Lusting after married or committed women.

[scarletA]

That may be true in bars and clubs. But in my experience and circle of friends, the married women who are on the hunt or "open to suggestion" make no secret of their status. In fact, they most often connect with guys who know them pretty well -- co-workers, et cetera. And most aren't looking for a one-night stand, but a slightly longer affair.

Ladies -- your thoughts?

The only affair I have had lasted for just over a year. It was with a guy I had known for about 10 years. It was not something I went looking for - just turned into something more.....It was easy (not the decision to have the affair, just easy being with him) - I think because I was already comfortable with him....I don't know if I could actively "be on the hunt" though...

 

[Teddybarehead]

The only affair I have had lasted for just over a year. It was with a guy I had known for about 10 years. It was not something I went looking for - just turned into something more.....It was easy (not the decision to have the affair, just easy being with him) - I think because I was already comfortable with him....I don't know if I could actively "be on the hunt" though...

ScarletA, thanks for sharing your story.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

When I got engaged I was told that I would be flirted with more. It didn't happen and I was quite disappointed.

Having said that, before opening our relationship I cheated on hubby twice, once a drug fueled one night stand with a guy who didn't know I was attached, the other time with a guy I had wanted in high school that I ran into and pursued. He did the guilt thing afterward and wouldn't talk to me.
Since hubby and I opened our relationship I have enjoyed some online fun with a few people, guys and gals. I now have an online Dom and hubby has no issue with it. It's fun.

 

[Teddybarehead]

When I got engaged I was told that I would be flirted with more. It didn't happen and I was quite disappointed.

Having said that, before opening our relationship I cheated on hubby twice, once a drug fueled one night stand with a guy who didn't know I was attached, the other time with a guy I had wanted in high school that I ran into and pursued. He did the guilt thing afterward and wouldn't talk to me.
Since hubby and I opened our relationship I have enjoyed some online fun with a few people, guys and gals. I now have an online Dom and hubby has no issue with it. It's fun.

MissMaidenMinx, thanks for sharing that, I'm glad that you're able to persue all your sexual desires without harming your relationship with your husband.

 

[Teddybarehead]

So this tread was interesting, anyone else have any stories, advice, or comments to share?