that
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Enjoyed the last variation of this thread as a topic & glad to see it return. Much like like it's female counterparts it's interesting to see the different definitions. Either way, I feel I belong. Glad to see some appreciation beyond the lean Hollywood look...
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i lost my virginity to a bigger guy- he was super gentle
