my neighbor introduced that to me...she poured me a finger and said try it etc...Yellow Spot
thats a lot of whisky indeed...maybe you drink more whisky and I make use of other alcohols more???
its natural more often thats for sure!Natural for me.
Sexy silk/satin dress (lots of exposed skin) with your long, dark, wavy hair cascading down your back and over your shoulder. What a thought!
thank you for shining a light on this..and I agree with you wholeheartedly. I know what this site is and why many come here, but I hope that just seeing my breasts, or yours or the many others shared on this site, should not be the reason people enjoy our threads. It should be the "cherry on top" if you will. I mean, are you all starved for seeing breasts amongst the 10 trillion adult sites? I do not think so. And I know you enjoy our brains as well as seeing our bodies. I LOOOOVE that you all enjoy looking at the pics, desiring me, but also sometimes it does feel a bit like...well, for me at least as I do not want to speak for Bean or anyone else, but I try to give so much to this site and I know not everyone reads books often, or watches a certain show or sport or has an "interesting" job or story to share daily or weekly, or even wants to enagage at all...but it would feel nice if some of the random stories and questions that are asked, that are not purely sexual, are engaged with a bit more? Heck, even start the convo yourself?Morning Kit!
I really relate to this. In fact, I think you’re articulating something that’s become increasingly visible in the way engagement functions here.
I’ve noticed a similar shift on here, both on my own thread and more broadly across the entire site. When I first joined last February, most threads, even Am Pics, felt like spaces for conversation. There were busy threads such as Boobs Butts and Bedlam that would be POPPING all hours of the day. There would be users dropping in to talk about sex, debauchery, books, films, ideas, life… and engagement didn’t hinge so heavily on visual content (sexual or not).
It’s especially noticeable when you look back at older threads (even yours) and compare them to now. Posts that invite discussion or reflection often receive veryyy little response, while naughty/or not so naughty, images generate pretty damn immediate interaction. That isn’t a criticism of anyone in particular, but it is a bit disheartening when you’re someone who enjoys actual dialogue (love reading word interactions, especially the back and forths for example in your old thread), engaging in conversations and discussions. I also have to say that via DM MANY (in my experience) users tend to send longer messages of concern when I’ve posted my view on the litsers that seem to only engage when pictures have been posted but that’s a whole different thing.
You can see the contrast in engagement just by looking at yesterday where you posted a series of incredibly hot pictures…now compare that to days where you might post a single/1 or two photos and then follow it with genuinely interesting and very engaging prompts… lists of books, series you’re watching, questions that invite discussion… (not, choose between which naked pose or body part you wanna see), and the response is incredibly minimal, limited to the same two or three regulars and really feels like proof of how interaction here on lit has shifted massively.
Anyway, like I said before this certainly isn’t a value judgement about individuals’ behaviour, but it should be understandable that such a dynamic would feel discouraging for those who are here not just to post/share pics but have intellectual or conversational exchanges.
For what it’s worth, to me anyway, the posts where you share your interests and thoughts are the ones that give the clearest sense of who you are, and they’re the kind of contributions that made this space feel engaging and worth returning to. I hope there remains room, and appetite for that kind of participation, because it adds far more depth than fleeting interactions over nudes ever could.
(Ps, your pictures are stunning but your brain is fucking wonderful and I think those two should be seen as things that go hand in hand.)
U look very different in this
author?
yep, seemed a bit different when I started a year ago. Not necessarily worse, just different.I hear you girl! Really well said.
And absolutely no offence taken I’m sure Kit will second that.
However I have to say my experience with AM pics wasn’t always the way it is now, maybe Kit might agree too. When I actually started my own thread it worked perfectly because I believe it sat in the overlap. I could post pictures, enjoy the playful, erotic back and forths, and have proper conversations alongside it. For example I didn’t have to “earn” discussion by being visually provocative first.
I personally don’t think the dynamic is as simple as “the more attention you give them, the less they’ll dig deeper.” What I’ve noticed is that when engagement consistently follows one type of contribution, it trains everyone…posters and lurkers, and commenters on what to prioritise.
I also entirely understand why you wouldn’t open a new thread, however much people would love you too
(Plus this type of conversation/discussion is highly stimulating and will give some litsers food for thought.)
one reason why some parts of me remain a mystery to be fair...keep people coming back...Unfortunately, in my experience, that’s because most men have already “conquered” you.
Not in a dominant or possessive way, just… it’s just the way the habit or affliction oraddictioncontinues to spread. Once the mystery and intrigue wear off, they can’t help but look for those same flutters over and over.
I truly don’t believe most men are faking interest, I just think it wanes in ways we internalize and in turn, we feel like our worth has diminished when in reality, it’s the vicious cycle and outcome of consuming this type of content day in and day out.
I DO agree about controlling and navigating the tone of the thread, but there’s only so much you can really do if men who have the ability to be literate have checked out. You’ll just get flooded with “so hot” and “can we see you from the back with a hand spreading you open and a smile while you’re at it, huh babe?”
i dont need everyone to engage on different topics.
I just love the fact there are open minded people like yourself willing to chat. I don’t have that in my life. My job means it’s unlikely and my marriage has lost that. I sincerely thank you for sharing what you do.thank you for shining a light on this..and I agree with you wholeheartedly. I know what this site is and why many come here, but I hope that just seeing my breasts, or yours or the many others shared on this site, should not be the reason people enjoy our threads. It should be the "cherry on top" if you will. I mean, are you all starved for seeing breasts amongst the 10 trillion adult sites? I do not think so. And I know you enjoy our brains as well as seeing our bodies. I LOOOOVE that you all enjoy looking at the pics, desiring me, but also sometimes it does feel a bit like...well, for me at least as I do not want to speak for Bean or anyone else, but I try to give so much to this site and I know not everyone reads books often, or watches a certain show or sport or has an "interesting" job or story to share daily or weekly, or even wants to enagage at all...but it would feel nice if some of the random stories and questions that are asked, that are not purely sexual, are engaged with a bit more? Heck, even start the convo yourself?
I appreciate those of you who do, truly. That is why I keep coming back to the site. It isnt to upload another picture of my ass and get 20 likes on it. I love making you all smile however I can, including yes, turning you on if at all possible, but also...to spark conversations, to learn and to laugh!
ok, rant over, *steps off soapbox*
thanks for listening
well said.
maybe, even likely yes, but theres lots of ppl who frequent this thread so anyone can comment, ask questions, whatever. Some have. And those questions certainly can be directed to me (first or otherwise) but anyone can respond!
younger...but legal!
An entertainer once made the comment " always keep them wanting ".thank you for shining a light on this..and I agree with you wholeheartedly. I know what this site is and why many come here, but I hope that just seeing my breasts, or yours or the many others shared on this site, should not be the reason people enjoy our threads. It should be the "cherry on top" if you will. I mean, are you all starved for seeing breasts amongst the 10 trillion adult sites? I do not think so. And I know you enjoy our brains as well as seeing our bodies. I LOOOOVE that you all enjoy looking at the pics, desiring me, but also sometimes it does feel a bit like...well, for me at least as I do not want to speak for Bean or anyone else, but I try to give so much to this site and I know not everyone reads books often, or watches a certain show or sport or has an "interesting" job or story to share daily or weekly, or even wants to enagage at all...but it would feel nice if some of the random stories and questions that are asked, that are not purely sexual, are engaged with a bit more? Heck, even start the convo yourself?
I appreciate those of you who do, truly. That is why I keep coming back to the site. It isnt to upload another picture of my ass and get 20 likes on it. I love making you all smile however I can, including yes, turning you on if at all possible, but also...to spark conversations, to learn and to laugh!
ok, rant over, *steps off soapbox*
thanks for listening
Talisker. Rocks or not, no worries.
My god - we are so on the same page.
my god - we are so on the same page. Shame we are ages and a continent apart…
I am listening and I hear you, Kit.thank you for shining a light on this..and I agree with you wholeheartedly. I know what this site is and why many come here, but I hope that just seeing my breasts, or yours or the many others shared on this site, should not be the reason people enjoy our threads. It should be the "cherry on top" if you will. I mean, are you all starved for seeing breasts amongst the 10 trillion adult sites? I do not think so. And I know you enjoy our brains as well as seeing our bodies. I LOOOOVE that you all enjoy looking at the pics, desiring me, but also sometimes it does feel a bit like...well, for me at least as I do not want to speak for Bean or anyone else, but I try to give so much to this site and I know not everyone reads books often, or watches a certain show or sport or has an "interesting" job or story to share daily or weekly, or even wants to enagage at all...but it would feel nice if some of the random stories and questions that are asked, that are not purely sexual, are engaged with a bit more? Heck, even start the convo yourself?
I appreciate those of you who do, truly. That is why I keep coming back to the site. It isnt to upload another picture of my ass and get 20 likes on it. I love making you all smile however I can, including yes, turning you on if at all possible, but also...to spark conversations, to learn and to laugh!
ok, rant over, *steps off soapbox*
thanks for listening
Asako Yuzuki
So we can plan a party/reunion in Europe next year? I’m game.
I pretty much only drink whisky. I'm glad I have a whisky buying problem and not a whisky drinking problem. I like my liver healthy.
...then it wasn't a real dad joke
Do you plan to visit Europe next year?
Don't forget Ronnie Peterson (Super Swede). My hero when I was a kid! He was faster than Niki Lauda according to Niki Lauda.
I plan on being Italy for some of it, not sure if I stop off in Spain or Netherlands or England or Austria or what
