Lusting after married or committed women.

[Reshbod]

In fantasy it is a turn on, in real life it is not. For me most of my fantasies deal with "forbidden fruit", much older men with younger women, pregnant women with strangers, etc.

 

[liqueur]

Is it an actual fetish to be turned on by the idea of hooking up with a woman already commit to another man?

I think it's pretty common. I've experienced it. I've also experienced the converse: that women are more apt to express interest in me if I'm attached than if I'm single. I don't know whether it's because, attached, I'm safer to flirt with, or because, attached, I represent more of a challenge— or if it's jiust because a man in a relationship is "pre-road-tested."

 

[Tomahawk26]

That may be true in bars and clubs. But in my experience and circle of friends, the married women who are on the hunt or "open to suggestion" make no secret of their status. In fact, they most often connect with guys who know them pretty well -- co-workers, et cetera. And most aren't looking for a one-night stand, but a slightly longer affair.

Ladies -- your thoughts?

Perhaps it's different if you're a married woman who is allowed to pursue extra fun. . . but I am never looking for an affair. If this behavior were not okay with my husband, I could just as easily forget it and I would never cheat on him. That doesn't interest me in the least. But yes, for me it is easier to approach someone I already know.

 

[amofiga]

This has been an interesting thread with different points of view. I think the thrill or desire to have sex with another man's wife does indeed touch on that "dominance" thing somebody suggested. It also is exciting to see a wife and mother behave like a female in heat that is just out for sexual gratification no matter who's cock it is. It's very exiting for a man to see a woman behave that way and especially exciting if it's forbidden fruit and you know she's just out for sex and not some long term thing. I think we humans aren't far up the food chain from the Bonobo chimps that have sex nearly all the time with just about any other Bonobo in the area. They have sex all the time. It's part of what they are and I think we aren't much different other than the rules and regulations imposed by society, the Church, whatever. Take that away and we are just animals under the fancy designer clothes and shoes.

 

[1Browneyedguy]

THIS is interesting ....

( I deal w/ lots of people.. both men and women.. some married some engaged.. some single)

It's also interesting to "see" if the man who can be a real pain in the ass OR a cheapskate ... and sometimes I know his finance or wife, IF she sees the same thing as me...

on the flip side, I've dealt with some women who can be incrediably rude OR cheap and I wonder how they are with their partners in real life.

Maybe that's why some married women seek someone else to be with ... part of the time.

 

[goesallnight]

This has been an interesting thread with different points of view. I think the thrill or desire to have sex with another man's wife does indeed touch on that "dominance" thing somebody suggested. It also is exciting to see a wife and mother behave like a female in heat that is just out for sexual gratification no matter who's cock it is. It's very exiting for a man to see a woman behave that way and especially exciting if it's forbidden fruit and you know she's just out for sex and not some long term thing. I think we humans aren't far up the food chain from the Bonobo chimps that have sex nearly all the time with just about any other Bonobo in the area. They have sex all the time. It's part of what they are and I think we aren't much different other than the rules and regulations imposed by society, the Church, whatever. Take that away and we are just animals under the fancy designer clothes and shoes.

SOunds like you read Sex at Dawn. I did and I highly recommend it. I agree with your points.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

my first story is a series about a guy addicted to married women. In the story, if I remember correctly it was the thrill of the conquest, not so much the competition with the husband, but seducing a woman outside of her "normal" moral parameters that he was most addicted to.

http://www.literotica.com/s/for-married-eyes-only

 

[Mantra23a]

I've been with several women that were married or in a committed relationship; however, I wasn't intentionally looking for a married women, they just happened to be. In each case I don't know or have never met the husband so I don't know how that feels.

In my 20's there were a couple of older women I picked up in bars, later I found a women on the net through a forum, she just wanted sex and we did it for a few months until we both moved on.

I've had a LTR with a married women going on for over a decade now, we talk a lot, have great sex and go back to our regular married lives. It just works.

 

[Beck31]

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[Somehowyou]

I have my lines in the sand. Sometimes they blur. My problem is with the men who deliberatly break up families. There are several men here on Lit that are dealing with this issue right now. I'm not here to judge. But if you are the douche promising life is better on the other side and have no intentions of a "future" with a woman with a family she leaves said family, then you are a fucking ass hole IMO.

As everything communication is key.

What about the husband that is home taking care of the babies after work while your wife is out being courted by this guy? I have been this guy at one point in my life. I would come home from my professional job and my wife was off to work at her waitress job and then off clubing after that. The fucking worthless bitch would come home and scream at me for not keeping the house clean while she was out fucking. I put the blame on her. She is the one that made the initial commitment.

We all love the forbidden fruit.

 

[Teddybarehead]

Last time we talked about this was last year in september, but I've got something I want to talk about. I've had this online friend for a long time now. We would write sexual roleplaying stories and such but she would never cyber with me because she felt like it was cheating on her husband. I don't know what has happened with her, but All of the sudden I'm able to get her to send me pics, and we've been exchanging these pictures for a few days now. She lives in canada so I can't be physical with her, but sometimes I'll ask her to go into the bathroom at work and take a pic for me and she does, so fucking exciting for me.

 

[VladHarkonnen]

Is it an actual fetish to be turned on by the idea of hooking up with a woman already commit to another man?

It's not like i go out seeking that, but it seems like everywhere I turn I am talking with someone who shouldn't even be talking to me...haha. It's like i like them, i find out they are committed to someone else, and part of me doesn't give a shit.

I knew a guy in high school that only pursued girls that had boyfriends. In fact, I saw him stop trying to get with one particular girl when her boyfriend dumped her. I also have a friend currently who tends to get fixated on women that are unavailable...married women, women in relationships, or women going through tough times with a spouse (he especially likes these). I don't know if this is a fetish or not but I suppose it could be.

 

[Teddybarehead]

I'm not sure either, it just seems like I'm drawn to some of these unavailable women, and when they make themselves available to me despite their circumstances it's sexy as hell.

 

[Tmmldr]

I'm not sure either, it just seems like I'm drawn to some of these unavailable women, and when they make themselves available to me despite their circumstances it's sexy as hell.

I've done it with a couple married women and don't have regrets, but I made sure they were not on a revenge trip or hate trip or otherwise crazy somehow.

No interest in being used here.

 

[Teddybarehead]

This one chick I gamed with a lot, her bf went to jail for six months and she fooled around with me, sent pictures got on cam, phone sex, all of it. When he got out though she totally stopped talking to me, i guess he found out or something, but that was probably one of my favorites.

 

[dldavito]

Lovin this thread! Just thinking about fucking another mans wife then sending her home to hubby and family can give me a woodie. Forbidden fruit is defiantly the sweetest and most satisfying.

If any of you are not familiar with fap, you need to check the (free) site out. Many of the postings are about cheating sex with married moms. I have some under my user name of dldavito.
Here's a link: http://www.********.com/photo/181935977/?pgid=&gid=4045491&page=0

 

[VladHarkonnen]

I've done it with a couple married women and don't have regrets, but I made sure they were not on a revenge trip or hate trip or otherwise crazy somehow.

No interest in being used here.

Actually, in a way, I'd almost prefer that. At least then I know I'm not sticking my cock into an otherwise healthy relationship...potentially ruining a good thing. I don't care if I'm being used...the using is mutual and it's not like I want to establish any kind real relationship with a chick rebounding from her crappy marriage.

 

[Teddybarehead]

Most of the time it's with seperated ladies that i've fooled around with.

 

[Ahi_Viking]

Fruit

Recently I thought back on my history and realized that my hottest sex was always with a woman (or two) who were in relationships with another man. Had a mind blowing blowjob from a married mom...talk about feeling conflicted. She claimed her husband had lost interest in sex. Back in my 20s I'd often have amazing nights with women who'd confide the next morning that they had serious boyfriends. Anyway - I noted this connection of super hot sex and women who were committed with other men. Frankly, I find it a little troubling. What element is it, and why does it seem so rare with commitment, that made these ladies bust loose like that? Hmmmm, if only I could bottle that.

 

[mwmbb13]

I am 35 now and have been dating/fucking married women since I was 19. At first I felt bad, but the women persued me. After a girlfriend cheated on me with a NFL player, I began peruing married women. I think it was someways "getting back" and other ways, I wouldn't get to close with these women, so that I didn't get hurt.

I also did a lot of couples where the husband watched and/or helped out. That was very empowering! Knowing that I was fucking this man's wife in ways he couldn't. I am 9" and quite thick, so it was like being in the pornos you see.

I had a lot. Of success on a major website that encouraged married people to cheat. Most of the women were in loveless/sexless marriages and just wanted someone to lust and crave after them, like their hubbies used to. So men, don't take your wives for granted.

I did love every minute of it and never tried to breakup a marriage or lead a woman on that I was interested in more than a friendship and hot passionate sex!

 

[dldavito]

C'mon Man!

This thread is getting interesting. There is nothing like fucking a hot woman, cumming inside her, then feeling her pulsating orgasms as she cums with your cock buried deep inside her forbidden snatch...

All with no commitment on your part, basking in the sensual evil of it and then sending her home to her husband while you go out for a pizza and beer. Admit it guys, seducing a married woman is fun.

And yet I'm reading about guilt feelings by the guys doing the fucking! If anyone should feel guilty, it should be her... often this just adds to the erotic sensation of the experience. It will make her a better wife to her hubby.

Man up and enjoy the treat.
- dld

 

[swingofthings]

Not sure if this is related but I seemed to get hit on MORE after I put on a wedding band than before, and more brazenly i might add.

 

[Teddybarehead]

I'm trading pics with a married woman right now, I don't know if i could be anymore turned on. She's dodged my efforts in the past but for some reason right now she's letting me see some very naughty pictures.

 

[Beck31]

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[Teddybarehead]

Not sure if this is related but I seemed to get hit on MORE after I put on a wedding band than before, and more brazenly i might add.

I guess there's less worry of the unknown, either you will definitely say no, or it'll be hot forbidden sex. I wouldn't say I hit on married women more, but if I've already flirted with someone and they flirt back but they mention they're married I guess I do try harder, sometimes it's worked out to be a good idea.