I'm in that boat, too; hence this thread; I was at a swing party last week here in NYC (I already posted about that earlier). Loved watching all the fucking and sucking going on; there was one woman who was sucking this black guys cock about 3 feet away from me; I was memerized; I just wanted to start jacking it while she sucked; They have themed nights, and there's a "bi" one coming up; hopefully I'll have the guts to go and do more than watch...
Please report if you do go.