Marriage Question :(:(

[jeepinguy1]

Sorry guys I hope I didn't make any of you upset....... I didn't mean for my message to come out that way ......... The biggest problem I have "and don't laugh" Women can say one thing and mean another .......... Thats why I am confused about the cause of my situation. I tend to think it is the church thing but she says it's not. I do go to church with her but I wonder if I am just making it worse......... As for how my sex life is during the one time a week. It is very "vanila" same thing repeated over and over........ Before we roleplayed, tried every position that we could get into, talked dirty to each other, used toys, watched erotic movies together, sexy outfits, she would even time when I came home so I would catch her mastrubating, etc............ but now it's missonary or her on top nothing else .............. How does someone go from one extreme to the other with a snap of there fingers ?????????

I know it didn't sound like it but thanks to all of you for trying to give me some help ...............

 

[wicked woman]

Sorry guys I hope I didn't make any of you upset....... I didn't mean for my message to come out that way ......... The biggest problem I have "and don't laugh" Women can say one thing and mean another .......... Thats why I am confused about the cause of my situation. I tend to think it is the church thing but she says it's not. I do go to church with her but I wonder if I am just making it worse......... As for how my sex life is during the one time a week. It is very "vanila" same thing repeated over and over........ Before we roleplayed, tried every position that we could get into, talked dirty to each other, used toys, watched erotic movies together, sexy outfits, she would even time when I came home so I would catch her mastrubating, etc............ but now it's missonary or her on top nothing else .............. How does someone go from one extreme to the other with a snap of there fingers ?????????

I know it didn't sound like it but thanks to all of you for trying to give me some help ...............

Has she perhaps bought into the 'fact' that a mature responsible adult needs to be conservative, not interested or adventurous in sex? Kind of like the commercials they used to have a long time ago where this married couple of seniors lived an active life until the adult kids called saying they were coming to visit...then the couple became the traditional grandparents. Old fogey clothes...old fogey decor complete with nic knacks...and walked slow and shuffled.

Maybe she really does think this is what's expected of her.