Lit Womens Spread Thread

You know you're punishing good people because of jerks.
You know, blaming AD for other people making her uncomfortable puts you right in that same category as those jerks.

Apparently this needs to be said. AuntieDisco is truly one of the best people on this site, and not just because she showed us the hidden bits. She shared a ton of herself with all of us pervs. When she said that she didn't like how some people were treating her, the treatment not only didn't stop, it seems to have gotten worse. There have been a whole bunch of amazing women that have left this site entirely because of how they are treated, so unless we want her to join that group leave some compliments or leave her the hell alone.
 
You know, blaming AD for other people making her uncomfortable puts you right in that same category as those jerks.

Apparently this needs to be said. AuntieDisco is truly one of the best people on this site, and not just because she showed us the hidden bits. She shared a ton of herself with all of us pervs. When she said that she didn't like how some people were treating her, the treatment not only didn't stop, it seems to have gotten worse. There have been a whole bunch of amazing women that have left this site entirely because of how they are treated, so unless we want her to join that group leave some compliments or leave her the hell alone.
Damn right!
 
You know, blaming AD for other people making her uncomfortable puts you right in that same category as those jerks.

Apparently this needs to be said. AuntieDisco is truly one of the best people on this site, and not just because she showed us the hidden bits. She shared a ton of herself with all of us pervs. When she said that she didn't like how some people were treating her, the treatment not only didn't stop, it seems to have gotten worse. There have been a whole bunch of amazing women that have left this site entirely because of how they are treated, so unless we want her to join that group leave some compliments or leave her the hell alone.
What's fascinating, and appalling to me, is how prevalent these actions are. I always (naively) assumed a site predicated on the written art first would be more sophisticated. That has nothing to do with salacious or naughty exposure, but I just assumed the indignant assumption of entitlement would be less. Nope! Men here are probably more predatory than in reality because they're emboldened by digital anonymity. It sucks for those of us trying not to be one of those guys, and I know that the few times I "complain" about it I'm ALWAYS intending to do so in jest.

But for fuck's sake guys. Be humble! Be gracious! Be appreciative! And be respectful!

Damn
 
Because her feelings are less important than those good people?
Just a thought, but that might have been a compliment that landed badly, as opposed to someone having a pop at AD.

That said, it's always those who never post their own pics who whine about missing other people's...
 
Well, that's one way to introduce yourself to the world of Lit! Great pic - thanks for posting! :love:
You know, blaming AD for other people making her uncomfortable puts you right in that same category as those jerks.

Apparently this needs to be said. AuntieDisco is truly one of the best people on this site, and not just because she showed us the hidden bits. She shared a ton of herself with all of us pervs. When she said that she didn't like how some people were treating her, the treatment not only didn't stop, it seems to have gotten worse. There have been a whole bunch of amazing women that have left this site entirely because of how they are treated, so unless we want her to join that group leave some compliments or leave her the hell alone.

What's fascinating, and appalling to me, is how prevalent these actions are. I always (naively) assumed a site predicated on the written art first would be more sophisticated. That has nothing to do with salacious or naughty exposure, but I just assumed the indignant assumption of entitlement would be less. Nope! Men here are probably more predatory than in reality because they're emboldened by digital anonymity. It sucks for those of us trying not to be one of those guys, and I know that the few times I "complain" about it I'm ALWAYS intending to do so in jest.

But for fuck's sake guys. Be humble! Be gracious! Be appreciative! And be respectful!

Damn
I have always tried to be complimentary in my responses to the many pics posted on Lit - and hopefully I have succeeded most of the time. I've been here long enough now to know which ladies do accept the salacious remarks and which don't and I'll admit I have overstepped the mark on a few occasions and then withdrawn the comments. With AD, I have done my best to be courteous and added a touch of humour too, so much so that she once responded with a remark along the lines of "loving my commentary"
 
Just a thought, but that might have been a compliment that landed badly, as opposed to someone having a pop at AD.

That said, it's always those who never post their own pics who whine about missing other people's...
I don’t intend to reply to any of these conversations because I wanted to talk a break from my exhibitionist post until I feel chirpy, and while I understand what you’re saying Salty and completely agree that such posters whine the most. It’s not fair that I be guilted into doing something I’m not ready for and I think that’s what other guys were trying to say. I mean look at the self entitled piece of shit who replied right under you.
Where's the fun if your DMs are closed?
I think her fun matters the most. Until then keep your unsolicited opinion up your ass if you can’t thank a lady for being brave enough to share herself.
 
I don’t intend to reply to any of these conversations because I wanted to talk a break from my exhibitionist post until I feel chirpy, and while I understand what you’re saying Salty and completely agree that such posters whine the most. It’s not fair that I be guilted into doing something I’m not ready for and I think that’s what other guys were trying to say. I mean look at the self entitled piece of shit who replied right under you.

I think her fun matters the most. Until then keep your unsolicited opinion up your ass if you can’t thank a lady for being brave enough to share herself.
Sorry, wasn't meaning to belittle what you're going through. Just saying that comments can be misunderstood sometimes.

Anyway, I shouldn't have pokedy nose in and I'll apologise again and go back to hiding in the shadows again
 
Sorry, wasn't meaning to belittle what you're going through. Just saying that comments can be misunderstood sometimes.
I know you weren’t I was just having a conversation with you.
Anyway, I shouldn't have pokedy nose in and I'll apologise again and go back to hiding in the shadows again
Please don’t. I still think of you as a friend and I’m glad you responded, I think all kind of opinions matters.
 
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