Married Cocksuckers, Have you confessed to your wife?

[40sBiCuckCple]

Mine too….everyone should be so lucky.

 

[Greekguy1963]

I’ve been bi since before college, and my wife knew all about it when we started dating. She found the concept to be quite arousing. Fast forward to some serious marriage trauma 5 years ago, and I became a full cuckold. Then fast forward to the past weekend when she and another wife had arranged for the 4 of us to have some “playtime”, but the girls wanted me to cross dress and play the role of a she male. I confess, I have met other guys that crossdressed but it was new to me. The girls put a lot of work into getting me passable (sort of) and I have to admit that the experience was wonderful. Any other guys being led down this trail by their wife of significant other?

Sounds

 

[klippert]

before we were married to told my future wife that I had m/m sex experiences before and in college. She chalked it up to experimenting and wasn't totally shocked. in addition; in her industry, she worked with a lot of gay men and told me how they 'all' kiss and tell. So she was, in a way turned on. fast forward... 22 years with the family life.. my wife slowly over time lost her sex drive, and was very upset that she's lost her mojo.
few weeks ago she asked me if I still had those m/m attractions.. telling me she thought often about our first conversation about my bi-sexual activities in college, and that she did worry that investing herself in someone who might be gay did worry her.. Yet I am over the top enthusiastic about sex with her and she even got accustomed to my roaming eyes. I was and still am not afraid to admire a woman. She realized quickly I had several kinks, but my m/m desires were never a threat to her, our relationship or our marriage. The reason I mention this has to do with my wife asking me about my M/M attraction.. "is it still there." I told her it has never gone away... "I just haven't' acted on it" . I was maneuvering... because I was instantly wondering if she had found out that my buddy and I have been taking care of your 'needs'.
if you follow any of my posts you will know since late summer "21" I reconnected with a guy I met through a mutual friend. The conversation went on several tangents... I just let her talk... responded when I thought it was helpful. she truly understand that we have needs....I have needs and doesn't want to compete with another woman... and in a passive way she understand two men helping each other out. I asked her what she meant... "I don't know...Just... Men probably need it more than woman..."
was it a green light or her way of saying I know and it okay" ... Im Not sure... only ... I've run the red light already.

 

[michaelinteas]

before we were married to told my future wife that I had m/m sex experiences before and in college. She chalked it up to experimenting and wasn't totally shocked. in addition; in her industry, she worked with a lot of gay men and told me how they 'all' kiss and tell. So she was, in a way turned on. fast forward... 22 years with the family life.. my wife slowly over time lost her sex drive, and was very upset that she's lost her mojo.
few weeks ago she asked me if I still had those m/m attractions.. telling me she thought often about our first conversation about my bi-sexual activities in college, and that she did worry that investing herself in someone who might be gay did worry her.. Yet I am over the top enthusiastic about sex with her and she even got accustomed to my roaming eyes. I was and still am not afraid to admire a woman. She realized quickly I had several kinks, but my m/m desires were never a threat to her, our relationship or our marriage. The reason I mention this has to do with my wife asking me about my M/M attraction.. "is it still there." I told her it has never gone away... "I just haven't' acted on it" . I was maneuvering... because I was instantly wondering if she had found out that my buddy and I have been taking care of your 'needs'.
if you follow any of my posts you will know since late summer "21" I reconnected with a guy I met through a mutual friend. The conversation went on several tangents... I just let her talk... responded when I thought it was helpful. she truly understand that we have needs....I have needs and doesn't want to compete with another woman... and in a passive way she understand two men helping each other out. I asked her what she meant... "I don't know...Just... Men probably need it more than woman..."
was it a green light or her way of saying I know and it okay" ... Im Not sure... only ... I've run the red light already.

I would love to hear more about this if you are so inclined.

 

[Hornymistepdad]

My wife knows(thinks) I'm curious. But doesn't know any of my past, or present.

Same here..

 

[Uncut1969]

Wish my wife would except my bi curious ! If she wants to withhold then I should be able to play

 

[Curiousbwb3557]

Mine knows I sucked a friend’s cock, and fucked his ass another time, she was not impressed.

Let her watch you do me

 

[Jodaily]

I'd never considered sucking cock until I was in my mid 50's. Sexless marriage had left me horny a lot, and watching porn progressed further and further into bi areas. Glory holes had me curious so I gave them a try a few times. Had a blast and now I'm hooked and can't wait to suck another cock. Not many opportunities to do so now. I made the mistake of telling my wife about this and she hit the roof. Took a long time to get past this. Still fantasize about it and jerk off thinking about it.

 

[svengali_decL]

I'd never considered sucking cock until I was in my mid 50's. Sexless marriage had left me horny a lot, and watching porn progressed further and further into bi areas. Glory holes had me curious so I gave them a try a few times. Had a blast and now I'm hooked and can't wait to suck another cock. Not many opportunities to do so now. I made the mistake of telling my wife about this and she hit the roof. Took a long time to get past this. Still fantasize about it and jerk off thinking about it.

I knew I was missing something when I visited CO a while back... believe the nudist spots also provide great shows

 

[Japansurfer]

Never thought about it. But might be something I encourage when I meet my next partner. Wouldn’t do alone I don’t think ….

 

[Easypeter]

My wife is suspicious. She has used her dildo on me and commented that enjoyed it too much not to like real cock.

Mmmmm I love your wife even if I don’t know her

 

[Uncut1969]

Mmmmm I love your wife even if I don’t know her

That just opened a whole new world

 

[Easypeter]

That just opened a whole new world

My wife caught me checking out a guy and asked if I liked what I saw . I told her I’d share him with her . She rubbed up against me and whispered: I know you are a pervert now !

 

[hardcorefool]

Yeah, she's watched me sucking one

 

[tristantrotsky]

Yeah, she's watched me sucking one

When I suck a cock, that is between me and the guy whose cock I happen to be sucking. No-one needs to know.

 

[dw_069]

I’m married but not a cocksucker. I have had a number of cocksuckers suck me. I found my first cocksucker 11 years ago on Craigslist while traveling for work.
This continued for the next 4 years then I had a job change and no longer traveled. I did find cocksuckers that were staying in a local hotel. I know have a couple of local cocksuckers that I have suck me. I do jack them off when there is time. Due to work schedules I do not get sucked enough.

No, my wife has no clue that I receive blowjobs from guys. It would not go good if she ever found out.

 

[Oldsucker]

I am married. I suck cocks.I am a cocksucker.

 

[swflabimale]

My wife knows everything about my past up to present day. I even confessed everything to her girlfriend (not a sexual thing between them, just close friends), but she knows my secrets and is non-judgemental

 

[BiVegasEd]

I have been bisexual since early teen years but loved women most of all. Wifey didn't know about my interest in cock sucking before being married. We used to read Penthouse stories together at night and I noticed she really got turned on by MMF stories and began hinting about having another guy with us and me sucking him. After many years of she agreed and we began looking and she openly encouraged my bisexual side. Not the cuck types of thing but more just open sex with other men with us equally, both enjoying oral and both being fucked by our playmates. As she has aged she is no longer interested in playing with other so now I am left doing side action only.
She would definitely NOT approve.

 

[Slowpick50]

No, doesn’t know that I have curiosity
But the way she talked about my brother-in-law when she found out that he was going on site and chatting and sharing pics with the other men
I definitely wouldn’t say anything
Kept this desire very quiet

 

[Travler99921]

I came out to my wife about my desire to suck cock before I had actually sucked a cock. Many discussions followed. Then about a month later she told me I should try it. It took about another month to actually have my first experience.

I knew after my first experience that I was a cocksucker, but I also knew I was bi and not gay. My wife and I continued to have sex. In fact our sex life improved. We became more open about our sexual needs

 

[BiVegasEd]

A while back I confessed to my wife of many years that beginning as an adolescent and continuing into adulthood, I'd been a voracious and insatiable cocksucker. I told her, in explicit detail, about episodes of me giving blowjobs, frequently to multiple men, one after another as they all stood around watching me and waiting to take their turn fucking my throat. She was surprised to learn that her macho husband had been a cocksucker, but accepted that this was in the past. I neglected to inform her that I'm still a compulsive cocksucker and that I still routinely meet with men to give them blowjobs. I love my wife and I don't like being dishonest with her, but I also refuse to deny my oral obsession. Anyone in a similar situation?

VERY similar

 

[ILikeIt]

Early in my marriage I told my wife that my first sexual experiences were exclusively with males. I told her I had given blow jobs to four different guys. Three of them just once and they didn’t reciprocate, but with the first guy It was mutual blow jobs about once a week and it went on for years (she knew all four guys). She was understanding and reacted positively saying it was natural because it felt good. Occasionally she would bring the subject up and ask questions about what I did. I’d gave her more detailed information especially about the long term relationship. I told her about all my encounters and admitted that I probably sucked cock over one hundred times. All but three of those times with one guy. Every now a then she seemed inquisitive. Years past and out of the blue she admitted to me that she had a fantasy of watching me have sex with a man. She says it’s just fantasy but now we play act it out with her strap-on while we watch gay porn together. We haven’t done it for real, but her telling me about her fantasy has elevated our sex to another level of eroticism. I get to fulfill her fantasy and I get to partially quench my desire to suck cock.

 

[guns4444]

I am like deathly afraid to tell her i want to suck a cock

 

[Topher1972]

I did to my ex wife as she is bi and was understanding. My current wife isn’t so open minded but knows I gave before her. She just doesn’t know that I do now.